Living the Book of Mormon: 1 Nephi 2:16 - Seeking God's Guidance

 

Introduction

Welcome, everyone, to day two of our devotional series, Living the Book of Mormon: Courage and Wisdom for Latter-day Saints in Recovery. I’m so glad you’re here today as we explore a powerful principle that can transform our lives and recovery journeys: Seeking God’s Guidance. Whether you’re navigating personal challenges, supporting a loved one, or simply seeking to deepen your faith, today’s message is for you.  

Yesterday, we focused on the "tender mercies of the Lord" (1 Nephi 1:20). Today, we turn to 1 Nephi 2:16, where Nephi shows us how to find direction in times of uncertainty. Our theme is about turning to God when life feels chaotic—something especially meaningful for those of us in recovery. Over the next three hours, we’ll dive deep into scripture, reflect on its meaning, and discover practical ways to invite God’s guidance into our lives.  

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Devotional - Seeking God's Guidance

Key Scripture: “And it came to pass that I, Nephi … having great desires to know the mysteries of God, wherefore I did cry unto the Lord; and behold he did visit me, and did soften my heart that I did believe all the words which had been spoken of by my father; wherefore, I did not rebel against him like my brothers.” 

Reflection

Have you ever stood at a crossroads, uncertain of your next step, especially when chaos seems to swirl around you? In such moments, the human impulse – the natural man – tends to lean on our own reasoning or bend to the clamor of competing voices. Yet, Nephi’s example in 1 Nephi 2 reveals a higher way of living. Caught in the tumult of a divided family – his father, Lehi, called to leave Jerusalem while his brothers rebelled – Nephi faced a choice. He either succumbs to confusion or sided with dissent. Instead, he turned to God: “I, Nephi … did cry unto the Lord; and behold he did visit me and did soften my heart” (1 Nephi 2:16). This was no simple plea for clarity; it was a surrender to God’s will and purpose that brought about a transformation and spiritual growth. God’s response softened Nephi’s heart, aligning his will with Heavenly Father’s will and igniting enduring faith and obedience. A softened heart, as Psalms 51:10 reveals – “Create in me a clean heart O God” – is the fertile ground where God’s guidance may take root. What may shift us if we dared to cry out as Nephi did? How will God soften your heart as you seek after Him and His will – seeking after His Kingdom and Righteousness (Matthew 6:33)? 

Recovery Focus

For Latter-day Saint Christians in recovery, Nephi’s story strikes a resonant chord. The journey – whether from addiction, pain, or brokenness – begins with a humbling reality and truth: We cannot navigate our recovery path and transformation alone. Like Nephi amidst family strife and dysfunction, we often find ourselves lost, wrestling with inner conflict or external pressures. Yet, our recovery and spiritual growth hinges on this pivotal act: Reaching out to God. It is not about mustering up will power or personal strength through grit alone. It is about inviting the Holy Spirit into our hearts and minds where God will soften our hearts and guide our steps. 

James 1:5 gives us a profound promise – “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.” So, it is the same with us – when we are actively seeking God’s guidance, He meets us with grace, offering wisdom and healing. Proverbs 3:5-6 adds another layer of truth, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart … and He shall direct your paths.” Recovery is a spiritual rebirth where we are “a new creation” (2 Corinthians 5:7). And it starts with a prayer for help. 

Wisdom

Elder Neal A. Maxwell taught, “As one’s will is increasingly submissive to the will of God, he can receive inspiration and revelation so much needed to help meet the trials of life. … Will we too trust the Lord amid a perplexing trial for which we have no easy explanation?"  (October 1995 General Conference: Swallowed Up in the Will of the Father). Nephi lived this truth. His softened heart did not merely resolve a moment’s doubt; it prepared him for a journey of eternal significance. So, it is with us. Seeking God’s guidance equips us not only to overcome present struggles but to embrace the future our Heavenly Father has prepared. 

The scriptures amplify this: Moses found strength to lead through prayer (Exodus 3-4), David discovered direction in distress (Psalm 61:1-2), and Christ Himself sought the Father’s will in Gethsemane (Matthew 26:39). To be teachable is to be transformed – ready for life’s trials and triumphs. In our own personal recovery and spiritual growth and beyond with an eternal perspective. A willing desire that opens the door to God’s divine direction where we possess an unshakeable purpose for life. 

Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank you for giving me the wisdom and courage, the same you provided Nephi, for guidance during my struggles and trials. Thank you for softening my heart as I continue to seek after your will and purpose, strengthening me to begin my own recovery path. In Jesus name, Amen.

Message from the Devotional

Let’s start with our key scripture. I’ll read it aloud, and I invite you to listen with your heart:  'And it came to pass that I, Nephi … having great desires to know the mysteries of God, wherefore I did cry unto the Lord; and behold he did visit me, and did soften my heart that I did believe all the words which had been spoken of by my father; wherefore, I did not rebel against him like my brothers.' (1 Nephi 2:16)  

To really grasp this, let’s set the scene. Nephi’s family was in upheaval. His father, Lehi, had received a divine call to abandon their home in Jerusalem and flee into the wilderness—a radical, life-altering command. But not everyone was on board. Nephi’s older brothers, Laman and Lemuel, rebelled. They doubted Lehi’s revelation and resisted leaving their comfortable life behind.  

Imagine Nephi in this moment: his family divided, his future uncertain, the wilderness ahead. He could’ve followed his brothers’ dissent or leaned on his own reasoning to make sense of it all. But instead, he chose something extraordinary. He turned to God.  

Nephi says he had 'great desires to know the mysteries of God.' This wasn’t a passing curiosity—it was a deep, burning need to understand God’s will. So, he 'did cry unto the Lord', a phrase that suggests more than a casual prayer. It was a heartfelt, urgent plea. And God’s response? 'He did visit me and did soften my heart.'  

That softening is key. It didn’t just clarify Nephi’s doubts—it transformed him. His heart became receptive, aligning his will with God’s, and he chose faith over rebellion. This is where our journey begins today: seeking God’s guidance to soften our own hearts.

Reflection and Discussion

Now, let’s pause and reflect. I’ll pose some questions—grab a journal if you can or just ponder in your heart. If you’re watching live, feel free to share your thoughts in the comments below.  

• Have you ever stood at a crossroads, uncertain of your next step—especially when chaos swirled around you? Maybe it was a job loss, a strained relationship, or a moment in your recovery where you felt lost. What did that feel like?  
• How do you typically respond in those situations? Do you lean on your own logic, seek others’ opinions, or turn to God?  
• What can we learn from Nephi’s example of crying out to the Lord?

Take a moment to think about this.

Nephi’s story challenges the 'natural man' in us—the impulse to figure everything out ourselves or bend to outside pressures. Instead, he shows us a higher way: surrendering to God.  

Let’s talk about that phrase, 'soften my heart.' In Psalms 51:10, David prays, 'Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.' A softened heart isn’t weak—it’s open, teachable, ready to receive God’s guidance. For Nephi, it meant believing Lehi’s words and choosing obedience over rebellion.  

