Ministering with Christlike Love: Lessons from Alma 17-19

 

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Serving and Ministering with the Love of Christ:
Insights from Alma 17-19

The chapters of Alma 17-19 in the Book of Mormon provide essential lessons for modern Latter-day Saints on serving and ministering with the Love of Christ. These chapters recount the missionary efforts of the sons of Mosiah—Ammon, Aaron, Omner, and Himni—who dedicated themselves to preaching to the Lamanites, traditionally viewed as enemies of their people. Their mission was characterized by profound preparation, genuine love, and a commitment to bridging spiritual gaps.

Preparation for their mission involved several key elements. The sons of Mosiah diligently studied the scriptures to gain guidance and understanding. They engaged in prayer and fasting, demonstrating their reliance on divine help. Additionally, they learned the language and culture of the Lamanites to communicate effectively. Their purpose was driven by a deep love for the Lamanites, as they sought to bring the light of the gospel to those who had long been estranged from the truth.

The societal conditions of the Lamanites were marked by moral decay and spiritual estrangement, reflecting challenges similar to those faced in the modern world. The Lamanites were known for their wickedness and idolatry, and their society was engulfed in practices contrary to gospel teachings. Despite this, the sons of Mosiah viewed the Lamanites with compassion and sought to connect with them through acts of kindness and genuine love, emphasizing the importance of Christlike love in overcoming barriers and opening hearts to the gospel.

Ammon’s story serves as a powerful example of serving with the Love of Christ. When Ammon was captured and brought before King Lamoni, he chose to offer his service rather than plead for his freedom. Assigned to protect the king’s flocks, Ammon demonstrated selflessness and courage when he defended the sheep from a band of thieves. This act of service-built trust with King Lamoni and opened the door for Ammon to share the gospel. Ammon’s actions reflected true service, which is rooted in genuine love and dedication to others.

Ammon’s encounter with King Lamoni illustrates several key principles. His willingness to serve without expectation of reward built a foundation of trust. His faith and courage in defending the flocks impressed the king and his servants, leading to a deeper respect for Ammon. This act of service not only protected the king’s possessions but also paved the way for spiritual teachings, demonstrating how acts of love can lead to powerful spiritual awakenings.

The narrative emphasizes the importance of faith and hope. Ammon’s faith guided his actions and decisions throughout his mission. He embarked on his journey with a clear purpose, believing that the Lamanites deserved to hear the gospel despite their reputation. His resilience in the face of adversity and his courageous actions showcased his unwavering trust in God. Ammon’s faith not only influenced his own decisions but also inspired hope in King Lamoni and the Lamanites. His dedication and integrity-built trust with the king, leading to a transformational journey for Lamoni and a ripple effect that encouraged many Lamanites to embrace the gospel.

The lessons from Alma 17-19 highlight the enduring importance of serving with humility, love, and genuine concern for others. Ammon’s example encourages individuals to offer help selflessly, show genuine concern for the well-being of others, and practice patience and kindness. These attributes foster trust and build stronger relationships, essential for effective ministry.

In practical terms, individuals can apply Ammon’s example in their communities through various forms of service. Volunteering for local community projects, engaging in neighborhood outreach, participating in church-organized service initiatives, and performing personal acts of kindness are all ways to demonstrate Christlike love. These actions not only benefit those served but also strengthen the faith and testimony of the individuals performing the service.

The narrative concludes by emphasizing that the Love of Christ, demonstrated through acts of service, remains a powerful tool for bridging gaps and fostering spiritual awakenings in a world often distant from spiritual values. By following the example set by Ammon and the sons of Mosiah, individuals can effectively share the gospel and inspire hope in their communities, ultimately transforming lives through the Love of Christ.

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Reintegrating with Grace: Helping Returning Members to LDS Fellowship

Navigating the journey back to the Latter-day Saint (LDS) faith is a significant and profound experience. It often involves grappling with doubts, adapting to changes, and overcoming personal struggles. Ministering effectively to those returning requires empathy, patience, and understanding. By showing grace and offering support, we can facilitate their reintegration into the church, ensuring they feel welcomed and valued.

