Living the Book of Mormon | Finding Strength to Overcome - 1 Nephi 3:7

 

It is in the quiet dawn of our spiritual journey where we enter the covenantal path of righteousness. Through the scriptures, we anchor our hearts and minds upon the things of God. In today's episode, and ongoing series - Living the Book of Mormon - let us anchor our thoughts on 1 Nephi 3:7. This verse is imprinted on the hearts and minds of those who are weary travelers, burdened with shame, burdened with guilt, filled with bitterness, unforgiveness, and resentment. 

Dealing with - coping with - past regrets, hurts, and struggling to overcome any form of addiction. It is an imprint of faith, speaking not as a distant echo but as a living promise for many of us struggling along the covenantal path - navigating the turbulent wilderness of recovery. This passage reminds us that obedience is not a burden but a pathway to wisdom, revelation, and strength. Illuminated by the light, love, and tender mercies of Christ. Preparing us to come to our own land of promise where we thrive with an abundance of peace, joy, and light of who Christ is. Especially for many of us who are traversing the valley of the shadow of our past and addiction - faith crisis sometimes looming large. 

Reflection

Nephi's unyielding resolve amid familial discord and perilous odds calls our attention to understanding the difference between coping and thriving. His resolve was not in how he planned to cope with walking in faithful obedience to God's commandments - he thrived in walking in faithful obedience, trusting that God's way will unfold. 

In our own lives, as we wrestle with the remnants of shame and guilt from choices that once ensnared us, Nephi's example invites us to see our recovery journey, not as a solitary struggle but as an expedition of growth in character and integrity through obedience when we give our hearts, mind, and will over to the care of God. 

The Lord, who prepared a way for Nephi through Laban's drunkenness and guiding sword, prepares a way for each of us through the infinite atonement that Jesus Christ offers. Turning our weaknesses into strengths: "And if men come unto me, I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto men weakness that they may be humble; and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for if they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them." (Ether 12:27). This mirrors what Paul wrote in 2 Corinthians 12:9: "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." (ESV). 

Nephi's faith was not blind because it was built upon through prior revelations, much like our own personal testimonies forged in the fire of trials. Paul mirrors this when he further writes in 2 Corinthians 12:9, "For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, I am strong." Being content in weakness, content when we are insulted, content when we go through hardships - experiencing difficult days and yet having Joy in our hearts and minds (James 1:1-4). Content when we are facing persecutions and even calamities - the trial of our faith. 

Have you paused to discern the prepared way in your own story? Perhaps it's a supportive friend, a timely conference talk that causes you to meditate and imprints spiritual truths and insight upon your heart and mind, or the quiet assurance of the Holy Spirit amid the raging tempests and storms. 

We learn that Nephi's willingness to walk in faithful obedience without delay was step-by-step mirroring our own path of recovery. Whether it is overcoming fears of relapse, chains of shame, guilt, and regret, or moving past unforgiveness, anger, resentment and bitterness. The covenantal path of righteousness moves us toward a resilient and thriving faith that is vibrant and sustainable. 

This is reflective of Mosaih 4:9 where it says, "Believe in God; believe that he is, and that he created all things, both in heaven and in earth; believe that he has all wisdom, and all power, both in heaven and in earth; believe that man doth not comprehend all the things which the Lord can comprehend." Here, it is an emphasis is on the importance of faith in God and His omnipotence, and to the point of how the context teaches ways we are to retain a remission of sins and understanding God's nature. 

Recovery Focus

Overcoming past issues demands more than grit and personal willpower; it requires surrendering to the prepared path. For those in the throes of a faith crisis where doubt seems to occupy the mind and heart, questioning the very foundations of spiritual truths and testimony.

Nephi's declaration harmonizes with the counsel found in Alma 32:27: "But if ye awake and arouse your faculties, even to an experiment upon my words, and exercise a particle of faith, yea, even if ye can no more than desire to believe, let this desire work in you, even until ye believe in a manner that ye can give place for a portion of my words." The context of Alma 32 is regarding the planting of the seed of faith and how it is cultivated and grows into something beautiful and magnificent. And the fundamental reason most struggle with faith crisis, having bouts of doubts, and feel discouraged and disheartened is because of what the scripture relates: 

Now, if ye give place, that a seed may be planted in your heart, behold if it be a true seed, or a good seed, if ye do not cast it out by your unbelief, that ye will resist the Spirit of the Lord, behold, it will begin to swell within your breasts; and when you feel these swelling motions, ye will begin to say within yourselves - it must needs be that this is a good seed, or that the word is good, for it beginneth to enlarge my soul; yea, it beginneth to enlighten my understanding, yea, it beginneth to be delicious to me. (Alma 32:28). 

To experiment upon the word, planting seeds of faith even amidst doubt and fears that seemed to move us from the numbness of coping mechanisms and idea of just deal with it attitude toward a vibrant and thriving faith, becomes a step forward when we resolve to echo Nephi's words, "I will go and do." 

Experimenting upon the word, planting the seed of faith, also helps one overcome the toxic chains of resentment, unforgiveness, and bitterness - insidious weeds choking and stifling forgiveness, restoration of healthy relationships, mercy, and even grace. It is in the pericope of eternal truths - the Law of Christ - we see how Nephi forgave his brother's rebellion, choosing unity over division. For Latter-day Saint Christians, and any Christian who claims to follow Christ, who are overcoming addiction means we are to confront bitterness toward self and others. This is accomplished through an honest moral inventory that is reflective and fearless - without judgment and condemnation. Through this process, we are able to come to a place and make healthy amends, guided by recovery principles aligning with Gospel truths (See, Doctrine and Covenants 64:10). 

Thriving emerges when we have the attitude, courage, and confidence to walk out in faith and "go and do" without delay, hesitation, and questioning when it comes to work of healing, restoration, and moving toward a thriving sober life that is crucified unto Christ - becoming genuine and true disciples of faith. 