So, here’s another question: What might shift in your life if you dared to cry out to God as Nephi did? Maybe it’s peace in a trial, clarity in a decision, or strength to keep going. A softened heart is where transformation begins. Let’s hold that thought as we move forward

Recovery Focus

For those of us in recovery—whether from addiction, pain, or brokenness—Nephi’s experience hits close to home. Recovery is a journey often marked by uncertainty, inner conflict, and external pressures. Like Nephi facing family strife, we can feel lost, unsure of how to move forward.  

Here’s the humbling truth: We can’t navigate this path alone. Willpower and grit help, but they’re not enough. Recovery calls us to reach out to God, inviting the Holy Spirit to soften our hearts and guide our steps.  

The scriptures back this up with promises we can cling to. James 1:5 says, 'If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.' Think about that—God doesn’t judge us for asking. He meets us with grace, offering wisdom when we’re at our lowest.  

Then there’s Proverbs 3:5-6: 'Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.' In recovery, our own understanding can be clouded by past hurts or present struggles. Trusting God shifts the burden off our shoulders and onto His. 

And here’s the beautiful part: recovery isn’t just about overcoming—it’s about becoming new. 2 Corinthians 5:17 tells us, 'If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.' That rebirth starts with a simple prayer for help.  

So, wherever you are in your recovery, know this: seeking God’s guidance isn’t a one-time fix—it’s a lifeline. Nephi didn’t just survive his trial; he grew through it. You can too

Wisdom from Church Leaders

Let’s draw on some modern wisdom. Elder Neal A. Maxwell once said, 'As one’s will is increasingly submissive to the will of God, he can receive inspiration and revelation so much needed to help meet the trials of life. … Will we too trust the Lord amid a perplexing trial for which we have no easy explanation?' (October 1995 General Conference).  

Nephi lived this. His softened heart didn’t just resolve a moment of doubt—it prepared him for a journey of eternal significance. Submitting to God’s will opened him to divine direction, equipping him for what lay ahead.  

The scriptures echo this pattern. Moses, called to lead the Israelites, felt inadequate—yet through prayer, God gave him strength (Exodus 3-4). David, overwhelmed, cried out, 'Lead me to the rock that is higher than I' (Psalm 61:1-2). And Jesus Christ, in Gethsemane, prayed, 'Not My will, but Yours, be done' (Matthew 26:39).  

What ties these stories together? A willingness to seek God. To be teachable is to be transformed—ready for trials and triumphs. In recovery, this means letting go of pride or self-reliance and trusting God’s plan, even when it’s hard to see. That’s where unshakeable purpose is born.

Application and Takeaways

So, how do we live this? Here are five practical takeaways to seek God’s guidance in your life and recovery:  

• Make Prayer a Priority: Set aside time daily to talk to God. Be specific—ask for guidance in your challenges. Matthew 6:33 says, 'Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness.' Start there.  
• Study the Scriptures: The Book of Mormon, Bible, and words of living prophets are God’s voice to us. Read with a question in mind—'What do You want me to do, Lord?'—and listen for answers.  
• Seek Priesthood Blessings: When you’re stuck, a blessing can bring comfort and clarity. It’s a tangible way to feel God’s guidance through His servants.  
• Be Teachable: A softened heart is open to change. Even if God’s direction surprises you, trust it. His ways are higher than ours.  
• Practice Patience: God’s timing isn’t always ours. Nephi didn’t get instant answers, but he kept seeking. Persist in faith—He’ll guide you in His perfect way.

These steps aren’t a checklist; they’re a lifestyle. Try one this week—maybe start with a prayer tonight—and see how God responds. Write it down, share it in the comments. Let’s grow together!

Prayer and Closing

As we wrap up, let’s unite in prayer:  

'Heavenly Father, thank You for the example of Nephi, who sought Your guidance in uncertainty. Thank You for softening our hearts as we seek Your will. Strengthen us in our recovery and daily lives. Guide us with Your wisdom and love. In Jesus’ name, Amen.'  

Thank you for spending these three hours with us. You’re not alone—God is with you, ready to guide you to healing and purpose. If this touched you, leave a comment below—share how you’ve felt God’s guidance or what you’ll try this week. Subscribe for day three tomorrow and keep seeking Him with courage and faith. See you soon!

Living the Book of Mormon: "The Tender Mercies of the Lord" 1 Nephi 1:20

 

Introduction

Hello, and welcome to Living the Book of Mormon: A Devotional Journey on the Mindful Latter-day Saint Christian and Apologetics YouTube channel. I’m your host, Timothy, and I’m thrilled you’re here as we embark on this sacred exploration of the Book of Mormon. Whether you’re a lifelong Latter-day Saint or someone seeking to deepen your Christian faith, this series is designed for you—to help us live more mindfully as disciples of Jesus Christ by immersing ourselves in these inspired pages.  

Today, we begin with 1 Nephi 1, a chapter that introduces us to Nephi and his family and sets the tone for a journey of faith, obedience, and divine care. Our focus is on 1 Nephi 1:20, where Nephi declares: 'But behold, I, Nephi, will show unto you that the tender mercies of the Lord are over all those whom he hath chosen, because of their faith, to make them mighty even unto the power of deliverance.' This verse is a promise—a testament to God’s gentle, loving interventions in our lives, which we’ll call His tender mercies.  

In this episode, I want to unpack what these tender mercies are, how faith invites them, and how they lead to recovery, deliverance, and wisdom. Along the way, I’ll pose reflective questions like 'What tender mercies have you seen in your life?' and 'How can you grow in faith to recognize God’s hand?' Feel free to pause and reflect or share your thoughts in the comments—I’d love to hear from you.  

Let’s dive in with open hearts, ready to see how Nephi’s experiences can transform our own.

Devotional - "The Tender Mercies of the Lord"

Key Scripture - 1 Nephi 1:20 - But, behold, I Nephi, will show unto you that the tender mercies of the Lord are over all those whom he hath chosen, because of their faith, to make them mighty even unto the power of deliverance. 

Reflection

1 Nephi 1:20 gives us a proclamation - observe the weight of this declaration: God's tender mercies are not random acts of kindness. They are deliberate blessings bestowal upon those who align their hearts and minds with Him through faith. Interpret this as a divine promise - His gentle, loving interventions are ever-present, often unnoticed, weaving through our lives like threads of gold in the midst of our trials. As Latter-day Saint Christians, we are invited to apply this simple and profound truth by seeking these mercies daily. Recognizing how they are the quiet evidence of our Heavenly Father who never forsakes His covenant people. 

What are these tender mercies to you? They are the sacred moments when heaven bends low, whispering you are not alone in your mess. You are not alone in those moments of despair. That each one of us are not alone in our path of recovery and spiritual growth. 

Consider Nephi's context - his family having fled Jerusalem, leaving behind wealth, friends, and their affluence. Fleeing a city that is ripe for destruction. Under prophetic and divine command, Lehi is called to take his family into the wilderness. There, they experienced hardship, trials, and challenging their faith. Yet, the tender mercies were not in the absence of the hardship faced - the tender mercies of the Lord were revealed in the strength to endure. So, it is with us where we experience the tender mercies of God. He does not promise a life that is devoid of storms. However, He strengthens us and empowers us with courage, wisdom, and power to rise above them. 

1 Nephi 1:20 challenges us to shift our gaze from the magnitude of our struggles to the magnitude of His care. Are we too consumed with our own murmuring, as seen with Laman and Lemuel, to see the Lord's hand? To live mindfully as Latter-day Saint Christians, we are invited to train our hearts, minds, and souls to discern His tender mercies, for in them lies the proof of His choosing us - not for ease, for His own purpose and glory. 