The Importance of Ministering in Latter-day Saint Fellowship

The act of ministering is central to the Latter-day Saint faith, especially when helping those who are journeying back into full fellowship. Ministering is more than just providing physical help; it's about offering emotional and spiritual support to those in need. When we minister, we embody the spirit of Christ’s teachings, demonstrating love, empathy, and patience. Let's explore why this is so crucial.

Laboring with the Lord: Transforming Lives through Missionary Work

The core mission of the Lord's work, as outlined by Elder Cook, is the bringing of souls to Christ. This mission is crucial because it aligns with the greater plan of salvation. Elder Cook explains that through missionary work, we participate in helping others find peace, joy, and eternal life by coming unto Christ. This isn't just about increasing numbers in the church; it's about transforming lives and offering hope to those who may not have it.

Imagine you're stranded in a dark place with no way out. Suddenly, someone hands you a flashlight and shows you the path to safety. That's what missionary work does – it guides souls to the light and love of Jesus Christ.

Sharing the Gospel: Becoming an Instrument in God's Hands [Expository Study on Alma 17-22]

Have you ever hesitated to share the Gospel because you didn't feel qualified or thought people wouldn't be interested? You're not alone. Many of us, including the Nephites, have faced similar doubts. In Alma 17-22, we learn about the sons of Mosiah, who overcame such fears because they couldn’t bear the thought of any soul perishing without the chance of salvation. Their story is not just inspiring but also serves as a powerful reminder that we, too, can become instruments in God's hands. By studying these chapters, we'll see how love and desire for the salvation of others can drive us to share the Gospel with courage and conviction.

 Waxing Strong in Knowledge: Spiritual Maturity from Alma 17:1-4

Are you looking to deepen your scripture knowledge and strengthen your testimony of Jesus Christ? In Alma 17:1-4, we find a compelling example of how immersing oneself in scripture can fortify one's faith and commitment. The sons of Mosiah set a powerful precedent by diligently studying the scriptures, which helped them become "men of a sound understanding" and "wax strong in the knowledge of the truth."

Their consistent efforts didn't just build their knowledge; it also prepared them spiritually for their mission among the Lamanites. As you read through their experiences in Alma 17-22, you'll see how their dedication influenced their service and led to extraordinary blessings from the Lord. Reflect on their approach and consider what steps you can take to follow their example in your own spiritual journey. This post will explore how their practices can inspire us to strengthen our scripture knowledge and fortify our faith in challenging times.

Becoming an Instrument in God's Hands: Lessons from the Book of Mormon

In studying Alma 17:6-12 and 19:6-36, I see a profound message about becoming an instrument in God's hands, vividly demonstrated by the sons of Mosiah and Abish in the Book of Mormon. These passages emphasize aligning with God's will through essential practices like prayer, scripture study, and serving others. Through their stories, I'm reminded of the crucial qualities required to be such an instrument, including setting a good example and showing courage in preaching the Gospel. The sons of Mosiah's dedication and readiness to put themselves in difficult situations for the sake of their faith, along with Abish's quiet yet powerful influence, highlight the significance of personal character in this endeavor. In modern times, being an instrument in God's hands can manifest through missionary work and ministering as Jesus did, reaching out with compassion and faith. This narrative isn't just historical; it calls me to action today. Sharing my faith with others and striving to live by these principles has a transformational power, not just for me but for those I touch with my efforts. By doing so, I can fulfill a divine purpose, making a meaningful impact in the world around me.

Ministering with Christlike Love: Lessons from Alma 17-19

In a world increasingly riddled with moral and spiritual challenges, the timeless lessons of Alma 17-19 shine brightly. These chapters aren’t just historical recounts—they're a guide for modern-day Latter-day Saints who seek to serve and minister with the Love of Christ. By studying the examples set by the sons of Mosiah, who showed profound love and service towards the Lamanites, we gain valuable insights into effective missionary work today. Despite a society that seems to drift further from spiritual principles, Alma 17-19 illustrates that acts of kindness and genuine love can bridge gaps and soften hearts.