This focus embraces the idea we are to move from coping to thriving, where a healthy and sober life reflects Christ's image. Shame and guilt, once tyrants, become teachers under the grace of the Atonement. Alma 36:21 reminds us of this: "Yea, I say unto you, my son, that there could be nothing so exquisite and so bitter as were my pains. Yea, and again I say unto you, my son, that on the other hand, there can be nothing so exquisite and sweet as was my joy." Depicting Alma's joyous deliverance from sin's pains, promising that our own exquisite anguish may yield to exquisite joy as we go and do the Lord's commandments when it comes to the covenantal path of righteousness, personal recovery journey, and spiritual growth. 

Our recovery and spiritual growth in overcoming the things of the flesh is promised when we maintain fidelity to our covenants and commit our hearts, minds, and will over to God's care - presenting ourselves as living sacrifices - becoming pillars of fire in the Temple of the Lord (Revelation 3:12). And as Paul reveals - it becomes our true and proper worship holy and pleasing to God (Romans 12:1). 

Wisdom

Wisdom gleans in the reality that resentment and bitterness are chains we have forged ourselves. However, the Lord's preparation includes keys to unlock them. Consider how Nephi's brother's murmured, yet he pressed on without harboring a grudge. This mirrors the Savior's teaching in Matthew 11:28-30: "Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you reset." The process, and personal path, of recovery is where we find wisdom. 

It teaches us to release our burdens at the feet of Christ. Placing them before the throne of Grace and taking upon ourselves His yoke to guide us toward a sober life that is reflective of His peace and joy - of which surpasses all understanding (John 14:27, Philippians 4:7). 

And when shame and guilt whispers that we are unworthy, remember how the Lord has commanded that we walk in repentance and forgiveness where we are restored to a resilient and bold faith. He prepares a way for us to participate and maintain our covenants. This is reflective in the counsel given in 2 Nephi 31:20 where we are to press forward with steadfast faith in who Christ is as we feast upon His words - a feast that nourishes and satisfies our souls - where it transforms shame and guilt into confident attitudes of gratitude and assurance. 

This wisdom whispers that true sobriety is not merely based on abstinence alone. It is based on a willing heart desiring to align with Christ's light. As we navigate faith crisis, Nephi's verse complements Philippians 4:13: "I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me." This harmony of scripture reveals that overcoming is not about our willpower, strength, or grit - where we bear it and grin through it. We overcome because Christ has already overcome and therefore are being prepared to turn coping to conquering as we build a sturdy foundation on consistent spiritual disciplines of prayer, scripture study, and service in our own personal daily lives. 

Therefore, wisdom culminates in understanding how bitterness dissolves, resentment is removed from our heart, and we renew our covenants through the emblems of the Sacrament. Nephi's path, fraught with opposition, teaches us that endurance is without enmity. For Latter-day Saints who are in recovery, or any Christian who is in a path of recovery and struggling, this wisdom integrates what Doctrine and Covenants 127:7-8 reveals: Assuring us that our trials, if endured well, leads us toward exaltation. 

Are you ready to embrace this profound eternal truth? Knowing your past no longer defines you? Realizing you no longer have to rely on ways to cope with those things we are called to face and overcome in our lives? The covenantal path of righteousness, and recovery, prepares us for a life that is thriving and vibrant - giving us a testimony of Christ's love. 

Prayer

Our Heavenly Father, thank you for your mercy and grace, in the name of thy Son - Jesus Christ - I stand as a child in recovery. Thank you for the example of Nephi and his faith to "go and do" thy will, knowing you have prepared a way for him to accomplish the things he needed to accomplish. Thank you for the strength today, and the preparation of heart and mind for each of us to walk through our shame, our guilt, resentment, bitterness, and anger. Healing us from the brokenness of our past. Restoring us to a place of dignity where we are becoming testimonies of Christ's love and Your Grace. Thank you for strengthening us when we are weak, healing us where we are brokenhearted, and guiding us through the mist of darkness of fear and doubt - guiding us from coping to thriving in Your light and Glory, Amen. 

Word of Wisdom

Doctrine and Covenants 89:18-21 provides us with some word of wisdom: For those of us who walk in obedience to the principle truths of what God commands, "shall receive health in their navel and marrow to their bones; and shall find wisdom and great treasures of knowledge ... and shall run and not be wary, and shall walk and not faint." 

Let this motivate you toward a hopeful and vibrant sober life where you are thriving. Where Nephi's promise becomes your personal truth and reality - overcoming through Christ by walking the prepared path before you. 

Living the Book of Mormon: "The Tender Mercies of the Lord" 1 Nephi 1:20

 

Introduction

Hello, and welcome to Living the Book of Mormon: A Devotional Journey on the Mindful Latter-day Saint Christian and Apologetics YouTube channel. I’m your host, Timothy, and I’m thrilled you’re here as we embark on this sacred exploration of the Book of Mormon. Whether you’re a lifelong Latter-day Saint or someone seeking to deepen your Christian faith, this series is designed for you—to help us live more mindfully as disciples of Jesus Christ by immersing ourselves in these inspired pages.  

Today, we begin with 1 Nephi 1, a chapter that introduces us to Nephi and his family and sets the tone for a journey of faith, obedience, and divine care. Our focus is on 1 Nephi 1:20, where Nephi declares: 'But behold, I, Nephi, will show unto you that the tender mercies of the Lord are over all those whom he hath chosen, because of their faith, to make them mighty even unto the power of deliverance.' This verse is a promise—a testament to God’s gentle, loving interventions in our lives, which we’ll call His tender mercies.  

