Living the Book of Mormon: "The Tender Mercies of the Lord" 1 Nephi 1:20

 

Introduction

Hello, and welcome to Living the Book of Mormon: A Devotional Journey on the Mindful Latter-day Saint Christian and Apologetics YouTube channel. I’m your host, Timothy, and I’m thrilled you’re here as we embark on this sacred exploration of the Book of Mormon. Whether you’re a lifelong Latter-day Saint or someone seeking to deepen your Christian faith, this series is designed for you—to help us live more mindfully as disciples of Jesus Christ by immersing ourselves in these inspired pages.  

Today, we begin with 1 Nephi 1, a chapter that introduces us to Nephi and his family and sets the tone for a journey of faith, obedience, and divine care. Our focus is on 1 Nephi 1:20, where Nephi declares: 'But behold, I, Nephi, will show unto you that the tender mercies of the Lord are over all those whom he hath chosen, because of their faith, to make them mighty even unto the power of deliverance.' This verse is a promise—a testament to God’s gentle, loving interventions in our lives, which we’ll call His tender mercies.  

In this episode, I want to unpack what these tender mercies are, how faith invites them, and how they lead to recovery, deliverance, and wisdom. Along the way, I’ll pose reflective questions like 'What tender mercies have you seen in your life?' and 'How can you grow in faith to recognize God’s hand?' Feel free to pause and reflect or share your thoughts in the comments—I’d love to hear from you.  

Let’s dive in with open hearts, ready to see how Nephi’s experiences can transform our own.

Devotional - "The Tender Mercies of the Lord"

Key Scripture - 1 Nephi 1:20 - But, behold, I Nephi, will show unto you that the tender mercies of the Lord are over all those whom he hath chosen, because of their faith, to make them mighty even unto the power of deliverance. 

Reflection

1 Nephi 1:20 gives us a proclamation - observe the weight of this declaration: God's tender mercies are not random acts of kindness. They are deliberate blessings bestowal upon those who align their hearts and minds with Him through faith. Interpret this as a divine promise - His gentle, loving interventions are ever-present, often unnoticed, weaving through our lives like threads of gold in the midst of our trials. As Latter-day Saint Christians, we are invited to apply this simple and profound truth by seeking these mercies daily. Recognizing how they are the quiet evidence of our Heavenly Father who never forsakes His covenant people. 

What are these tender mercies to you? They are the sacred moments when heaven bends low, whispering you are not alone in your mess. You are not alone in those moments of despair. That each one of us are not alone in our path of recovery and spiritual growth. 

Consider Nephi's context - his family having fled Jerusalem, leaving behind wealth, friends, and their affluence. Fleeing a city that is ripe for destruction. Under prophetic and divine command, Lehi is called to take his family into the wilderness. There, they experienced hardship, trials, and challenging their faith. Yet, the tender mercies were not in the absence of the hardship faced - the tender mercies of the Lord were revealed in the strength to endure. So, it is with us where we experience the tender mercies of God. He does not promise a life that is devoid of storms. However, He strengthens us and empowers us with courage, wisdom, and power to rise above them. 

1 Nephi 1:20 challenges us to shift our gaze from the magnitude of our struggles to the magnitude of His care. Are we too consumed with our own murmuring, as seen with Laman and Lemuel, to see the Lord's hand? To live mindfully as Latter-day Saint Christians, we are invited to train our hearts, minds, and souls to discern His tender mercies, for in them lies the proof of His choosing us - not for ease, for His own purpose and glory. 

Recovery Focus

When we stumble and fall short - be it through sin, doubt, or despair - Nephi's words offer insight and guidance. Spiritual wisdom and counsel for us regarding the tender mercies of the Lord. And what this means for our personal recovery path and journey. His tender mercies extend to those who, by faith, cling to Him. Observe how Nephi ties these mercies to deliverance as God's commitment to restore us; not merely to where we were, to where He intends us to be. Take a moment to pause and reflect on how He may have brought about deliverance in your own life and from your own personal struggles. Perhaps, promptings that may have spared you, a peace that brought comfort and steadied you. 

Recovery is not self-wrought; it is God-given, a tender mercy that flows from faith. Will you seek after this, or will you continue to wallow in the ashes of your own making, which are self-pity, doubt, and fear?