Today’s social and cultural shifts may appear daunting, yet the gospel’s power remains undiminished. Examples like Ammon’s service to King Lamoni reminds us how simple acts of love and dedication can lead to powerful spiritual awakenings. By extending Christlike love through our daily interactions, we can combat the prevailing spiritual rebellion and demonstrate the enduring relevance of the gospel. Let's embrace these lessons and continue to be effective missionaries, sharing the Love of Christ in our own communities.

Lamoni's Conversion and the Power of Repentance in Alma 19:16-36

Repentance isn't just an abstract concept; it's a vital, transformative process central to the teachings of the gospel. In Alma 19:16-36, we see a meaningful narrative of the Lord's call to repentance. This scripture highlights the profound need for each of us to turn away from our transgressions and seek God’s forgiveness earnestly.

Understanding and embracing repentance is essential for our spiritual well-being. It’s more than acknowledging our wrongs—it's a heartfelt change of mind and heart, guiding us to a renewed relationship with God. Alma's call illuminates this path, emphasizing that repentance leads to true peace and alignment with divine will.

We'll explore how repentance is not just a necessary step but also an invitation to experience God’s grace more deeply. By examining Alma's teachings, we gain insight into how repentance purifies us, enabling us to return to our Heavenly Father’s presence. Whether you've strayed slightly or far from His teachings, His call to repentance is clear: it’s never too late to turn back and find joy in His saving grace.

Sacrificial Transformation: Lessons from King Lamoni and the Rich Young Ruler

When we discuss the concept of living sacrifice, we often consider what we're willing to give up knowing God more deeply. In the scriptures—Alma 20:23, Alma 22:15-18, and Matthew 19:16-20:23—we see powerful examples illustrating that knowing God is undeniably worth any sacrifice. For Latter-day Saints and Evangelical Christians alike, these passages highlight a central theme: true devotion to God demands that we offer up our sins and shortcomings.

Aaron's interaction with Lamoni's father in Alma 22 is particularly striking. Here, a king, accustomed to power and prestige, is faced with the profound necessity of humility and repentance. He echoes the pivotal question, “What shall I do to inherit eternal life?” This question, also posed to Jesus in Matthew 19, undeniably emphasizes the universal and timeless pursuit of spiritual rebirth and purification.

The urgency in Lamoni’s father’s plea and his subsequent declaration, “I will give away all my sins to know thee,” resonates deeply. It's a call to examine our own willingness to surrender the parts of ourselves that hinder our relationship with God. As we explore these scriptures, we'll uncover how living sacrifice is not just an ancient practice but a daily commitment to renounce our sins in favor of an intimate and transformative relationship with the Divine.

King Lamoni's Father's Sacrifice

In the Book of Mormon, the story of King Lamoni’s father is a compelling example of how true devotion to God involves deep sacrifice and humility. This king, accustomed to authority and reverence, was transformed by the teachings of Aaron, who shared profound truths about the nature of man and the path to eternal life. Understanding this narrative offers us a reflection on what it means to truly know God through our sacrifices.

Inductive Study of Alma 8: Grace and Patience in Spreading the Gospel

 

Spreading the gospel of Jesus Christ is a journey that calls for immense grace and patience—qualities expertly exemplified in Alma 8 from the Book of Mormon. As you explore Alma's efforts to share the gospel, you'll discover the challenges he faced and the divine grace that supported him through every obstacle. This study underscores the enduring truth that patience and persistence are indispensable when sharing one's faith. Whether you're a seasoned believer or new to the teachings of the Book of Mormon, these timeless lessons speak directly to the heart of spreading the gospel with compassion and unwavering resolve.

Sharing the gospel of Jesus Christ can be challenging, especially in the face of rejection and criticism. However, by looking to the scriptures and the counsel of church leaders, we find numerous sources of inspiration and guidance to fortify our efforts.