In this episode, I want to unpack what these tender mercies are, how faith invites them, and how they lead to recovery, deliverance, and wisdom. Along the way, I’ll pose reflective questions like 'What tender mercies have you seen in your life?' and 'How can you grow in faith to recognize God’s hand?' Feel free to pause and reflect or share your thoughts in the comments—I’d love to hear from you.  

Let’s dive in with open hearts, ready to see how Nephi’s experiences can transform our own.

Devotional - "The Tender Mercies of the Lord"

Key Scripture - 1 Nephi 1:20 - But, behold, I Nephi, will show unto you that the tender mercies of the Lord are over all those whom he hath chosen, because of their faith, to make them mighty even unto the power of deliverance. 

Reflection

1 Nephi 1:20 gives us a proclamation - observe the weight of this declaration: God's tender mercies are not random acts of kindness. They are deliberate blessings bestowal upon those who align their hearts and minds with Him through faith. Interpret this as a divine promise - His gentle, loving interventions are ever-present, often unnoticed, weaving through our lives like threads of gold in the midst of our trials. As Latter-day Saint Christians, we are invited to apply this simple and profound truth by seeking these mercies daily. Recognizing how they are the quiet evidence of our Heavenly Father who never forsakes His covenant people. 

What are these tender mercies to you? They are the sacred moments when heaven bends low, whispering you are not alone in your mess. You are not alone in those moments of despair. That each one of us are not alone in our path of recovery and spiritual growth. 

Consider Nephi's context - his family having fled Jerusalem, leaving behind wealth, friends, and their affluence. Fleeing a city that is ripe for destruction. Under prophetic and divine command, Lehi is called to take his family into the wilderness. There, they experienced hardship, trials, and challenging their faith. Yet, the tender mercies were not in the absence of the hardship faced - the tender mercies of the Lord were revealed in the strength to endure. So, it is with us where we experience the tender mercies of God. He does not promise a life that is devoid of storms. However, He strengthens us and empowers us with courage, wisdom, and power to rise above them. 

1 Nephi 1:20 challenges us to shift our gaze from the magnitude of our struggles to the magnitude of His care. Are we too consumed with our own murmuring, as seen with Laman and Lemuel, to see the Lord's hand? To live mindfully as Latter-day Saint Christians, we are invited to train our hearts, minds, and souls to discern His tender mercies, for in them lies the proof of His choosing us - not for ease, for His own purpose and glory. 

Recovery Focus

When we stumble and fall short - be it through sin, doubt, or despair - Nephi's words offer insight and guidance. Spiritual wisdom and counsel for us regarding the tender mercies of the Lord. And what this means for our personal recovery path and journey. His tender mercies extend to those who, by faith, cling to Him. Observe how Nephi ties these mercies to deliverance as God's commitment to restore us; not merely to where we were, to where He intends us to be. Take a moment to pause and reflect on how He may have brought about deliverance in your own life and from your own personal struggles. Perhaps, promptings that may have spared you, a peace that brought comfort and steadied you. 

Recovery is not self-wrought; it is God-given, a tender mercy that flows from faith. Will you seek after this, or will you continue to wallow in the ashes of your own making, which are self-pity, doubt, and fear?

Wisdom

Nephi's life unveils divine wisdom and courage for us to follow. Divine wisdom and courage borne out of obedience to God's voice. Wisdom and courage where it defies human logic and understanding. Nephi and his family did not merely flee from Jerusalem because it was sensible - they fled because it was commanded. And Nephi showed unwavering trust; being the fruit of knowing God's will that surpasses our own understanding. By surrendering our will, desires, and life over to God's care, we do not need to comprehend every step of our recovery journey and spiritual growth. Only wisdom and courage lie in following the Lord when the wilderness seems to loom before us. 

As Latter-day Saints, who are in recovery, the Book of Mormon is our guide to such wisdom and courage. A testament that faith in God's word makes us mighty. Are you willing to trade your reasoning for His divine revelation over your life? Willing to fully surrender your life, will, and desires over to His care and allow Him to direct your path through the wilderness of recovery? 

For me, the Book of Mormon became my personal guide through my own recovery, restoration, and healing where I came to realize my need for Christ, to seek after His will continually, and grow through faith in who Christ is. Will you allow this sacred text of scripture do the same for you?

Thought for Today

Nephi's testimony in 1 Nephi 1:20 is a call for each of us to awaken - to seek after the tender mercies of God - those tender mercies that surround us, and to recovery through our faith in Jesus Christ. To walk in resilient faith - with bold wisdom and courage that is born of faithful obedience to our Heavenly Father. 

God's power of deliverance is not a distant hope. It is an ever-present reality for those who choose to surrender their life, will, and desires over to His care. 

Today, make a decision to live as those chosen - not by your own efforts and merits, by His grace where you are ever mindful of His hand over your life. 

Prayer

 Heavenly Father, thank you for your tender mercies that sustain us in our recovery and spiritual growth. Thank you for opening our hearts, minds, and spirits today so that we are able to see those tender mercies, our hearts to receive them, and our desire and will to follow after Thee in faithful obedience. Thank you for the faith, as Nephi says, where we are able to become mighty through the power of deliverance that is through Jesus Christ and the Atonement. In Jesus Name, Amen. 

Message from the Devotional

Today, we begin with 1 Nephi 1, a chapter brimming with spiritual depth and practical application. 

In 1 Nephi 1, we are introduced to Nephi and his family, called by God - through Lehi's visions - to flee from Jerusalem. It is a story of personal and family upheaval, faith, and divine direction - a microcosm of our own lives. The key verse is 1 Nephi 1:20 as it shines a light on how "The tender mercies of the Lord are over all those whom he hath chosen, because of their faith, to make them mighty even unto the power of deliverance." Our focus is on God's subtle and yet powerful interventions. 