Wisdom

Nephi's life unveils divine wisdom and courage for us to follow. Divine wisdom and courage borne out of obedience to God's voice. Wisdom and courage where it defies human logic and understanding. Nephi and his family did not merely flee from Jerusalem because it was sensible - they fled because it was commanded. And Nephi showed unwavering trust; being the fruit of knowing God's will that surpasses our own understanding. By surrendering our will, desires, and life over to God's care, we do not need to comprehend every step of our recovery journey and spiritual growth. Only wisdom and courage lie in following the Lord when the wilderness seems to loom before us. 

As Latter-day Saints, who are in recovery, the Book of Mormon is our guide to such wisdom and courage. A testament that faith in God's word makes us mighty. Are you willing to trade your reasoning for His divine revelation over your life? Willing to fully surrender your life, will, and desires over to His care and allow Him to direct your path through the wilderness of recovery? 

For me, the Book of Mormon became my personal guide through my own recovery, restoration, and healing where I came to realize my need for Christ, to seek after His will continually, and grow through faith in who Christ is. Will you allow this sacred text of scripture do the same for you?

Thought for Today

Nephi's testimony in 1 Nephi 1:20 is a call for each of us to awaken - to seek after the tender mercies of God - those tender mercies that surround us, and to recovery through our faith in Jesus Christ. To walk in resilient faith - with bold wisdom and courage that is born of faithful obedience to our Heavenly Father. 

God's power of deliverance is not a distant hope. It is an ever-present reality for those who choose to surrender their life, will, and desires over to His care. 

Today, make a decision to live as those chosen - not by your own efforts and merits, by His grace where you are ever mindful of His hand over your life. 

Prayer

 Heavenly Father, thank you for your tender mercies that sustain us in our recovery and spiritual growth. Thank you for opening our hearts, minds, and spirits today so that we are able to see those tender mercies, our hearts to receive them, and our desire and will to follow after Thee in faithful obedience. Thank you for the faith, as Nephi says, where we are able to become mighty through the power of deliverance that is through Jesus Christ and the Atonement. In Jesus Name, Amen. 

Message from the Devotional

Today, we begin with 1 Nephi 1, a chapter brimming with spiritual depth and practical application. 

In 1 Nephi 1, we are introduced to Nephi and his family, called by God - through Lehi's visions - to flee from Jerusalem. It is a story of personal and family upheaval, faith, and divine direction - a microcosm of our own lives. The key verse is 1 Nephi 1:20 as it shines a light on how "The tender mercies of the Lord are over all those whom he hath chosen, because of their faith, to make them mighty even unto the power of deliverance." Our focus is on God's subtle and yet powerful interventions. 

What are these "tender mercies" Nephi is speaking on? Well, they are the personalized blessings - the answered prayers, the quiet assurance and comfort that comes through the Holy Spirit, the strength that comes to empower us to endure. All these tender mercies come unbidden. For Nephi, and for us, they were the guidance to flee, the courage to obey, and the wisdom to walk in faithful obedience. For us, they may be a prompting to take action, a friend's timely call, or peace of mind amidst chaos. These are not coincidences - they are evidence of God's divine love over us. 

Reflecting on this, I have personally seen how often I've missed these mercies. Distracted by life's noise, my own desire to do the things I felt I needed to do, and living recklessly without divine revelation, wisdom, and guidance. Really, living unto myself and attempting to find myself - only to lose my sense of worth, freedom, fun, and belonging (Matthew 16:24-26). 

Yet, it only came after I had paused and realized I needed to fully give my heart, mind, will, and life over to His care and direction. I find His tender mercies in a hug from someone, meditating on a scripture that speaks directly to me, or ministering as led by the Holy Spirit. Recognizing them shifts my heart from fear to faith, reminding me that my Heavenly Father is always nearby. 

Segment 2: Devotional Reflection

Let’s begin by reading the key verse, 1 Nephi 1:20 gives insight regarding how much power these words possess. Yet, in order to feel their weight, we need to step into Nephi’s world.  

Take a moment to consider Jerusalem around 600 B.C.—a bustling city, yes, but one teetering on the edge of destruction due to widespread wickedness. Nephi’s father, Lehi, a prophet of God, received visions warning of this fate and was commanded to flee with his family into the wilderness. Imagine the chaos: abandoning home, wealth, and security to follow a divine directive into the unknown. It’s in this setting that Nephi speaks of tender mercies—not as a removal of hardship, but as God’s quiet, deliberate acts of love that sustained them.  