In Alma 8:13-16, the prophet Alma experienced rejection while sharing the gospel, much like many of us do today. Despite being cast out of Ammonihah, Alma was encouraged by an angel to return and try again. This teaches us resilience and persistence. Continuing through verses 17-32, we find phrases that spark hope and determination, such as the angel's promise of divine support and Alma’s unwavering commitment. These passages remind us that we are not alone in our efforts; heavenly support is always available.

Prophets and apostles offer poignant advice on missionary work. Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf, in “But What If It’s Hard?” emphasizes that sharing the gospel is crucial even when it feels difficult, highlighting that every effort counts, no matter how small. Elder Gary E. Stevenson, in “Love, Share, Invite,” encourages us to continue sharing the gospel out of love, inviting others with kindness and patience. Both leaders convey that the act of sharing our testimony can touch hearts in ways we might not immediately see.

From these teachings, we can derive simple, yet powerful statements of encouragement: "Persistence in sharing the gospel brings heavenly support," and "Sharing out of love and kindness can touch hearts unseen." These sentiments can serve as daily mantras to remind us why we continue our efforts.

Furthermore, social media provides an excellent platform for spreading the gospel. Engaging in meaningful discussions, sharing links to Come Follow Me resources, and consistently studying the Book of Mormon can foster a rich environment for gospel sharing online. By asking thoughtful questions and maintaining a respectful tone, we can create compelling content that might inspire others to inquire more about our faith.

Remember, every effort, no matter how small, in sharing the gospel carries the potential to make a significant impact. Let’s keep trying, knowing that our persistence is supported by divine encouragement and love.

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Come Follow Me Inductive Study: Jesus Christ Will Come to Redeem His People (Alma 8-12)

 

Experiencing the transformative power of the Book of Mormon, particularly in the chapters of Alma 8-12, is a profound journey for every faithful disciple. As we dive into this week's Come Follow Me Inductive Study, we'll uncover the stirring message that "Jesus Christ Will Come to Redeem His People." This study isn't just an academic exercise; it's a spiritual endeavor that deepens our faith and understanding of redemption through Jesus Christ.

In these chapters, we witness the dedication and trials of Alma and Amulek as they preach the gospel, reflecting on their divine mission and Christ's promise of redemption. Their unwavering faith, despite rejection and hardship, exemplifies the strength we can also find in Christ. As we dissect these passages, we'll see how their experiences can bolster our own faith journey, highlighting that redemption is not just a distant promise but a present reality through the Savior.

Prepare to be inspired and renewed as we explore the enduring truth that Jesus Christ's atonement is for all. Your faith will be fortified, and your understanding of Christ's redemptive power will be magnified.

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Unleashing Christ's Transformative Power: Defeating Spiritual Bondage (Mosiah 7:14-33)

Minerva Teichert (1888–1976), Ammon before King Limhi, 1949–1951, oil on masonite, 35 15/16 × 48 inches. Brigham Young University Museum of Art, 1969.

Reflecting on the passages from Mosiah 7:14-33, I find profound insights that can rejuvenate and invigorate our faith in Jesus Christ. When King Mosiah’s people, who were enjoying “continual peace” (Mosiah 7:1) in Zarahemla, turned their thoughts to the Nephites who had ventured to the land of Lehi-Nephi generations before, they embarked on a journey of rediscovery that resonates deeply with our own faith journeys.

Mosiah’s commission to Ammon to lead a search party to find the lost Nephites carries significant symbolism. The Nephites, found in captivity to the Lamanites “because of iniquity” (Mosiah 7:24), mirror our own struggles with sin and the resulting bondage we often feel. Yet, the arrival of Ammon and his brethren injected a hopeful possibility of deliverance. This narrative illustrates how divine intervention, and the support of faithful companions can usher in liberation and new beginnings.