What are these "tender mercies" Nephi is speaking on? Well, they are the personalized blessings - the answered prayers, the quiet assurance and comfort that comes through the Holy Spirit, the strength that comes to empower us to endure. All these tender mercies come unbidden. For Nephi, and for us, they were the guidance to flee, the courage to obey, and the wisdom to walk in faithful obedience. For us, they may be a prompting to take action, a friend's timely call, or peace of mind amidst chaos. These are not coincidences - they are evidence of God's divine love over us. 

Reflecting on this, I have personally seen how often I've missed these mercies. Distracted by life's noise, my own desire to do the things I felt I needed to do, and living recklessly without divine revelation, wisdom, and guidance. Really, living unto myself and attempting to find myself - only to lose my sense of worth, freedom, fun, and belonging (Matthew 16:24-26). 

Yet, it only came after I had paused and realized I needed to fully give my heart, mind, will, and life over to His care and direction. I find His tender mercies in a hug from someone, meditating on a scripture that speaks directly to me, or ministering as led by the Holy Spirit. Recognizing them shifts my heart from fear to faith, reminding me that my Heavenly Father is always nearby. 

Segment 2: Devotional Reflection

Let’s begin by reading the key verse, 1 Nephi 1:20 gives insight regarding how much power these words possess. Yet, in order to feel their weight, we need to step into Nephi’s world.  

Take a moment to consider Jerusalem around 600 B.C.—a bustling city, yes, but one teetering on the edge of destruction due to widespread wickedness. Nephi’s father, Lehi, a prophet of God, received visions warning of this fate and was commanded to flee with his family into the wilderness. Imagine the chaos: abandoning home, wealth, and security to follow a divine directive into the unknown. It’s in this setting that Nephi speaks of tender mercies—not as a removal of hardship, but as God’s quiet, deliberate acts of love that sustained them.  

What are these tender mercies? They’re the personalized blessings God weaves into our lives—moments when heaven bends low to whisper, 'I see you, and I’m here.' For Nephi, they were the guidance to escape Jerusalem, the courage to trust his father’s visions, and the strength to face an uncertain future. For us, they might be a prompting that keeps us safe, a feeling of peace in turmoil, or a small kindness that lifts our spirits. These aren’t random—they’re evidence of a God who chooses us, not for an easy life, but for a life of purpose and glory through faith.  

The Bible affirms this beautifully. In Psalm 145:9, we read: 'The Lord is good to all: and his tender mercies are over all his works.' And in Lamentations 3:22-23: 'It is of the Lord’s mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not. They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.' These verses remind us that God’s mercies are constant, fresh each day, and available to all who seek Him.  

Let me share a story. A while back, I was struggling with a decision that felt overwhelming. I prayed for clarity, and the next day, I read a scripture that spoke directly to my need. It wasn’t a booming miracle, but a tender mercy that reminded me God was near.  

Now, let’s reflect. Take a moment to think: What tender mercies have you experienced in your life? Maybe it’s a time when you felt guided, comforted, or strengthened unexpectedly. And here’s another question: How might noticing these mercies more often shift your focus from life’s struggles to God’s care? Are we, like Nephi’s brothers Laman and Lemuel, too caught up in murmuring to see His hand?  

Pause here if you’d like, and jot down your thoughts. Recognizing these mercies trains our souls to live mindfully, seeing God’s love in every step of our journey. 

Segment 3: Applying the Lesson

So, how do we take this beautiful truth about tender mercies and make it part of our daily lives as mindful Latter-day Saint Christians? Nephi ties these mercies to faith—they come 'because of their faith.' Let’s explore how we can cultivate that faith and become more aware of God’s hand.  

Faith isn’t just believing—it’s acting on that belief. For Nephi, it was trusting Lehi’s call to leave Jerusalem, even when it defied logic. For us, it might be obeying a prompting, keeping a commandment, or simply turning to God in prayer when we’d rather give up. The Bible underscores this in Hebrews 11:1: 'Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.' And James 2:17 adds: 'Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone.' Faith is alive when we live it.  

Here are some practical ways to apply this:  

• Start a 'Tender Mercies' Journal: Each day, write down one way you saw God’s hand—a safe drive, a kind word, a moment of peace. Over time, you’ll see His care more clearly.  
• Practice Gratitude: Thank God daily for specific blessings, big or small. Gratitude opens our eyes to His mercies and softens our hearts.  
• Seek Him in Scripture and Prayer: Spend time with the Book of Mormon and the Bible, even just a few verses, and talk to God. This builds our faith and tunes us to His voice.  
• Act in Faith: When you feel prompted—maybe to serve, forgive, or trust—do it. Faith grows through action, and mercies often follow.

I’ve done this myself. Keeping a journal revealed blessings I’d overlooked—like the energy to get through a tough day or a stranger's smile that lifted my mood. It’s humbling to see how active God is in my life when I pay attention.

Let’s reflect. What’s one tender mercy you’ve noticed today? It could be as simple as this moment to study God’s word. And how can you strengthen your faith to invite more of these mercies? Is there a step—prayer, obedience, trust—you can take today?  

Pause and think about these questions. Living mindfully as Christians means choosing faith daily, knowing it’s the key to seeing God’s tender mercies all around us."  

Segment 4: Recovery and Deliverance

Nephi’s promise in 1 Nephi 1:20 ends with a powerful phrase: 'to make them mighty even unto the power of deliverance.' God’s tender mercies don’t just comfort us—they empower us to recover and overcome. Let’s dig into what this deliverance means for us today.  

For Nephi, deliverance was tangible—fleeing Jerusalem’s destruction, surviving the wilderness, and later obtaining food and direction. But notice: God didn’t always remove the trial. He gave them strength to endure it and a path through it. That’s often how He delivers us too—not by erasing our struggles, but by making us mighty to face them.  