Recovery Focus

When we stumble and fall short - be it through sin, doubt, or despair - Nephi's words offer insight and guidance. Spiritual wisdom and counsel for us regarding the tender mercies of the Lord. And what this means for our personal recovery path and journey. His tender mercies extend to those who, by faith, cling to Him. Observe how Nephi ties these mercies to deliverance as God's commitment to restore us; not merely to where we were, to where He intends us to be. Take a moment to pause and reflect on how He may have brought about deliverance in your own life and from your own personal struggles. Perhaps, promptings that may have spared you, a peace that brought comfort and steadied you. 

Recovery is not self-wrought; it is God-given, a tender mercy that flows from faith. Will you seek after this, or will you continue to wallow in the ashes of your own making, which are self-pity, doubt, and fear?

Wisdom

Nephi's life unveils divine wisdom and courage for us to follow. Divine wisdom and courage borne out of obedience to God's voice. Wisdom and courage where it defies human logic and understanding. Nephi and his family did not merely flee from Jerusalem because it was sensible - they fled because it was commanded. And Nephi showed unwavering trust; being the fruit of knowing God's will that surpasses our own understanding. By surrendering our will, desires, and life over to God's care, we do not need to comprehend every step of our recovery journey and spiritual growth. Only wisdom and courage lie in following the Lord when the wilderness seems to loom before us. 

As Latter-day Saints, who are in recovery, the Book of Mormon is our guide to such wisdom and courage. A testament that faith in God's word makes us mighty. Are you willing to trade your reasoning for His divine revelation over your life? Willing to fully surrender your life, will, and desires over to His care and allow Him to direct your path through the wilderness of recovery? 

For me, the Book of Mormon became my personal guide through my own recovery, restoration, and healing where I came to realize my need for Christ, to seek after His will continually, and grow through faith in who Christ is. Will you allow this sacred text of scripture do the same for you?

Thought for Today

Nephi's testimony in 1 Nephi 1:20 is a call for each of us to awaken - to seek after the tender mercies of God - those tender mercies that surround us, and to recovery through our faith in Jesus Christ. To walk in resilient faith - with bold wisdom and courage that is born of faithful obedience to our Heavenly Father. 

God's power of deliverance is not a distant hope. It is an ever-present reality for those who choose to surrender their life, will, and desires over to His care. 

Today, make a decision to live as those chosen - not by your own efforts and merits, by His grace where you are ever mindful of His hand over your life. 

Prayer

 Heavenly Father, thank you for your tender mercies that sustain us in our recovery and spiritual growth. Thank you for opening our hearts, minds, and spirits today so that we are able to see those tender mercies, our hearts to receive them, and our desire and will to follow after Thee in faithful obedience. Thank you for the faith, as Nephi says, where we are able to become mighty through the power of deliverance that is through Jesus Christ and the Atonement. In Jesus Name, Amen. 

Message from the Devotional

Today, we begin with 1 Nephi 1, a chapter brimming with spiritual depth and practical application. 

In 1 Nephi 1, we are introduced to Nephi and his family, called by God - through Lehi's visions - to flee from Jerusalem. It is a story of personal and family upheaval, faith, and divine direction - a microcosm of our own lives. The key verse is 1 Nephi 1:20 as it shines a light on how "The tender mercies of the Lord are over all those whom he hath chosen, because of their faith, to make them mighty even unto the power of deliverance." Our focus is on God's subtle and yet powerful interventions. 

What are these "tender mercies" Nephi is speaking on? Well, they are the personalized blessings - the answered prayers, the quiet assurance and comfort that comes through the Holy Spirit, the strength that comes to empower us to endure. All these tender mercies come unbidden. For Nephi, and for us, they were the guidance to flee, the courage to obey, and the wisdom to walk in faithful obedience. For us, they may be a prompting to take action, a friend's timely call, or peace of mind amidst chaos. These are not coincidences - they are evidence of God's divine love over us. 

Reflecting on this, I have personally seen how often I've missed these mercies. Distracted by life's noise, my own desire to do the things I felt I needed to do, and living recklessly without divine revelation, wisdom, and guidance. Really, living unto myself and attempting to find myself - only to lose my sense of worth, freedom, fun, and belonging (Matthew 16:24-26). 

Yet, it only came after I had paused and realized I needed to fully give my heart, mind, will, and life over to His care and direction. I find His tender mercies in a hug from someone, meditating on a scripture that speaks directly to me, or ministering as led by the Holy Spirit. Recognizing them shifts my heart from fear to faith, reminding me that my Heavenly Father is always nearby. 

Segment 2: Devotional Reflection

Let’s begin by reading the key verse, 1 Nephi 1:20 gives insight regarding how much power these words possess. Yet, in order to feel their weight, we need to step into Nephi’s world.  

Take a moment to consider Jerusalem around 600 B.C.—a bustling city, yes, but one teetering on the edge of destruction due to widespread wickedness. Nephi’s father, Lehi, a prophet of God, received visions warning of this fate and was commanded to flee with his family into the wilderness. Imagine the chaos: abandoning home, wealth, and security to follow a divine directive into the unknown. It’s in this setting that Nephi speaks of tender mercies—not as a removal of hardship, but as God’s quiet, deliberate acts of love that sustained them.  

What are these tender mercies? They’re the personalized blessings God weaves into our lives—moments when heaven bends low to whisper, 'I see you, and I’m here.' For Nephi, they were the guidance to escape Jerusalem, the courage to trust his father’s visions, and the strength to face an uncertain future. For us, they might be a prompting that keeps us safe, a feeling of peace in turmoil, or a small kindness that lifts our spirits. These aren’t random—they’re evidence of a God who chooses us, not for an easy life, but for a life of purpose and glory through faith.  

The Bible affirms this beautifully. In Psalm 145:9, we read: 'The Lord is good to all: and his tender mercies are over all his works.' And in Lamentations 3:22-23: 'It is of the Lord’s mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not. They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.' These verses remind us that God’s mercies are constant, fresh each day, and available to all who seek Him.  

Let me share a story. A while back, I was struggling with a decision that felt overwhelming. I prayed for clarity, and the next day, I read a scripture that spoke directly to my need. It wasn’t a booming miracle, but a tender mercy that reminded me God was near.  

Now, let’s reflect. Take a moment to think: What tender mercies have you experienced in your life? Maybe it’s a time when you felt guided, comforted, or strengthened unexpectedly. And here’s another question: How might noticing these mercies more often shift your focus from life’s struggles to God’s care? Are we, like Nephi’s brothers Laman and Lemuel, too caught up in murmuring to see His hand?  

Pause here if you’d like, and jot down your thoughts. Recognizing these mercies trains our souls to live mindfully, seeing God’s love in every step of our journey. 

Segment 3: Applying the Lesson

So, how do we take this beautiful truth about tender mercies and make it part of our daily lives as mindful Latter-day Saint Christians? Nephi ties these mercies to faith—they come 'because of their faith.' Let’s explore how we can cultivate that faith and become more aware of God’s hand.  