Sometimes, we find ourselves akin to these captive Nephites, burdened by our sins and yearning for peace. Other times, we may be like Ammon, feeling called to reach out to others, and through our efforts, inspiring them to “lift up [their] heads, and rejoice, and put [their] trust in God” (Mosiah 7:19). This dual perspective—that we can both receive and extend Christ’s liberating power—underscores the reciprocal nature of faith and service.

Moreover, Mosiah 7:33 provides a clarion call to repentance and renewed faith: "turn to the Lord with full purpose of heart," with the assurance that "he will … deliver [us]." This promise is not abstract; it’s a living testament to the transformative power of humility and repentance. Personally, I've navigated numerous challenging seasons in my life, and it was through humbling myself and embracing a fresh faith in Christ that I found true deliverance and strength.

In essence, Mosiah 7:14-33 is not merely a historical account; it’s a blueprint for spiritual renewal. It teaches us that irrespective of our current state—whether in the throes of sin or engaging in acts of deliverance—we are called to deepen our trust in the Lord. By doing so, we open ourselves up to the boundless grace and redemption that Jesus Christ offers, enabling a renewed and vibrant faith.

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Sharing the Gospel Message in Truth and Love

 

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Since the publication Kingdom of the Cults (1965) by Walter Martin (1928-1989; founder of the Bible Answer Man radio program and Christian Research Institute) mainstream Protestant and Evangelical ministries have carried on the counter-cult ministry torch in apologetics. Many have established legacy ministries as a means to witness and share the Gospel message of hope to those whom they deemed are destined to hell by false prophets, teachers, and heresy. Innumerable books, pamphlets, and articles have been published. Today, blogs, podcasts, and even video productions continue to carry on the legacy of the CCM heritage. Local churches in any given community hosted various guest speakers where members of the Latter-day Saint Christian faith were invited to. And since the influence of many of these Christian ministers - many members have abandoned the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ. Some have gone on to start their own ministries.

Growing up in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saint Christian faith never fully exposed me to some of the arguments and criticisms brought against the Church. One incident I do recall was when my parents took my younger sisters and I into a local bookstore. Asking about some books on the Church, we were directed to a small section of the store. I did not see any of the books myself, however, do recall my parents leaving with us kids right on their heels. My mom was pretty upset.

Another incident really brought me into the early days of my venture into apologetics occurred where I had married a young woman who was baptized into the Church. We were preparing to go into the temple at that time and her parents had invited us over for dinner. Unbeknownst to me, they had invited other guests. After dinner, we sat and the discussion fell onto the topic of Mormonism and the whole time I sat quietly. Not able to give any answer to the questions. The gentleman and his wife were kind and invited me to read a spiral book they had written and published. They were former Latter-day Saints. About a year after this one incident, my young wife had left me and filed for divorce - all because she was convinced by family and friends she needed to leave the Church and me if I was not willing to leave. I was devastated and set out to study all that I could.

I purchased books like (links are connected to affiliate amazon associates - any purchase helps support this website):

• The Gainsayers - Derrick T. Evenson
• The Truth About the Godmakers - Gilbert W. Scharffs
• They Lie in Wait to Deceive (4 Volumes) - Robert L. and Rosemary Brown
• The Greatest Quest (Fiction) - Blaine Yorganson
• New Evidence of Christ in Ancient America - Yorganson
• Joseph Smith: Rough Stone Rolling - Richard Lyman Bushman
• Joseph Smith and the Beginnings of Mormonism - Richard L. Bushman
• Religious Seekers and the Advent of Mormonism - Dan Vogel
• Indian Origins and the Book of Mormon - Dan Vogel

Much of the early days of LDS Apologetics were based on books published by those who had left the Church and then found their way back, or those who have given over time and energy in studying the history of the Latter-day Saint Faith.