In our lives, we stumble—through sin, doubt, despair, financial woes, illness, or grief. Nephi’s words are an invitation for us: God’s tender mercies are there to lift us up, tied to our faith. I’ve seen this personally. During a period of loss, I prayed for relief, but instead of instant answers, I received a quiet strength to keep going—a tender mercy that led to healing over time.  

The Bible echoes this promise. Psalm 34:17 says: 'The righteous cry, and the Lord heareth, and delivereth them out of all their troubles.' And in 2 Corinthians 12:9, God tells Paul: 'My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness.' Deliverance isn’t always a quick fix—it is God’s grace making us strong in our weakness.  

How do we access this? Trust His timing—help may come gradually. Act in faith—pray, obey, seek Him, even when it’s hard. And look for His mercies already at work—sometimes it’s the resilience we didn’t know we had.  

Reflect with me: How has God delivered you in the past? Maybe it was a burden lightened or a way forward you didn’t expect. And what challenge can you bring to Him now, trusting His tender mercies to make you mighty?  

Take a moment to ponder. Recovery and deliverance are processes, and God walks with us every step, turning our trials into testimonies of His love.

Segment 5: Wisdom and Obedience

Let’s turn to another lesson from Nephi’s life: the wisdom that flows from obedience. In 1 Nephi 1, he didn’t question Lehi’s visions or God’s command to flee—he obeyed, and that trust brought guidance and blessings. This pattern repeats throughout his story, like when he retrieved the brass plates against all odds.  

Obedience isn’t blind—it’s faith in God’s wisdom over our own. Proverbs 3:5-6 teaches: 'Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.' And Jesus said in John 14:15: 'If ye love me, keep my commandments.' When we obey, we align with God’s will, and He reveals paths we couldn’t see.  

I’ve felt this. Recently, I had to drive into north Seattle to check on something. On my way back, and not having had anything to eat yet, I was prompted to stop off at the store. At first, I thought it was merely my own desire of getting something to eat. Yet, the closer I was getting to a store, the more the prompting became. Finally, I decided to faithfully obey—and as I made a turn into the parking lot, I saw an older gentleman flying a sign. Quickly, I went in and got a few items and then took them over to Him, asking if there was anything I could pray for. He backed up and I could see the loss of hope and despair, the spiritual darkness over him. I walked away questioning if I had truly ministered to him. Yet was comforted knowing I obeyed without delay. Obedience traded my reasoning for His revelation.  

How do we live this? Listen—through prayer, scripture, and the Spirit. Act—even when it’s unclear why. And surrender control, trusting God’s plan. The Book of Mormon is our guide here, showing how obedience makes us mighty.  

Reflect: When have you obeyed God despite doubts, and what happened? Maybe a prompting paid off in ways you didn’t expect. And how can you align your will with His today? Is there a commandment or nudge you’ve resisted?  

Pause and think. Wisdom comes when we choose God’s voice over our own, and His tender mercies guide us as we follow.

Segment 6: Conclusion and Call to Action

As we wrap up, let’s gather the treasures from 1 Nephi 1. God’s tender mercies are His loving, subtle blessings, given through our faith. They help us recover, deliver us by making us mighty, and guide us through obedient wisdom. Nephi’s testimony is our call—to awaken to God’s hand in our lives.  

I challenge you to apply this. Commit to daily Book of Mormon study—start with 1 Nephi 1—and look for His mercies. Keep that journal, practice gratitude, and act in faith. Share what you learn—comment below, tell a friend, or post online. Let’s build a community of Saints living these truths.  

Let’s close with a prayer:

'Heavenly Father, we thank Thee for Thy tender mercies that sustain us. Open our eyes to see them, our hearts to receive them, and our wills to follow Thee. Grant us faith like Nephi’s, that we may be made mighty through Thy deliverance. In Jesus’ name, amen.'  

Thank you for joining me. Subscribe for more in this series, and may you feel God’s tender mercies today and always.

The Spiritual Journey through the Garden of Gethsemane Exploring how the Garden of Gethsemane Transforms Us

Our “Gethsemanes” are those places where our will wrestles to find its way to God’s will. As God patiently wrestled with Jacob and his will, He also wrestled with Jesus the Son of Man, His will and His request in the Garden of Gethsemane. As Adam represented mankind by wrestling his way out of the will of God through disobedience, so Jesus represented us by wrestling His way into God’s will by obedience.

~ Robert Crosby, D.MIV 2013 ~

Then he said to them, “My soul is very sorrowful, even to death
~ Matthew 26:38, ESV ~

Have you ever felt so weighed down by the overwhelming stress where you experienced great sorrow - even unto death? Getting to the lowest point in your life and all things pressing down onto you where you are emotionally, physically, and spiritually exhausted. Those around you have appeared to abandon you. People demanding for justice and punishment. Feeling betrayed and sold out. And, all you desire in that very moment is to cry out for mercy, grace, peace, and love. Not wanting to have to walk through this time of darkness. Welcome to your own personal Garden of Gethsemane. For some of us, we may refer it to our own personal hell. However, Having our own personal Gethsemane experience means we are moving toward spiritual transformation and a new way of living life.

Stunning Symbolism of the Garden of Gethsemane

We come to the Gospels of Matthew, Mark, and Luke regarding the last weeks of Jesus Christ's life. More specifically, we read the account of the Last Supper which is symbolic within the Jewish Passover celebration. In this encounter, we become intimately aware of the breaking of the bread and the drinking of the wine:

26 While they were eating, Jesus took bread, and when he had given thanks, he broke it and gave it to his disciples, saying, “Take and eat; this is my body.” 27 Then he took a cup, and when he had given thanks, he gave it to them, saying, “Drink from it, all of you. 28 This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins.

Matthew 26:26-28, ESV

It is after this Passover meal that Christ, and his disciples, When they completed their feast, these men went out to the Mount of Olives and Christ entered into a small Garden called Gethsemane.