Faith isn’t just believing—it’s acting on that belief. For Nephi, it was trusting Lehi’s call to leave Jerusalem, even when it defied logic. For us, it might be obeying a prompting, keeping a commandment, or simply turning to God in prayer when we’d rather give up. The Bible underscores this in Hebrews 11:1: 'Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.' And James 2:17 adds: 'Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone.' Faith is alive when we live it.  

Here are some practical ways to apply this:  

• Start a 'Tender Mercies' Journal: Each day, write down one way you saw God’s hand—a safe drive, a kind word, a moment of peace. Over time, you’ll see His care more clearly.  
• Practice Gratitude: Thank God daily for specific blessings, big or small. Gratitude opens our eyes to His mercies and softens our hearts.  
• Seek Him in Scripture and Prayer: Spend time with the Book of Mormon and the Bible, even just a few verses, and talk to God. This builds our faith and tunes us to His voice.  
• Act in Faith: When you feel prompted—maybe to serve, forgive, or trust—do it. Faith grows through action, and mercies often follow.

I’ve done this myself. Keeping a journal revealed blessings I’d overlooked—like the energy to get through a tough day or a stranger's smile that lifted my mood. It’s humbling to see how active God is in my life when I pay attention.

Let’s reflect. What’s one tender mercy you’ve noticed today? It could be as simple as this moment to study God’s word. And how can you strengthen your faith to invite more of these mercies? Is there a step—prayer, obedience, trust—you can take today?  

Pause and think about these questions. Living mindfully as Christians means choosing faith daily, knowing it’s the key to seeing God’s tender mercies all around us."  

Segment 4: Recovery and Deliverance

Nephi’s promise in 1 Nephi 1:20 ends with a powerful phrase: 'to make them mighty even unto the power of deliverance.' God’s tender mercies don’t just comfort us—they empower us to recover and overcome. Let’s dig into what this deliverance means for us today.  

For Nephi, deliverance was tangible—fleeing Jerusalem’s destruction, surviving the wilderness, and later obtaining food and direction. But notice: God didn’t always remove the trial. He gave them strength to endure it and a path through it. That’s often how He delivers us too—not by erasing our struggles, but by making us mighty to face them.  

In our lives, we stumble—through sin, doubt, despair, financial woes, illness, or grief. Nephi’s words are an invitation for us: God’s tender mercies are there to lift us up, tied to our faith. I’ve seen this personally. During a period of loss, I prayed for relief, but instead of instant answers, I received a quiet strength to keep going—a tender mercy that led to healing over time.  

The Bible echoes this promise. Psalm 34:17 says: 'The righteous cry, and the Lord heareth, and delivereth them out of all their troubles.' And in 2 Corinthians 12:9, God tells Paul: 'My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness.' Deliverance isn’t always a quick fix—it is God’s grace making us strong in our weakness.  

How do we access this? Trust His timing—help may come gradually. Act in faith—pray, obey, seek Him, even when it’s hard. And look for His mercies already at work—sometimes it’s the resilience we didn’t know we had.  

Reflect with me: How has God delivered you in the past? Maybe it was a burden lightened or a way forward you didn’t expect. And what challenge can you bring to Him now, trusting His tender mercies to make you mighty?  

Take a moment to ponder. Recovery and deliverance are processes, and God walks with us every step, turning our trials into testimonies of His love.

Segment 5: Wisdom and Obedience

Let’s turn to another lesson from Nephi’s life: the wisdom that flows from obedience. In 1 Nephi 1, he didn’t question Lehi’s visions or God’s command to flee—he obeyed, and that trust brought guidance and blessings. This pattern repeats throughout his story, like when he retrieved the brass plates against all odds.  

Obedience isn’t blind—it’s faith in God’s wisdom over our own. Proverbs 3:5-6 teaches: 'Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.' And Jesus said in John 14:15: 'If ye love me, keep my commandments.' When we obey, we align with God’s will, and He reveals paths we couldn’t see.  

I’ve felt this. Recently, I had to drive into north Seattle to check on something. On my way back, and not having had anything to eat yet, I was prompted to stop off at the store. At first, I thought it was merely my own desire of getting something to eat. Yet, the closer I was getting to a store, the more the prompting became. Finally, I decided to faithfully obey—and as I made a turn into the parking lot, I saw an older gentleman flying a sign. Quickly, I went in and got a few items and then took them over to Him, asking if there was anything I could pray for. He backed up and I could see the loss of hope and despair, the spiritual darkness over him. I walked away questioning if I had truly ministered to him. Yet was comforted knowing I obeyed without delay. Obedience traded my reasoning for His revelation.  

How do we live this? Listen—through prayer, scripture, and the Spirit. Act—even when it’s unclear why. And surrender control, trusting God’s plan. The Book of Mormon is our guide here, showing how obedience makes us mighty.  

Reflect: When have you obeyed God despite doubts, and what happened? Maybe a prompting paid off in ways you didn’t expect. And how can you align your will with His today? Is there a commandment or nudge you’ve resisted?  

Pause and think. Wisdom comes when we choose God’s voice over our own, and His tender mercies guide us as we follow.

Segment 6: Conclusion and Call to Action

As we wrap up, let’s gather the treasures from 1 Nephi 1. God’s tender mercies are His loving, subtle blessings, given through our faith. They help us recover, deliver us by making us mighty, and guide us through obedient wisdom. Nephi’s testimony is our call—to awaken to God’s hand in our lives.  

I challenge you to apply this. Commit to daily Book of Mormon study—start with 1 Nephi 1—and look for His mercies. Keep that journal, practice gratitude, and act in faith. Share what you learn—comment below, tell a friend, or post online. Let’s build a community of Saints living these truths.  

Let’s close with a prayer:

'Heavenly Father, we thank Thee for Thy tender mercies that sustain us. Open our eyes to see them, our hearts to receive them, and our wills to follow Thee. Grant us faith like Nephi’s, that we may be made mighty through Thy deliverance. In Jesus’ name, amen.'  

Thank you for joining me. Subscribe for more in this series, and may you feel God’s tender mercies today and always.

Come Follow Me - Easter Message “I Am He Who Liveth, I Am He Who Was Slain” From the Tomb to New Life

 

Key Points

• Research suggests Jesus Christ's resurrection, as highlighted in Easter teachings, offers hope and transformation.
• It seems likely that personal struggles, like addiction, can be addressed through faith in Christ's living presence.
• The evidence leans toward Easter symbolizing new life, supported by both scripture and personal testimonies.

The Living Christ and Easter's Message

Easter centers on Jesus Christ's resurrection, a cornerstone of Christian faith. The "Come Follow Me" study for Easter 2025, focusing on Doctrine and Covenants, emphasizes that Christ is "he who liveth, I am he who was slain" (Doctrine and Covenants 110:4), meaning He is alive today, guiding His Church and offering personal healing. This aligns with the idea of how we also live through him (Galatians 2:20); which explores how Christ's resurrection invites us to step out of personal "tombs" like addiction or despair into new life.

Resurrection and Personal Hope

The doctrine of resurrection, detailed in scriptures like Doctrine and Covenants 29:26–27 and 88:14–17, assures us of eternal life, transforming our view of death. These two passages of scripture reinforce this with the empty tomb symbolizing victory over despair, offering hope that no situation is too final for God, especially resonant for those facing personal challenges.