In my own personal life, I faced a crisis of faith that led me out of the Church and attending various Christian denominations. It was through these 15 years that I had absorbed much more information, understanding, and knowledge. Reading The Pilgrims Progress by John Bunyan, John Calvin's Institutes of the Christian Religion, Arthur W. Pink, Martin Luther Bondage of the Will, studying Calvinism, reading the Ante-Nicene and Post-Nicene Church Fathers. Acquiring a healthy library of books. It was also around the time that the internet was well under way with message board forums, online chats, and the rise of a new form of apologetics. This gave rise to organizations like FAIRLDS (Faithful Answers and Informed Responses) and other LDS apologetic websites.

Not only had I immersed myself in such studies, but I also specifically read many of the Anti-Mormon literature still being published (in print and online). After 15 years, I made my way back into the LDS Faith. A vast knowledge of information and engaging in conversations defending the LDS Faith.

Inevitably, I found myself having to shift priorities and focus more on a new career path, family, and being more present. For the past ten or so years I had given myself over to a more spiritual and mindful journey of developing a more intimate and disciplined spiritual life. Focusing more on what it means to live out my faith day by day. Developing awareness of being authentic, and genuine. This personal journey further shaped my own understanding and relationship with my Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. fully comprehending deeper symbolism within scripture and more insight and wisdom to spiritual truth.

Where rigidity of knowledge had shaped me - a more personal and enriching spiritual quest fueled the desire to further my sense of meaning and purpose in life. Because of this - I have come to fully understand that there is a different way one is able to speak truth in love toward those who may come and criticize our faith.

Yes, we want to give a defense of our faith and the hope the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ brings to each one of us - we also want to share that message of God's divine purpose: to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of all through the infinite atonement of Jesus Christ. To give an informed answer and response to the many questions, criticisms, and misinformation about the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints one is required to answer from the power and authority of scripture, personal revelation, and established teachings where we derive truth and light.

We Are All Called to the Mission Field

There are numerous ways to be a New Witness of the infinite atonement of Jesus Christ to many who are still lost, questioning, doubting, and even experiencing a crisis of faith. What I have come to define as Mindful LDS Christian Apologetics focuses more on:

• The Central Heart and Message of the Gospel of Jesus Christ - God's divine Love and purpose for us
• Studying and understanding those teachings and truths that one may stress over and lack insight
• Speaking in an articulate and mindful way that conveys the power, authority, and love of the Holy Spirit

This idea stems from something that David O. McKay said in a Conference report in 1927 (Teachings of Presidents of the Church: David O. McKay)

If I were to couch in definite terms two of the most potent convictions in the hearts of the Latter-day Saints, I would name: First, an abiding assurance that the gospel, as taught by the Redeemer when he lived among men and which was later modified, changed and corrupted by men, has been restored by the Redeemer in its purity and fulness; and second, following naturally the first, a conviction in the heart of every member of this Church that the responsibility rests upon the membership of the Church to preach the restored gospel to every nation, kindred, tongue and people.

In his BYU Speech, Quentin L. Cook shares some insights:

1. Be a missionary for life
2. Overcome feelings of hesitancy and inadequacies
3. Do not be discouraged because missionary work is hard
4. Be a good example and take every opportunity to share the Gospel

And it is difficult to be a missionary and share the message of hope with those who attempt to sway us from the path of righteousness and eternal happiness. It is even more difficult to call those who have left the Church unto reconciliation and invite them back. Yet, it is not impossible and without the conviction of the Holy Spirit.

Practical Tips and Recommendations to Invite a Spirit of Love and Compassion

Over the years - the biggest thing I have learned is how far from a spirit of love and compassion goes a long way. I used to allow myself to get riled up whenever someone challenged what I believed. It almost became an adrenaline rush that did not seemed to resolve until I felt a smug satisfaction in wielding my knowledge. And is one of the main reasons I found myself getting burned out on apologetics. Here are some of the ways I have started incorporating a more mindful and compassionate approach. However, let us focus on some of the problems that arise in online and in person conversations:

1. Contention and debates will never convince someone of anything. They only fuel frustration, anger, bitterness and strife.
2. Ineffective discussions involve an aspect of active listening - only to respond where further misunderstandings occur
3. Rigid viewpoints that are tunnel vision and black-and-white thinking (irrational thought process) leads to inability to respond and teach in a spirit of love and compassion.
4. Engages our primal instinct of fight or flight stress response

Neither of these approaches appear to be inviting of any love and compassion.