This Garden is between what was the Temple of Jerusalem to the summit of Mount of Olives. It is about 1200 square meters. The name Gethsemane means Oil Press. It is here where the Olives were brought to be pressed down by large milestones in order to produce oils for different purposes. The more pressure applied to the crushing of olives, the better quality the oil becomes. It is in this setting that Christ came with his disciples. And, this is where the symbolism of the Garden of Gethsemane intrigues us.

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Christ in the Garden of Gethsemane

Of All the Gardens in All of Jerusalem - Why Gethsemane?

Dr. Taylor Haverson has a wonderful article on the significant and symbolic meaning behind the Garden of Gethsemane. Dr. Haverson remarks the following reasons for Christ coming into the Garden:

• It is the lowest point in Jerusalem because of its geographical locale between the City of Jerusalem and the Mount of Olives

• The Kidron Brook helped wash away the blood from the sacrificial animals.

• Gethsemane (as previously mentioned) means Oil Press

In this article, Halverson shares his own personal observations of how the oil from the olives were pressed out:

The day of pressing the olives to extract the oil, I walked to the pressing station. The olives were being put under tremendous pressure between a pressure screw and the beautiful white Jerusalem limestone. As I drew near, my breath was taken away. I thought I saw blood pouring over the white limestone rock, as if a sacrificial victim was giving its life away. I was so surprised. I had no idea that olive oil initially emerges from the olive blood red before it turns the beautiful golden green we are so familiar with.

Luke is the only Gospel that records what is now referred to as a rare medical condition - Hematidrosis - Christ sweating great drops of blood.

And being in agony he prayed more earnestly; and his sweat became like great drops of blood falling down to the ground

Luke 22:44, ESV

This is the lowest point of Christ's life. He was pressed down with the weight of human transgression since the fall of Adam. Christ knew his mission and purpose. He taught and prepared his disciples for what was about to take place. Yet, at the dawn of the most significant event in human history, Christ experienced severe anguish and agony. In his sermon, Charles H. Spurgeon remarks:

I do not think that this great conflict arose through our dear Master’s fear of death, nor through His fear of the physical pain and all the disgrace and shame that He was so soon to endure. But, surely, the agony in Gethsemane was part of the great burden that was already resting upon Him as His people’s substitute—it was this that pressed His spirit down even into the dust of death.

From a devotional on Jesus in Gethsemane at Ligonier's website - we read the following:

Note our use of the word struggle. Jesus’ submission to the will of His Father was no stoic resignation to fate; rather, our Savior wrestled with the choice before Him. He begged for the cup to pass from Him, and He was so distressed emotionally that He sweated blood (Mark 14:35–36; see Luke 22:39–46). Such facts show us that the trial Jesus faced was not merely physical in nature, as horrible as that aspect was. Many others throughout history have faced a horrible physical end with more composure, but Jesus was in turmoil because He was going to death as the Sin-Bearer, as the Lamb of God who would bear divine wrath to atone for the sin of His people. We can scarcely imagine the horror of this prospect. The God-man, pure and unstained by any sin of His own, was going to become sin so that in Him His people would become the righteousness of God (2 Cor. 5:21). The Savior was going to suffer the full weight of all the sins of His people. He was going to experience the separation from God’s blessing that impenitent sinners endure in hell. Little wonder, then, that He asked for another way to bring about the salvation of His people.

The agony, the choice before Jesus Christ, the prayer of respite from the bitter cup that he was to drink from. All of this pressed down upon him. The weight of the world upon his very shoulders. And, his very question Let this cup pass before me, not my will, but thine be done center's our focus on the very heart of surrender and obedience. Was there any other way that such a sacrifice could be accomplished? Maybe you have asked yourself - Is there no other way to get through this? I know I have asked myself this question many times. It is the core purpose of this message for people in recovery today.

We have only one choice and that is to experience our own Garden of Gethsemane in order to be spiritually transformed with newness of life.

Getting through your own personal Gethsemane

In various recovery rooms (e.g. Alcoholics Anonymous, Narcotics Anonymous, et el.) the common belief is the idea of hitting rock bottom before any significant change is able to occur. In essence, before an addict, or alcoholic, is able to reach out for help and change; it is believed that they must come to the lowest point in their life. A place where they have lost everything, damaged everything, and there is no further way to go. Another way of saying this is that a person seems to need a Gethsemane Experience before real spiritual transformation is able to occur.

An article was published on June 11, 2013 by contributor Robert C. Crosby, D.Miv at Huffington Post's website. This article is titled: Getting Through Your Gethsemanes. Crosby explores, quite succinctly, reasons we face our own Gethsemane and the purpose behind those experiences. While we are not burdened with becoming Sin-Bearers like Jesus Christ had become; our own personal experiences are bearing our own sins and transgressions when we come face-to-face with God's divine will and good pleasure. It is a place we come to for total surrender and submission over to Him. Here is what Crosby says:

For you and for me, Gethsemane is a place of coming to terms with the will of God. It is a place where we face God’s will, head-on. At Gethsemane, we look honestly and clearly at what God has called us to do. We consider the call and we count the cost. And at Gethsemane we discover that any uncertainty about God’s will is not in His mind. Rather it is in ours. Though we may try to change Him and His will in order to remove the stress, we soon find that His will is fixed and His purpose set.

This is where we find a more enriching meaning to the nature of realizing our sense of powerlessness over those things that have brought ruin and destruction into our lives. A place where we come to realize we have no power to manage our lives in its present state and condition. It is where we come to realize our need and dependence upon God and our own personal willingness to count the cost and surrender over to His will. The first three steps of any twelve step program brings us to our own Garden of Gethsemane before we are able to begin any spiritual transformation.