What are these tender mercies? They’re the personalized blessings God weaves into our lives—moments when heaven bends low to whisper, 'I see you, and I’m here.' For Nephi, they were the guidance to escape Jerusalem, the courage to trust his father’s visions, and the strength to face an uncertain future. For us, they might be a prompting that keeps us safe, a feeling of peace in turmoil, or a small kindness that lifts our spirits. These aren’t random—they’re evidence of a God who chooses us, not for an easy life, but for a life of purpose and glory through faith.  

The Bible affirms this beautifully. In Psalm 145:9, we read: 'The Lord is good to all: and his tender mercies are over all his works.' And in Lamentations 3:22-23: 'It is of the Lord’s mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not. They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.' These verses remind us that God’s mercies are constant, fresh each day, and available to all who seek Him.  

Let me share a story. A while back, I was struggling with a decision that felt overwhelming. I prayed for clarity, and the next day, I read a scripture that spoke directly to my need. It wasn’t a booming miracle, but a tender mercy that reminded me God was near.  

Now, let’s reflect. Take a moment to think: What tender mercies have you experienced in your life? Maybe it’s a time when you felt guided, comforted, or strengthened unexpectedly. And here’s another question: How might noticing these mercies more often shift your focus from life’s struggles to God’s care? Are we, like Nephi’s brothers Laman and Lemuel, too caught up in murmuring to see His hand?  

Pause here if you’d like, and jot down your thoughts. Recognizing these mercies trains our souls to live mindfully, seeing God’s love in every step of our journey. 

Segment 3: Applying the Lesson

So, how do we take this beautiful truth about tender mercies and make it part of our daily lives as mindful Latter-day Saint Christians? Nephi ties these mercies to faith—they come 'because of their faith.' Let’s explore how we can cultivate that faith and become more aware of God’s hand.  

Faith isn’t just believing—it’s acting on that belief. For Nephi, it was trusting Lehi’s call to leave Jerusalem, even when it defied logic. For us, it might be obeying a prompting, keeping a commandment, or simply turning to God in prayer when we’d rather give up. The Bible underscores this in Hebrews 11:1: 'Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.' And James 2:17 adds: 'Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone.' Faith is alive when we live it.  

Here are some practical ways to apply this:  

• Start a 'Tender Mercies' Journal: Each day, write down one way you saw God’s hand—a safe drive, a kind word, a moment of peace. Over time, you’ll see His care more clearly.  
• Practice Gratitude: Thank God daily for specific blessings, big or small. Gratitude opens our eyes to His mercies and softens our hearts.  
• Seek Him in Scripture and Prayer: Spend time with the Book of Mormon and the Bible, even just a few verses, and talk to God. This builds our faith and tunes us to His voice.  
• Act in Faith: When you feel prompted—maybe to serve, forgive, or trust—do it. Faith grows through action, and mercies often follow.

I’ve done this myself. Keeping a journal revealed blessings I’d overlooked—like the energy to get through a tough day or a stranger's smile that lifted my mood. It’s humbling to see how active God is in my life when I pay attention.

Let’s reflect. What’s one tender mercy you’ve noticed today? It could be as simple as this moment to study God’s word. And how can you strengthen your faith to invite more of these mercies? Is there a step—prayer, obedience, trust—you can take today?  

Pause and think about these questions. Living mindfully as Christians means choosing faith daily, knowing it’s the key to seeing God’s tender mercies all around us."  

Segment 4: Recovery and Deliverance

Nephi’s promise in 1 Nephi 1:20 ends with a powerful phrase: 'to make them mighty even unto the power of deliverance.' God’s tender mercies don’t just comfort us—they empower us to recover and overcome. Let’s dig into what this deliverance means for us today.  

For Nephi, deliverance was tangible—fleeing Jerusalem’s destruction, surviving the wilderness, and later obtaining food and direction. But notice: God didn’t always remove the trial. He gave them strength to endure it and a path through it. That’s often how He delivers us too—not by erasing our struggles, but by making us mighty to face them.  

In our lives, we stumble—through sin, doubt, despair, financial woes, illness, or grief. Nephi’s words are an invitation for us: God’s tender mercies are there to lift us up, tied to our faith. I’ve seen this personally. During a period of loss, I prayed for relief, but instead of instant answers, I received a quiet strength to keep going—a tender mercy that led to healing over time.  

The Bible echoes this promise. Psalm 34:17 says: 'The righteous cry, and the Lord heareth, and delivereth them out of all their troubles.' And in 2 Corinthians 12:9, God tells Paul: 'My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness.' Deliverance isn’t always a quick fix—it is God’s grace making us strong in our weakness.  