Mindfulness and Full Awareness

Natural human behavior responds to any perceived threat where we may feel attacked. It is a natural defense mechanism. Adrenaline kicks in, our body responds in a way as it prepares to flee or engage whatever perceived threat comes. This is the same when we encounter someone ready to convince us of how wrong our faith is, the challenge against Joseph Smith's claim of being a Prophet in these last days, and the Book of Mormon. Our natural instinct is to stand and defend the faith - or to disengage and flee from the discussion all together.

Mindfulness simply teaches one to be aware of our own internal and external natural response to whenever someone questions our faith or challenges what we believe. Not only being aware, it also helps us stay in a place of calm and humility when responding to another person (or sometimes a group of people). Even if it is an unexpected encounter.

What I have discovered is that by allowing myself to get to a place of calm - I am able to be open and receptive to the promptings of the Spirit. In this manner, one is able to speak with confidence, authority, and in truth and love. Sometimes, we may not have the answers. Yet, we are promised the following:

But when they deliver you up, take no thought how or what ye shall speak: for it shall be given you in that same hour what ye shall speak.

Matthew 10:19, KJV

In the Complete Jewish Study Bible, we read the same verse this way:

But when they bring you to trial, do not worry about what to say or how to say it; when the time comes, you will be given what you should say.

According to the Jamieson, Fausset, and Brown Commentary Critical and Explanatory on the Whole Bible we find this:

1. Not to be solicitous or anxious
2. Either in manner to make a defense or what matter it shall consist

Another commentary shares this observation of Matthew 10:19:

Take no thought. That is, be not anxious or unduly solicitous. See Notes on Mat. 6:25. This was a full promise that they should be inspired, and was a most seasonable consolation. Poor, and ignorant, and obscure fishermen would naturally be solicitous what they should say before the great men of the earth. Eastern people regarded kings as raised far above common mortals—as approaching to divinity. How consoling, then, the assurance that God would aid them and speak within them!

Barnes, A. (1884–1885). Notes on the New Testament: Matthew & Mark. (R. Frew, Ed.) (p. 112). London: Blackie & Son.

And another shares this insight:

take no thought.—Here we have the same word in the Greek, as in Mat. 6:25, and the meaning is the same, “be not anxious”. We learn from Mark (13:11) that they were not, under such circumstances, even to “premeditate;” and the promise, “It shall be given you, in that same hour, what you shall speak,” saved them from both premeditation and anxiety not you that speak.—Of course, the physical act of speaking was theirs, but it was not theirs to determine how or what they should speak (verse 19). Both the manner and the matter were to be supplied by the Spirit of God. There could not be a more explicit declaration of the complete verbal inspiration of the apostles on such occasions.

McGarvey, J. W. (1875). The New Testament Commentary: Matthew and Mark (Vol. I, p. 91). Delight, AR: Gospel Light Publishing Company.

Whenever someone challenges our understanding of the Restored Gospel (or even criticize and attack our faith) we are immediately on trial to answer for the hope that lays within us. Through mindfulness and full awareness - we are able to respond through the Holy Spirit. Regardless of the knowledge one may possess - it is through the power and gift of the Holy Spirit where truth and light is presented against any falsehoods or criticisms being presented.

Speak in a Meaningful and Inviting Manner

The most powerful experiences I have encountered focused on the ability to speak with meaningful purpose and in a manner that is inviting. As mentioned, using mindfulness to bring ourselves into a state of disciplined calmness, we are able to speak with authority, conviction, power, and truth that comes from the Holy Spirit. Since we are to rely on the Spirit to speak through our own understanding and knowledge - we are able to share and minister in a way that forgoes any further need for being defensive. The less defensive we become, the less a person may engage in their approach of perceived attack and criticism.