In his April 2014 Washington Post Article, Rev. James Martin writes this:

The invitation to surrender, to accept our cup, to acknowledge the inevitability of suffering and to step onto the path of sacrifice, comes in the context of a relationship with God. We trust that God will be with us in all that we do and all that we suffer. We do not simply grit our teeth, clench our fists and push on, alone and unaided. Someone is with us, helping us. To use another image from the Gospels, there is someone else in the boat with us, and pulling on the oars — even if we do not feel it.

None of us want to suffer. Yet, in our lives we will experience all manner of suffering. Much of this suffering has to do with losses we experience. Some of the losses weigh us down and trouble our very own souls to the point of suffocation. Despite our own suffering, we find peace and strength to move forward through our own Gethsemane experience.

Rev. Martin expresses these simple truths:

• Christ did not avoid the hard truth of his situation

• Christ did not ignore his pain, nor the pain of those around him

• Christ set aside his own desire to be in control and submitted to God's will

• Christ submitted himself to God's divine will and plan and found peace

These simple truths echo into our own hearts and minds today. When we find ourselves being pressed down and weighed by all of our past mistakes, transgressions, fears, anxieties, and being in a place of ruin; it is there we wrestle with God. Like Christ, we do not avoid the hard truth of our present situation and circumstances. Nor, do we ignore our pain and the pain of those around us. In fact, it is through acknowledging and embracing our pain and anguish that we come to God through prayer and meditation.

Through humility, we come to wrestle with God. Christ prayed three times. The Gospel accounts provide us with simple phrases, yet, we may adequately assume he prayed with great intensity to the point that he suffered agony during those prayers. Once we are humble, we are in a place to set aside our own desire to be in control.

What amazes me, personally, is that Christ had all the power in the world to prevent this from happening. He very well had the power to not go through with the subsequent torture and crucifixion. Christ created all things. Yet, with all of this power he possessed, Christ humbled himself and realized there is no other way for him but to go through with the purpose and plan of God's divine providential will.

For us, we live in delusions when we possess the belief we have the power to control people, situations, events, and all things that we may experience in life. Our personal Garden of Gethsemane experience brings us to the reality that we no longer possess control over ourselves and our lives. Like Christ, we set aside our own personal desires for control and surrender to God's will, submitting ourselves over to Him.

And, let us carefully consider that Christ's suffering in the Garden of Gethsemane was not a mere moment in time. Bruce R. McConkie relates this in his sermon of April 1985:

As near as we can judge, these infinite agonies—this suffering beyond compare—continued for some three or four hours.

Our own personal suffering may appear without any end in sight. However, we learn that through our own suffering, we are lifted up and transformed with new faith and hope. This is the heart of the message today - to find hope, purpose, meaning in our own personal sufferings. When we come into our own Garden of Gethsemane, there is a purpose for us being there. It is to spiritually transform us into a whole new person.

Toward our personal Spiritual Transformation

As we follow the account of Christ, he comes to an end of his suffering. By facing the reality of the situation, accepting and embracing the emotional distress, and coming to terms to follow through with God's divine plan and purpose: Christ walked out of Gethsemane and was betrayed by his disciple Judas. Following this betrayal. Christ was placed on trial and the people demanded justice and punishment. He was arrested and given over to the Roman Soldiers for punishment.

Under Roman authority, Christ was scourged. A form of Roman torture given to those condemned as criminals. David McClister writes about this in his article, The Scourging of Jesus Christ.

Scourging, called verberatio by the Romans, was possibly the worst kind of flogging administered by ancient courts. While the Jews administered whippings in the synagogues for certain offenses, these were mild in comparison to scourging. Scourging was not normally a form of execution, but it certainly was brutal enough to be fatal in many cases. A person certainly could be beaten to death by the scourge if that was desired. Its purpose was not only to cause great pain, but to humiliate as well. To scourge a man was to beat him worse than one would beat a stupid animal. It was belittling, debasing, and demeaning. It was considered such a degrading form of punishment that, according to the Porcian (248 B.C.) and Sempronian (123 B.C.) laws, Roman citizens were exempt from it. It was, therefore, the punishment appropriate only for slaves and non-Romans, those who were viewed as the lesser elements in Roman society. To make it as humiliating as possible, scourging was carried out in public.

The instrument of torture for this scourging was a small whip, containing metal objects, balls, or the like. The purpose of this was to break open the skin. A gruesome sight and a painful and agonizing experience.

For us, we are scourged where we are vulnerable and raw. Our innermost being is exposed and we experience the humiliation, ridicule, and shame of what has happened. In a proverbial manner we scourge ourselves because of how debased we have become. Left emotionally raw, physically weak, and vulnerable. In order for spiritual transformation to have any significant impact on our lives: we face those consequences of our own actions.

Once Christ was scourged, and condemned to death, he had to make the walk up toward the place where he will be crucified. Here, we read the account of the Savior being nailed to the Cross. Our minds picture Him hanging there, struggling to breathe, and suffering even more. Through this account, we read he cried out Father, Father, why hast thou forsaken me?

It is at the point of us coming to a place of our own cross where we perceive others have forsaken us. We feel abandoned, alone, miserable, broken, beaten, and give ourselves over. Again, the application with the scene of Christ on the Cross is one of ultimate surrender. He willfully gave himself up so that God's purpose and plan would be fully realized.

Crucified through Christ in order to be raised with newness of life

The Apostle Paul writes to the Christians in Galatia the following:

I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.

Galatians 2:20, ESV

Paul understood the nature of humanity's condition. Paul also understood the powerful nature of Christ's atonement. He also understood the meaning of submission and surrender into God's divine will and plan. No other verse seems to capture this than what Paul wrote to Galatia.