How do we access this? Trust His timing—help may come gradually. Act in faith—pray, obey, seek Him, even when it’s hard. And look for His mercies already at work—sometimes it’s the resilience we didn’t know we had.  

Reflect with me: How has God delivered you in the past? Maybe it was a burden lightened or a way forward you didn’t expect. And what challenge can you bring to Him now, trusting His tender mercies to make you mighty?  

Take a moment to ponder. Recovery and deliverance are processes, and God walks with us every step, turning our trials into testimonies of His love.

Segment 5: Wisdom and Obedience

Let’s turn to another lesson from Nephi’s life: the wisdom that flows from obedience. In 1 Nephi 1, he didn’t question Lehi’s visions or God’s command to flee—he obeyed, and that trust brought guidance and blessings. This pattern repeats throughout his story, like when he retrieved the brass plates against all odds.  

Obedience isn’t blind—it’s faith in God’s wisdom over our own. Proverbs 3:5-6 teaches: 'Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.' And Jesus said in John 14:15: 'If ye love me, keep my commandments.' When we obey, we align with God’s will, and He reveals paths we couldn’t see.  

I’ve felt this. Recently, I had to drive into north Seattle to check on something. On my way back, and not having had anything to eat yet, I was prompted to stop off at the store. At first, I thought it was merely my own desire of getting something to eat. Yet, the closer I was getting to a store, the more the prompting became. Finally, I decided to faithfully obey—and as I made a turn into the parking lot, I saw an older gentleman flying a sign. Quickly, I went in and got a few items and then took them over to Him, asking if there was anything I could pray for. He backed up and I could see the loss of hope and despair, the spiritual darkness over him. I walked away questioning if I had truly ministered to him. Yet was comforted knowing I obeyed without delay. Obedience traded my reasoning for His revelation.  

How do we live this? Listen—through prayer, scripture, and the Spirit. Act—even when it’s unclear why. And surrender control, trusting God’s plan. The Book of Mormon is our guide here, showing how obedience makes us mighty.  

Reflect: When have you obeyed God despite doubts, and what happened? Maybe a prompting paid off in ways you didn’t expect. And how can you align your will with His today? Is there a commandment or nudge you’ve resisted?  

Pause and think. Wisdom comes when we choose God’s voice over our own, and His tender mercies guide us as we follow.

Segment 6: Conclusion and Call to Action

As we wrap up, let’s gather the treasures from 1 Nephi 1. God’s tender mercies are His loving, subtle blessings, given through our faith. They help us recover, deliver us by making us mighty, and guide us through obedient wisdom. Nephi’s testimony is our call—to awaken to God’s hand in our lives.  

I challenge you to apply this. Commit to daily Book of Mormon study—start with 1 Nephi 1—and look for His mercies. Keep that journal, practice gratitude, and act in faith. Share what you learn—comment below, tell a friend, or post online. Let’s build a community of Saints living these truths.  

Let’s close with a prayer:

'Heavenly Father, we thank Thee for Thy tender mercies that sustain us. Open our eyes to see them, our hearts to receive them, and our wills to follow Thee. Grant us faith like Nephi’s, that we may be made mighty through Thy deliverance. In Jesus’ name, amen.'  

Thank you for joining me. Subscribe for more in this series, and may you feel God’s tender mercies today and always.

CFM December 30-January 5: "The Promised Restoration Goes Forward"

 

The First Vision - Artist Gary Kapp

Understanding the Restoration of the Fullness of the Gospel of Jesus Christ

What does it mean to live in a world where the heavens are open, and truth is restored? For Latter-day Saints, the Restoration of the Gospel of Jesus Christ is more than just a historic event—it’s a personal invitation to come closer to God. It began when a young boy, Joseph Smith, sought answers to his deepest spiritual questions, and it continues today through revelation and faith. The Restoration reminds us that God’s love and guidance are available for every one of His children, no matter where they are. In this post, let’s reflect on the significance of this restoration in our own lives. Please share your thoughts, connect with others, and help spread this message of hope.

Understanding the Restoration

The Restoration of the Gospel of Jesus Christ is fundamental to understanding God's love and His eternal plan for us. It’s not just about the reorganization of a church—it’s a demonstration of God’s continual involvement in our lives. The Restoration is a sacred act of renewal, ensuring that the fullness of truth and priesthood authority could be accessible to all of His children. Let’s explore two key aspects of this incredible event.