It also means we are mindful of what we are saying (or typing out in any online forum and discussions). For instance, someone questions the validity of the Book of Mormon as authentic and sacred scripture by attacking it. One may perceive it as a personal attack on them and engage in a defensive approach by using words and phrases like:

• You are wrong
• You don't know anything
• I don't think you really read it

Despite any facts or evidence, we may bring up to show how the individual may be wrong in their understanding - we are merely fueling contention. Instead, my own personal approach has started to focus more on asking thoughtful questions.

• I am curious how you have come to understand how the Book of Mormon is false.
• What you shared is interesting - I have a different understanding if you are open to hear it?

Asking questions is one way to be meaningful and inviting. Another is to validate what they are saying and paraphrasing so you are able to gauge how you are interpreting what they are saying. This prevents any assumptions on your part. Other suggestions are:

• Do not take what they say personal - even if they appear to make personal attacks against you
• Bring it back to what you understand and what you have researched
• Do not ask yes or no questions - even if rhetorical
• Be clear and concise (think of less is more)
• Be assertive in asking questions and establish a sense of confidence

In one conversation, I made a statement and then asked a question to someone who posted a criticizing comment regarding 2 Nephi 25:23:

I am always hearing people quote 2 Nephi 25:23 and have always been curious if you have taken some time to read the entire chapter of 2 Nephi?

The response was quite positive. My follow up question was this: Are you willing to be open and receptive in reading 2 Nephi 25 and take some notes and then share with me what you discovered? I've taken time to study and read that section and may have a different viewpoint if you are willing to discuss this.

The response came across as encouraging. However, have not seen any further communication from the individual.

Stay Rooted in the Scriptures

One of the best strategies is to stay rooted in the Scriptures. This is the importance of daily scripture study. Whether it is personal scripture study or with family and/or friends - we are to root ourselves in what scripture teaches us.

Much of what I have come to fully appreciate and understand about the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ is by meditating upon what scripture says. Seeking through thoughtful prayer. Relying on the teachings of the Leaders of the Church and actively participating in growing in scriptural knowledge and truth. This also helps when we engage in discussions where people bring up particular passages of scripture that appear to challenge the LDS Christian Faith.

My approach is to come from what I personally have studied and share that in the discussion. For instance, I used to post a comment stating that a person's interpretation of Galatians 1:6-9 is wrong and then post a link to an article I published concerning Paul's Other Gospel. Now, I offer the following: "I actually took some time to study Galatians 1:6-9 and came to a different understanding of what Paul was saying. Are you interested in hearing what I've discovered?"

Asking a question, bringing it back to myself, and then inviting the person to be open and receptive to discussing what I have studied. Sometimes they are open and receptive. Other times they are not. If not, I no longer push the issue.

In David A. Bednar's January 6th, 1998 Devotional, he cites three important truths of personal scripture study:

1. Helps us understand and maintain covenants we made with our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ
2. Helps us gain insight and direction in how to live out our faith and lives through Christ
3. Helps us gain personal revelation in wisdom and understanding of God's truth and purpose for our well-being

Bednar expounds upon certain principles of consistent and diligent scripture study:

1. Pray for understanding and invite the Holy Spirit
2. Work with diligence in studying the scriptures
3. Consistent spiritual discipline of scripture study
4. Ponder and Meditate on the scriptures
5. Identify patterns, connections, and parallels within the scriptures
6. Write down your own personal thoughts, feelings, and reflections

Through this spiritual discipline and process - we are able to come to know and hear the voice of God. By which we are able to stand and not be anxious for what we are speak or how to speak when called upon.

Such a spiritual discipline also helps us understand and come to know the truth of God's love for us, the truth of the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ, and how to grow in spirit and truth because of Christ's infinite atonement.

Please consider leaving a comment in the section below and share your thoughts on this article. How does this help you engage in missionary work and responding to any criticism against the LDS faith? What are some of your challenges? Where do you feel you lack adequacy in responding to criticisms against the Church?