Atonement and Transformation

Christ's Atonement, as taught in Doctrine and Covenants 18:10–13 and 19:16–19, provides forgiveness and strength to overcome weaknesses. The YouTube script connects this to becoming a "new creation" in Christ, particularly meaningful for those on a sobriety journey, illustrating transformation through faith.

Applying Easter's Message

Both encourage personal application: identifying struggles, seeking support, and trusting in Christ's power. Whether through memorizing scriptures or praying for help, Easter invites us to embrace new life, making it a time for renewal and hope.

Exploring Easter's Message of Hope and Transformation

Easter ought to be a pivotal celebration in our Christian life, marking the resurrection of Jesus Christ and embodying themes of hope, renewal, and personal transformation. This survey integrates insights from the "Come Follow Me" study guide for Easter 2025, focusing on the Doctrine and Covenants, to provide a comprehensive exploration of Easter's spiritual significance. The analysis aims to address how these teachings can inspire and uplift individuals seeking spiritual growth or overcoming personal challenges.

Historical and Scriptural Context

The "Come Follow Me" lesson for April 14–20, 2025, titled “I Am He Who Liveth, I Am He Who Was Slain,” centers on a significant event from April 3, 1836, when Joseph Smith and Oliver Cowdery, after administering the sacrament in the newly dedicated Kirtland Temple, witnessed the risen Savior. He declared, "I am he who liveth, I am he who was slain" (Doctrine and Covenants 110:4), affirming His resurrection and ongoing presence. This event, occurring on Easter Sunday, underscores the living Christ’s role in guiding His Church and offering personal revelation, as detailed in the study guide available at Come Follow Me Doctrine and Covenants 2025.

Understanding how this message fits within the scope of the theme "From the Tomb to New Life: An Easter Message of Hope and Transformation," complements this by focusing on the resurrection narrative, particularly the story of Lazarus in John 11. It highlights Jesus calling Lazarus from the tomb, symbolizing hope and transformation, and connects this to Easter’s message of liberation from personal struggles like addiction and shame.

Key Themes from "Come Follow Me"

The Easter lesson is structured around three main themes, each supported by scriptures and resources:

Jesus Christ Lives: The lesson emphasizes Christ’s living presence, encouraging individuals to ponder their testimony through scriptures like Doctrine and Covenants 6:34, 84:77, 98:18, and 138:23. It suggests memorizing meaningful scriptures, referencing Elder Richard G. Scott’s teaching on the power of scripture memorization, and engaging with the video “My Spiritual Goal” (Gospel Library). Singing “I Know That My Redeemer Lives” (Hymns, no. 136) is also recommended, reinforcing the personal connection to the living Christ.

Because of Jesus Christ, I Will Be Resurrected: This theme explores the doctrine of resurrection, with scriptures such as Doctrine and Covenants 29:26–27, 42:45–46, 63:49, 88:14–17, 27–31, and 93:33–34. It offers comfort for those mourning, referencing 1 Corinthians 15 and Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph Smith (2007), 174–76, and the Easter resources at Easter Church. The lesson includes object lessons, like using a flashlight to illustrate the separation and reunion of spirit and body, to teach children about resurrection.

Jesus Christ Accomplished a ‘Perfect Atonement’ for Me: This section delves into the Atonement, referencing Doctrine and Covenants 18:10–13, 19:16–19, 45:3–5, and 76:69–70, supplemented by Luke 22:39–44, 1 John 1:7, 2 Nephi 2:6–9, Mosiah 3:5–13, 17–18, and Moroni 10:32–33. It encourages creating a list of truths about the Atonement, with additional resources like the video “The Savior Suffers in Gethsemane” (Gospel Library, 8:30) and articles in the Liahona and For the Strength of Youth.

Insights For Living in Sacred Sobriety

Focusing on the emotional and symbolic aspects of Easter our understanding begins with Lazarus’ resurrection, detailing the grief of Mary and Martha and Jesus’ empathy, as seen in John 11:35, “Jesus wept.” This story illustrates “godly sorrow,” a concept from 2 Corinthians 7:10, which leads to repentance and salvation, particularly relevant for those on a sobriety journey. The script frames the tomb as a symbol of personal struggles—addiction, shame, fear—contrasting with Christ’s invitation in John 8:12, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.”

The empty tomb, central to Easter, is depicted as proof of Christ’s victory, with Matthew 28:2–6 describing the angel’s announcement, “He is not here; He has risen.” This connects to Romans 6:4, suggesting that through baptism, we can live a new life, resonating with personal testimonies of transformation, like someone overcoming alcoholism through faith.

Personal Application and Transformation

How do we apply Easter’s message personally? The "Come Follow Me" lesson poses reflective questions, such as “Who is Jesus Christ? Why do we worship Him?” and “How can the Savior help me today?” referencing Isaiah 53:3–5, Hebrews 2:17–18, Mosiah 3:7, Alma 7:11–13, 36:3, Ether 12:27, and Moses 5:10–12. It encourages activities like creating a table of Atonement truths or watching “The Shiny Bicycle” (Gospel Library, 3:4) for children, fostering family discussions.

Additionally, there are practical steps, such as identifying one’s “tomb,” praying for help, or joining a support group, emphasizing community involvement. It shares a story of someone transitioning from alcoholism to thriving through faith, illustrating resurrection power in action, and encourages readers to share their steps in comments, fostering engagement.

What Does this Mean for Each of Us?

Easter invites us to celebrate Christ’s living presence, the promise of resurrection, and the transformative power of His Atonement. By integrating these teachings, we can find hope and renewal, whether through studying Doctrine and Covenants, singing hymns like “I Know That My Redeemer Lives,” or taking steps to leave personal tombs behind. Reflect on how you can embrace this new life: perhaps start with a prayer, join a community, or share your journey. May this Easter fill your heart with renewed faith, knowing that because He lives, we too can live anew.

From the Tomb to New Life: An Easter Message of Hope and Transformation

Introduction

Hey there, welcome to Sacred Sobriety: A Path for the Soul! I’m so thrilled you’re joining me today—especially on this glorious Easter Sunday. Easter is one of those seasons that just overflows with hope, renewal, and the promise of transformation, and I can’t wait to unpack that with you. Today, we’re diving deep into something that’s really close to my heart: the powerful symbolism of the empty tomb and what Christ’s resurrection means for each of us—how it’s all about stepping out of darkness and becoming a new creation in Him.

Easter isn’t just about pastel-colored eggs or springtime festivities (though I’ll admit, those are pretty delightful!). It’s a time to celebrate the ultimate victory over death, despair, and everything that tries to hold us back. For those of us on a journey of sobriety, spiritual growth, or simply seeking a fresh start, this message of hope is like a lifeline. So, grab your favorite drink—maybe a warm cup of coffee or a refreshing glass of water—and let’s settle in together. We’re going to explore some incredible stories from scripture, reflect on how they speak into our lives, and wrestle with some big questions that might just spark something new in your soul.

Whether you’re here for a dose of encouragement, a deeper dive into spiritual growth, or an Easter Sunday message that resonates with your heart, you’re in the right place. Let’s kick things off with a story that sets the stage beautifully: the resurrection of Lazarus in John 11. It’s a moment packed with emotion, faith, and a glimpse of the transformative power we’re celebrating this Easter. Ready? Let’s go!