God’s Direct Involvement

When we speak of the Restoration, we are referring to God’s hand in reestablishing His Church and priesthood authority on earth. This wasn’t a man-made event; it was guided by divine instruction. The process began with Joseph Smith’s humble prayer as a fourteen-year-old boy who sought clarity in a time of spiritual confusion. His experience in the Sacred Grove with Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ was more than just a vision—it was a direct response to a young soul seeking truth.

The Restoration didn’t end with the First Vision. Through revelation, Joseph Smith received the priesthood power from angelic messengers including John the Baptist and Peter, James, and John. This authority, which had been lost after the death of Christ’s apostles, was restored to administer ordinances and lead Christ’s Church. Without this priesthood restoration, the power to bind on earth and heaven would be incomplete. This is why we refer to Christ’s restored Church as the only place where the fullness of His gospel can be found.

How does this relate to us? It’s a reminder that God is intimately involved in the details of His children’s lives. He opens the heavens, speaks through prophets, and ensures the continuation of His truth in ways that guide us back to Him. What ways have you seen God’s involvement in your life today?

Purpose of the Restoration

The Restoration was not just about bringing back something that was lost; it was about achieving specific, eternal goals. At its core, the Restoration is centered on one ultimate objective: to bring souls to Christ. Every principle, doctrine, and ordinance restored was designed to help God’s children understand their divine identity and their eternal purpose.

The Restoration returned gospel knowledge that answers life’s deepest questions: Who am I? Why am I here? Where am I going? Through the Book of Mormon and continuing revelation, the Restoration clarified teachings about the nature of God, the plan of salvation, and how we can live in harmony with eternal laws. This clarity equips us to make covenant relationships that bring us closer to the Savior.

Why else was the Restoration necessary? It established a Church aligned with Christ’s original New Testament Church, complete with prophets, apostles, and the proper organization. It made the promises of salvation and exaltation available to all of God’s children, regardless of time or place. Through temple work, missionary efforts, and personal revelation, every individual is invited to experience the joy of redemption and the hope of eternal life.

Take a moment to ask yourself: How does understanding the purpose of the Restoration shape the way you live your faith? Share your reflections below and engage in this ongoing invitation to follow Christ.

What do you think about the Restoration and its significance for you personally? I’d love to hear your perspectives in the comments! Feel free to share this post, like it, or subscribe to stay connected as we dive deeper into this sacred topic. Want to support this mission? Consider a small donation to further spread messages of faith and hope. Thank you!

Insights from the Doctrine and Covenants

The Doctrine and Covenants is a living testament of God’s communication with humanity. It offers profound insights into the Restoration of the Gospel of Jesus Christ, unfolding sacred truths and principles that shape our faith today. This unique collection of revelations is more than just scripture; it’s a guide to understand the divine plan and our role within it. Let’s explore some key revelations and the central figure—Joseph Smith—through whom these truths were restored.

Key Revelations

The Doctrine and Covenants holds a treasure trove of revelations that clarify gospel truths and illuminate the process of restoration. Here are some pivotal sections that define the Restoration:

• Section 1: Known as the Lord’s preface, this chapter declares that the Doctrine and Covenants is God’s voice to all people in the latter days. It reminds us of His desire to gather His children and prepare them for the Second Coming.

• Section 20: This chapter outlines the organizational structure of Christ’s Restored Church, including doctrines of repentance, baptism, and the proper use of the priesthood.

• Sections 76 and 137: These revelations shed light on the nature of the afterlife, helping us understand the degrees of glory and eternal progression.

• Section 110: This is where we learn about the restoration of keys for temple work from Elijah, Moses, and Elias. It’s here the fulfillment of Malachi’s prophecy comes to life, connecting heaven and earth.

Every revelation contributes to the overarching purpose of the Restoration: to lead God’s children back to Him, fully equipped with saving ordinances and knowledge of eternal truths. What’s your favorite revelation from the Doctrine and Covenants, and how has it shaped your understanding?

Joseph Smith’s Role

When we think of the Restoration, we often picture Joseph Smith as the prophet who brought the heavens closer to earth. Through divine instruction, he played a central role in reestablishing the fullness of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

The journey began in 1820 with the First Vision, a monumental moment in history when Joseph knelt to pray in the Sacred Grove, seeking to know which church to join. In response, Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ appeared to him, answering his prayer and revealing that truth had been lost after the death of Christ’s apostles. This experience marked the beginning of what we now call the Restoration. It wasn’t just a vision—it was a declaration that God is mindful of us and willing to speak to those who seek Him.