Though crucifixion was the Roman form of capital punishment - the idea of crucifying ourselves is symbolic and powerful in our spiritual transformation. A. W. Tozer makes this observation in his work The Crucified Life:

What I mean by the crucified life is a life wholly given over to the Lord in absolute humility and obedience: a sacrifice pleasing to God.

Here, we see that the symbolism of crucifying ourselves means that we come to a place where we put to death the old self in order to no longer be enslaved to our old desires, habits, thoughts, and way of living life. Again, the Apostle Paul teaches us this:

We know that our old self was crucified with him in order that the body of sin might be brought to nothing, so that we would no longer be enslaved to sin.

Romans 6:6, ESV

Spiritual transformation occurs at the moment we carry ourselves toward a place where we are able to put ourselves to death. And, this may be quite agonizing and painful. it is the putting off of our old way of living life that brings us to a place of peace and a new way of living life. Paul taught the Christians in Ephesus this principle:

... to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires,  and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.

Ephesians 4:20-24, ESV

Paul Carter writes this observation at Life, Hope, and Truth:

The words put off in this verse essentially mean “putting away” or “renouncing.” Paul was instructing the members to put away their old man—the selfish, sinful way we naturally think and act in this evil world. Our old man is deceitful (Jeremiah 17:9), even convincing us that we don’t need to change or that God’s way is too hard. It is naturally opposed to God and His laws (Romans 8:7).

Putting to Death the Old Man: What does it mean?

Living, what A. W. Tozer refers to as, a crucified life essentially brings us to mean we move out of our old world and embrace a whole new way of living. By embracing a whole new outlook, a new way of thinking, and a new way of understanding, we are empowered to move toward spiritual perfection through Jesus Christ. Tozer observes:

The whole Bible supports the idea of progressing toward spiritual perfection in our Christian Lives.

Tozer also observes:

The crucified life is absolutely committed to following after Jesus Christ. To be more like Him. To think like Him. To act like Him. To love like Him. The whole essence of spiritual perfection has everything to do with Jesus Christ.

Therefore, in our recovery journey, when we make Christ the center to whom we align ourselves with, we come through our own personal garden of Gethsemane, face our own scourging and crucifixion, in order to experience the full impact of spiritual transformation. Because, the story of the Gospels does not end with the Cross. The Gospels provide the most single important truth of all of scripture. A truth that had been prophesied down through the ages. It was at that time, the most significant event in human history. Jesus Christ rose from the dead.

Pastor John MacArthur provides this gem of truth. His sermon focused on Romans 6:1-14. It is the first part of a sermon series. In his sermon The Spiritual Significance of the Resurrection, MacArthur teaches:

At salvation there's regeneration, there's a new birth, there's a conversion, there's a transformation, there's a new creation, and this new person walks in a different way — “walk” meaning daily conduct, daily life.  We die a real death. And that death is a significant thing, a significant event, with significant results. We have a new life.  Psalm 40, verse 3 says we sing a new song.  ... Ezekiel 18 says we have a new spirit inside.  Ezekiel 36 says we have a new heart.  Second Corinthians 5:17, we're a new creation.  Galatians 6:15, we're a new being. Ephesians 4:24, we're a new man.  Revelations 2:17, we have a new name, a new identity.  Now all of a sudden we're released back into this world but we're alien to it, we're strangers to it, we're pilgrims in it.  We don't belong anymore because there has been such a severe transformation.  A real death has occurred, and a real resurrection has occurred and we engage ourselves in a new kind of life with all new perceptions of the world around us.  We walk, to put it in the words of 1 John, in the light instead of in the darkness.

Authentic spiritual transformation moves us toward a life where we have a new identity, a new way of thinking, a new way of believing, and a new way of relating to other people around us. This, I personally believe, means we have had a real true spiritual awakening in order to come into a place of living differently. A place where we find peace amidst our storms. A place where we are able to find strength and encouragement; as well as provide strength and encouragement toward others.

Through our own personal Garden of Gethsemane, we are placed on trial. We are scourged because of shame, guilt, humiliation, and face our dissenters and enemies. We carry our anxieties, our worries, our burdens to a place where we symbolically put to death our old ways of living. So that, we arise as a new person. And, it all began when we faced and endured our own Gethsemane.

Endure and Persevere through your own Gethsemane experience

The spiritual application here is this: we will face those times where we are in our own Garden of Gethsemane. How we choose to experience this encounter is entirely up to each one of us. However, consider this spiritual applications from this message today:

• The reality of our own personal suffering and brokenness will not be fully healed and restored if we do not endure our own Gethsemane

• The reality of how others suffered because of us can in no way ever be ignored and we need to face this reality

• Accepting the painful experience and surrendering to God is the ultimate means by which we are able to secure peace in our hearts and our minds

• Our old way of living life is placed on trial and scourged in order to expose our raw true sense of being

• It requires we commit ourselves over to putting off who we thought we are, old ways of thinking, old beliefs and values that no longer serve any purpose in our lives, and realize our need to forsake our own sense of self

• We are brought into a new way of life where our true self is able to embrace new values, new beliefs, and we walk because Christ walks with us

There is no other way to a real spiritual transformative way of living life. Whether we are in recovery from substance use disorders, healing from family dysfunctions, childhood trauma and other experiences.

So, if you have ever felt so weighed down by the overwhelming stress where you experienced great sorrow - even unto death? Getting to the lowest point in your life and all things pressing down onto you where you are emotionally, physically, and spiritually exhausted. Those around you have appeared to abandon you. People demanding for justice and punishment. Feeling betrayed and sold out. And, all you desire in that very moment is to cry out for mercy, grace, peace, and love. Not wanting to have to walk through this time of darkness. Welcome to your own personal Garden of Gethsemane. For some of us, we may refer to it as our own personal hell. However, Having our own personal Gethsemane experience means we are moving toward spiritual transformation and a new way of living life