Lazarus’ Resurrection and Emotional States: A Stirring of Godly Sorrow

Picture this: Lazarus, a close friend of Jesus, has just died. By the time Jesus arrives in Bethany, Lazarus has been in the tomb for four whole days. His sisters, Mary and Martha, are absolutely devastated. They’d sent an urgent message to Jesus earlier, pleading for Him to come and heal their brother, but He didn’t show up in time. The air is thick with grief—you can almost feel the weight of their disappointment and sorrow pressing down.

In John 11:21-22, Martha meets Jesus and says, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died. But I know that even now God will give you whatever you ask.” There’s a raw honesty here—a mix of heartache, confusion, and yet, a flicker of trust. She’s hurting, but she hasn’t given up on Jesus. Then, in one of the most human moments in scripture, we see Jesus’ response. John 11:35 simply states, “Jesus wept.” It’s the shortest verse in the Bible, but it carries so much weight. Jesus isn’t detached or aloof—He’s right there in the pain, weeping alongside Mary and Martha. It shows us a Savior who feels with us, who gets it.

But even in her grief, Martha holds onto something powerful. In John 11:27, she declares, “Yes, Lord, I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, who is to come into the world.” Think about that for a second—she’s standing in the wreckage of her hopes, yet she clings to faith. It’s messy, it’s real, and it’s beautiful.

Doesn’t that hit home? We’ve all had those moments when life knocks the wind out of us—when sadness, regret, or loss feels overwhelming. Maybe you’ve been there, wrestling with the aftermath of a bad choice or the sting of a broken dream. Yet, deep down, there’s often this tiny spark of belief, this whisper that says, “There’s got to be more.” That’s what the Bible calls “godly sorrow”—a sorrow that doesn’t just leave us stuck but moves us toward something greater. In 2 Corinthians 7:10, Paul explains, “Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.” It’s the kind of sorrow that wakes us up, that says, “I can’t stay here—I need change, I need hope.”

For those of us walking the path of sobriety, this might feel especially familiar. That weight of guilt or emptiness—it’s heavy, isn’t it? I’ve talked to so many people who’ve said they hit a point where the pain of staying the same finally outweighed the fear of changing. Like Martha, they reached out in faith, even through tears. That’s where transformation begins—not in perfection, but in that honest, broken place where we admit we need something bigger than ourselves. It’s the first step out of the tomb, and it’s a step worth celebrating this, Easter.

Symbolism of the Tomb and Christ’s Invitation: Stepping into the Light

Now, let’s zoom in on that tomb for a moment. When Jesus arrives at Lazarus’ burial site, He doesn’t hesitate. In John 11:43, He calls out with authority, “Lazarus, come forth!” And just like that, Lazarus walks out—alive, breathing, a living miracle. It’s jaw-dropping, no doubt about it. But beyond the wow factor, there’s a deeper layer to this story that ties straight into Easter.

The tomb itself is a potent symbol. Picture it: a cold, dark cave, sealed with a massive stone. It’s death, decay, and hopelessness all rolled into one. In those days, tombs were final—once you were in, that was it. No light, no life, just silence. And yet, Jesus strides up to this place of despair and shatters its power with a single command. After Lazarus emerges, Jesus adds, “Take off the grave clothes and let him go” (John 11:44). It’s not just a resurrection; it’s a total liberation.

Here’s where it gets personal: Jesus isn’t only speaking to Lazarus—He’s speaking to us. That tomb represents the dark places we get trapped in. Addiction can feel like that—a suffocating cave where hope fades away. Shame can be a tomb too, burying us under the weight of our past. Fear, grief, regret—they’re all grave clothes that bind us up. But Jesus stands at the entrance of our tombs, calling, “Come out!” He’s inviting us to leave the darkness behind and step into something new.

I love how He frames this invitation in John 8:12: “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness but will have the light of life.” That’s the heartbeat of Easter—Jesus offering us a way out of the shadows. He’s not just pointing to the light; He is the light. And when we follow Him, we don’t have to stumble around in the dark anymore—we get to live in a way that’s vibrant and free.

So, let’s pause and chat about this: What’s your tomb? Take a second to think about it. Is it a habit you can’t kick, like alcohol or drugs? Maybe it’s a secret you’ve buried deep because facing it feels too hard. Or perhaps it’s a belief—like “I’m not enough”—that keeps you locked away. Whatever it is, hear this: Jesus is calling your name, just like He called Lazarus. He’s saying, “You don’t have to stay there. Come into my light.”

And here’s a practical insight: sometimes stepping out means letting others help us with those grave clothes. Lazarus didn’t unwind them himself—people around him stepped in. For us, that might look like reaching out to a friend, joining a support group, or even just praying for courage. The point is, Easter reminds us we’re not meant to stay buried. Jesus’ invitation is real, and it’s for you—right here, right now.

Christ’s Resurrection and Personal Hope: The Power of the Empty Tomb

Speaking of invitations, let’s turn to the centerpiece of Easter: the empty tomb. Can you imagine the scene? Jesus had been crucified, His body laid in a tomb, and a massive stone rolled across the entrance. Matthew 27:60 tells us Joseph of Arimathea “placed [Jesus] in his own new tomb that he had cut out of the rock” and sealed it shut, with guards posted to keep watch (Matthew 27:66). For the disciples, it must have felt like the end—dreams shattered, hope snuffed out.

But then, Easter morning dawns, and everything flips upside down. In Matthew 28:2-6, we read, “There was a violent earthquake, for an angel of the Lord came down from heaven and, going to the tomb, rolled back the stone and sat on it. … The angel said to the women, ‘Do not be afraid, for I know that you are looking for Jesus, who was crucified. He is not here; He has risen, just as He said. Come and see the place where He lay.’” The tomb is empty! Death didn’t win—Jesus did.

This is the cornerstone of our hope as Christians. Paul drives it home in 1 Corinthians 15:17-20: “And if Christ has not been raised, your faith is futile; you are still in your sins. … But Christ has indeed been raised from the dead, the first fruits of those who have fallen asleep.” If Jesus didn’t rise, we’d have nothing to stand on. But He did, and that changes everything. The empty tomb isn’t just a cool story—it’s proof that no darkness is too deep, no situation too final, for God to overcome.

Romans 6:4 connects this to us personally: “We were therefore buried with Him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life.” Because Jesus walked out of that tomb, we can walk out of ours. It’s not just about eternal life someday—it’s about new life right now. Easter says that whatever’s holding you down doesn’t get the last word—Jesus does.

For anyone who’s felt trapped—maybe by addiction, despair, or a past you can’t escape—this is huge. The resurrection isn’t a distant event; it’s a living promise. Think about it: if God can raise Jesus from the dead, what can’t He do in your life? That empty tomb is a shout of hope, a declaration that transformation isn’t just possible—it’s what God does best.

Personal Tombs and New Creation: Becoming New in Christ

Alright, let’s bring this closer to home. What does your personal tomb look like? On the outside, we might look fine—smiling, going through the motions—but inside, it’s another story. Ephesians 2:1 paints a stark picture: “As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins.” That’s life without Christ—walking around, but not really alive. It’s like being stuck in a tomb of our own making.

For those of us on a sobriety journey, this hits hard. Addiction is a tomb—dark, isolating, relentless. It wraps us in grave clothes of shame and hopelessness, making us feel like there’s no way out. But here’s the game-changer: we don’t have to stay there. In 2 Corinthians 5:17, Paul says, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” In Christ, we’re not just patched up—we’re made new. The old junk? It’s gone. The new life? It’s here.

Let me tell you about someone I know. This guy was buried in the tomb of alcoholism for years. One night, deep in a drunken haze, a friend confronted him, saying, “Man, you’re on a dark path—you’re losing yourself.” At that point, he’d walked away from faith entirely, living for the next drink. But the next morning, sober and raw, something clicked. He thought, “Maybe there’s hope for me too.” It wasn’t instant, but it was a start—a slow climb back to faith and sobriety. Today, he’s not just sober; he’s thriving, helping others find their way out. That’s resurrection power in action.

Or think about Paul in the Bible. Before he was Paul, he was Saul—a guy persecuting Christians, trapped in his own tomb of pride and violence. But after meeting the risen Jesus, he became a new creation. In Galatians 2:20, he writes, “I have been crucified with Christ, and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me.” That’s what happens when the tomb cracks open—old identities die, and new life takes over.

So, wherever you’re at, know this: your tomb isn’t your destiny. God’s in the business of making dead things live again. Addiction, regret, failure—none of it is stronger than the One who beat death. You’re a new creation waiting to step out—Easter proves it.

Application and Reflection: Living the Easter Promise

As we wrap up this Easter message, let’s get practical. First, what’s your tomb? What’s keeping you in the dark? Maybe it’s addiction, guilt, or a wound you’ve never healed. Name it—don’t shy away. Owning it is how you start breaking free.

Second, how can you step into Christ’s light this Easter? What’s one move you can make toward that new life? It could be as simple as praying, “Jesus, help me out of this.” Maybe it’s calling a friend for support or diving into scripture like Psalm 30:5—“Weeping may stay for the night, but rejoicing comes in the morning.” God promises something new, like in Isaiah 43:19: “See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?” Trust that He’s at work in you.

And here’s a promise to hold onto—Ezekiel 36:26: “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.” Easter isn’t just a day—it’s a new heart, a new spirit, a fresh start.

So, take a minute with me. What’s one step you can take today to leave your tomb behind? Maybe it’s forgiving yourself, starting a gratitude journal, or joining a community that lifts you up. If you’re up for it, share your step in the comments—I’d love to cheer you on. Or just whisper it to God.

Let’s pray: Lord, thank You for Easter—for the empty tomb and the hope it brings. Thank You for calling us out of darkness into Your light. Give us courage to step forward, to release the old, and to embrace the new creation You’ve made us to be. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Thanks for spending this time with me. If this stirred something in you, hit like, share it with someone who needs hope, and subscribe to Sacred Sobriety for more. You’re not alone—Christ’s resurrection means there’s always a way out. Happy Easter, friends!

The Joy of Recovery and Sobriety: Becoming Clean through the Atonement of Christ

But we are all as an unclean thing, and all our righteousness's are as filthy rags; and we all do fade as a leaf; and our iniquities, like the wind, have taken us away. Isaiah 64:6, CF Romans 3:19-23

The term utilized in the passage of Isaiah refers to the particular cloth that was used to clean up from the woman's menstrual cycle. Such imagery is not for the palatable and feeble minded individual. Yet, it holds significant truth as it relates to the human condition. Despite our own efforts, good will and desires, we still remain stained and filthy. This is particularly true when people enter into recovery. Many want to get their life back on track, stop using and stay clean, and not use anymore. And, when it comes to recovery and sobriety, there is no joy to be experienced. Only pain, emotional distress, vulnerability, raw sense of shame and guilt, grief and loss, and inability to manage one's own life.

However, there is hope through Jesus Christ and His infinite and divine atonement. This is where the heart of our joy comes from. And it is the heart of how we move toward experiencing lasting joy in our lives as we engage in recovery and maintain an active and sober lifestyle. But first, we must get ourselves cleaned and experience what that may look like for ourselves.

What does it mean to be clean?

How one answer's this question is entirely up to them. Generally - the best way to respond to this is through what Neil L. Anderson shares in his book The Divine Gift of Forgiveness. He describes a childhood memory of going with his father and getting a steer that had wandered off and eventually was hit by a vehicle. Anderson described what it felt like when he came home and showered:

I went back to the house. ... I remember clearly the satisfaction of removing my shirt. Peeling off each layer of clothing brought relief. I began washing - first my hands, then my arms to the elbows. It was not the kind of dirt that would disappear quickly. Then I showered, first washing the ears, then the hair, back to the hands and fingernails, and to the hair again. It was some time before I felt satisfied that the cleansing was done.

Anderson also shared:

Slipping into a clean pair of pajamas, I lay awake in bed for a while reliving the experience, but the feelings of tiredness did not approach the sensational satisfaction of being washed and clean.

Anderson transitions his thoughts toward the sacredness of spiritual cleansing that occurs through the atonement of Jesus Christ. The removal of the sin that stains our souls surpasses any formal understanding of joy one may experience. He recounts the parable of the Prodigal Son and how it relates to the nature of the healing power found in Christ's atonement.

We experience joy as the love of our Savior assures us that we can yet be clean, that we will one day be home again. This happiness comes only through repentance.

The Divine gift of forgiveness p. 11; Anderson, N. l.

Seeking forgiveness and engaging in the repentance process is at the heart of early recovery. It sets the foundation and tone for how we maintain long term sobriety. We first, must peel off all the layers of our false beliefs, expectations, thoughts, emotions, and strip ourselves of who we believe ourselves to be - whether an addict or an alcoholic - in order to move forward toward personal growth, transformation, health, and wellness. Without engaging in the process of repentance and forgiveness, we will inevitably revert back to what we are: filthy rags that are easily discarded.

I, personally, am able to relate to what Anderson shared about his experience with the shower and how refreshing it is to feel washed and cleansed. Many times, have I spent working in the grime, dirt, and getting filthy. Coming home, exhausted, tired, smelling raunchy, and all I wanted was to get cleaned up. The feeling of how the water splashes and washes away the dirt and grime, the stench going away, and stepping out of the shower with a sense of renewal. Even such an experience pales in the comparison of truly feeling cleansed and forgiven by the Lord and experiencing the power of the atonement.

Turn and be healed

Christ's infinite atonement does more than washes us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. It heals us. Anderson quotes 3 Nephi 9:13-14 and Alma 36:19-21.

Many times, we see Christ interact with those who are experiencing leprosy, deformities, and other ailments. His commands always included some action that was based on their faith. To the one who had a deformed arm, Christ requested he stretch forth his arm (see, Matthew 12:13). To the person unable to walk since birth, Christ asked him to take up thy bed and walk (see, John 5:8-16). There was a specific call to action.

For those in recovery, Christ is asking for you to -

• Return to Him
• Repent of your sins
• Be converted

In order to be healed. We have to take the steps. There are some Christians who may disagree with me on this. However, in recovery, we have to do the work necessary to bring our sins, our shames, our guilt, our distressing emotions to the alter and offer them up to God in order to receive forgiveness and healing. We are called to repent of those things we have done wrong. Without true and sincere repentance, we may not fully experience the joy and forgiveness that Christ offers us.

Another concept here is that we are to turn away from our old way of living life. Without turning away from the active substance use, the people that may continue to enable us and support our continued use, an individual is never truly ready to experience the joy of recovery and sobriety. Seeking after forgiveness, through sincere and heart felt repentance means we are willing to turn our lives over and around in the direction of where our Heavenly Father desires for us to go.

This reminds me of the story of Naaman in 2 Kings 5. According to 2 Kings, Naaman was considered a mighty man, a person of valor, yet suffered leprosy. When the Prophet Elisha encountered the captain of the Syrian army, the request was for Namaan to go and wash in the river Jordan seven times in order to be healed of his leprosy. At first, Naaman refused. However, as we read, he reluctantly followed Elisha's instructions and once he completed this - he was healed of his leprosy:

Then went he down, and dipped himself seven times in Jordan, according to the saying of the man of God: and his flesh came again like unto the flesh of a little child, and he was clean. 2 Kings 5:14, KJV

Many of us are like Naaman. We have a condition that is not culturally acceptable (due to social stigma). To be told we must do something in order to experience being cleansed and healed causes grave consternation. We want a more simplified solution. Yet, we eventually come to our own Jordan River and follow the requests on cleansing ourselves.

Eternal Promises are Provided

One simple truth that many fail to understand is that there are eternal promises attached to our own personal redemption, forgiveness, and healing. This is true in recovery as well as in spiritual rebirth. However, it is a process that takes time. This is the reason for the effectiveness of the 12-steps. They may be recommendations and suggestions. However, one does not stop at step 12 and say - I am done and now I'm clean. We go back and look at and continue to peel off those layers. Our spiritual maturation requires we continue to take a fearless and courageous moral inventory, seek out forgiveness as we walk in forgiveness toward others.

Anderson shares this insight on how these eternal promises are provided:

Repentance is the perfect spiritual remedy for sin. Each sin we leave behind through our faith in the living Christ - both those of commission and those of omission - opens spiritual doors.

He continues:

We must be converted to daily repentance. Jesus provided an example of daily prayer: "when ye pray say ... forgive us our sins; for we also forgive every one that is indebted to us. And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil."

This daily walk in humility, as Anderson shares, is a way Our Heavenly Father, through Jesus Christ and the power and authority of His Holy Spirit, reveals to us our own personal weaknesses. This is the part where we engage in self-discovery to understand who we are. Even those weaknesses and areas that need to be let go and given over to God. It also requires us to walk in true honesty and transparency. After all, God sees and knows all. Nothing can be hidden from Him.

Repentance and Forgiveness - the birth pains of healing in recovery

There is no doubt that when we fully come to our own personal Jordan River, it is not without pain and suffering. These are only the birth pains to feel the depth and breadth of Christ's infinite atonement in healing. And it is something that we are committed to engaging in.

Bringing into the world a new life is painful. Ask any mother who has given birth to a child. Yet, ask them if it was worth going through the process of enduring the pain and most likely the answer will be a resounding yes. How is that? The simple answer is the joy experienced when that newborn child is placed in the mother's arms for the first time. The joy of knowing how precious that child's life is.

In recovery, we are birthing a new life for ourselves, and it is painful. Ask any person who has established a healthy and long-term sobriety from their active lifestyle if it was worth going through the painful early stages of recovery and they may respond with a resounding yes. That does not mean they enjoyed the process. Yet, the outcome, the healing, the new life experience surpassed all the pain endured in those early days.

It all begins with being honest with us and with God. It also requires that we honestly listen to the still small voice as it reveals to us those character defects we may want to work on.

So, what does it mean to be clean? It means we take our time. We endure the painstaking process of peeling away those grimy character defects. It means we take our time and focus on thoroughly washing ourselves. To be clean means we experience the fullness of joy that comes through our sincere repentance and forgiveness of sins that is only through Jesus Christ alone. 

Stand a little taller in recovery

 Growing up as a Latter-day Saint Christian, one of my favorite hymns was Put Your Shoulder to the Wheel. It wasn’t a typical hymn of worship, but it resonated with me deeply, shaping my understanding of perseverance and purpose in life. This hymn was written during the migration of the Mormon pioneers and reflects the determination of those early saints as they pushed their heavy, wheeled carts along difficult trails. The imagery of their physical labor became a metaphor for spiritual and personal resilience.

In recovery, we often encounter similar struggles. Each individual has their own work to do—work that cannot be avoided or delegated. The hymn's third stanza captures this principle perfectly:

Then don’t stand idly looking on;

The fight with sin is real.

It will be long but must go on;

Put your shoulder to the wheel.

The word sin here is worth unpacking. In Hebrew, one of the words translated as sin is chata (khaw-taw), which means "to miss the mark" or "to go astray." In recovery, the fight against "missing the mark" is very real. Substance use disorder presents countless opportunities to stray, and the road to sobriety often feels long and exhausting. But serenity and healing can only be achieved by continuing the journey, step by step, with determination. This is where the principle of “putting your shoulder to the wheel” becomes not just a hymn lyric but a personal mantra.

This idea is further illustrated in Aesop’s fable, Hercules and the Wagoner. The story tells of a wagoner whose cart became stuck in the mud. Frustrated and defeated, he threw down his whip, knelt in the mire, and prayed to Hercules for help. Hercules, however, appeared and admonished him:

"Tut, man, don’t sprawl there. Get up and put your shoulder to the wheel."

The moral of the fable is clear: while divine strength may be available to us, we are also called to exert our own efforts. The wagoner had to use his own strength to lift his cart out of the mud—a lesson in the value of action and personal responsibility.

In recovery, this principle is invaluable. Recovery demands effort. It asks us to roll up our sleeves, dig deep, and commit to the hard work of change. It means pushing forward even when the weight of our past, our shame, or our struggles feels overwhelming. When we “put our shoulder to the wheel,” we engage not just with the process of recovery but with the transformative work of rebuilding our lives.

Now is the time to rise. The time to lift our eyes from the past and resist the temptation to dwell on what is unknown or uncontrollable in the future. This is the season to commit—to squarely place your shoulder to the wheel of your own life and push with purpose toward freedom and sobriety.

The Time is Now to Do What is Right in Recovery

As the new year begins, let this be the season where you make a radical commitment to your recovery. Stand a little taller, focus on the present, and take one courageous step at a time. Leave behind the fear of what has or hasn’t happened and instead embrace the now. Recovery is about doing what is right, regardless of the challenges or consequences, and trusting that your efforts will bear fruit.

When you submit your life and your will to a Higher Power—as you understand it—you’ll find the strength to push forward. In those moments of surrender, remember these words:

Then work and watch and fight and pray

With all your might and zeal.

Push ev’ry worthy work along;

Put your shoulder to the wheel.

(Chorus)

Put your shoulder to the wheel; push along,

Do your duty with a heart full of song.

We all have work; let no one shirk.

Put your shoulder to the wheel.

Today’s Thoughtful Meditation:
Recovery takes work, courage, and commitment. It requires strength and effort. Today, I resolve to put my shoulder to the wheel of my recovery, to stand a little taller, and to move forward—one determined step at a time.