Joseph Smith’s next steps were not easy. He faced opposition, doubt, and significant hardship. Yet, he remained faithful, receiving further revelations that restored priesthood authority, translated the Book of Mormon, and reestablished Christ’s Church on earth. His experiences highlight a pattern of seeking, receiving, and acting on divine guidance. They also remind us of our capacity to do the same—how often do we turn to God with our questions?

Joseph’s life serves as an extraordinary example of faith and perseverance. He wasn’t just a prophet; he was a seeker, a receiver, and a witness of God’s work. How has studying his testimony and experiences impacted your spiritual growth?

Would you like to share how the Doctrine and Covenants has influenced your perspective on the Restoration? Drop your thoughts in the comments below! Let’s continue the discussion together. If you found this inspiring, consider sharing with your friends or subscribing for more faith-based insights.

Comparative Scriptures

Scriptures provide incredible insight into the Restoration of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Specific passages not only foretell this divine event but also highlight its eternal impact. Let’s dive into three illuminating scriptures and their meanings.

Acts 3:19-21

Acts 3:19-21 invites us to consider the "times of restitution of all things," a phrase that directly points to the Restoration of the Gospel. Peter spoke these words to call people to repentance, highlighting that the Savior’s Second Coming would be preceded by a restoration. The prophecy is clear: a spiritual renewal must occur before Christ’s return.

Think of this as God setting the stage for His Son. Just like preparing a garden for planting, the earth itself needed spiritual preparation. Through the Restoration, lost truths, priesthood authority, and sacred ordinances returned. It’s as if Peter was urging the people to recognize that God’s prophets had spoken of this era for centuries—and that it was a necessary step in God’s timeline.

Now, ask yourself: How has the Restoration prepared you to meet the Savior? What does this scripture mean for your personal spiritual readiness?

Isaiah 29:13-14

Isaiah 29:13-14 paints a vivid prophecy of spiritual awakening. The Lord declares, “I will proceed to do a marvellous work and a wonder.” For Latter-day Saints, this verse resonates deeply with the Restoration. It’s a promise that God would act decisively when people’s worship became superficial, focused on tradition over truth.

This prophecy aligns perfectly with the coming forth of the Book of Mormon. As part of the Restoration, the Book of Mormon offers clarity and renewed understanding of God’s plan. It’s truly marvelous bridging the gap between ancient scripture and modern revelation. Imagine trying to navigate a dense forest without a map. The gospel’s Restoration, through the Book of Mormon, is that map, lighting our way in a confusing world.

What about you? How has the Book of Mormon been a “marvelous work” in your life?

Doctrine and Covenants 1:30

Doctrine and Covenants 1:30 boldly affirms the Restored Church as "the only true and living church upon the face of the whole earth." These words are more than a declaration—they are a call to action. The Restoration wasn’t merely about the return of priesthood keys and ordinances. It was also about reestablishing a living connection between heaven and earth.

Unlike institutions born of man’s effort, the Restored Church thrives under continuous divine guidance. This scripture reminds us that through the Restoration, God reaffirmed His covenant with humanity. It’s as if the heavens opened and poured out blessings that invite each of us to draw nearer to Him daily.

How has belonging to a “true and living church” impacted your faith journey?

Each of these scriptures shines a light on a different aspect of the Restoration’s significance. I’d love to hear your insights! Do these teachings resonate with your spiritual experiences? Share your perspective in the comments below, and don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay connected in our faith journey.

Key Insights from the Restoration

The Restoration of the Gospel of Jesus Christ is more than a historical event; it’s a testimony of God’s love and His desire to reconnect with His children. It underscores three fundamental pillars that define and sustain the faith of Latter-day Saints: the Book of Mormon, priesthood authority, and modern-day revelation. Let’s explore these key components of the Restoration.

The Book of Mormon's Significance

The Book of Mormon stands as one of the most significant outcomes of the Restoration. It’s more than scripture—it’s a second witness of Jesus Christ, alongside the Bible. It answers critical questions about God’s plan and provides clarity on doctrinal truths that had been obscured over centuries. Have you ever found guidance or comfort in these pages? If so, then you’ve experienced the power it holds.

Through its accounts of ancient prophets, the Book of Mormon establishes patterns of faith, apostasy, and restoration. It demonstrates how God consistently calls His people back to Him, testifying of Christ’s ministry not only in the Old World but also on the American continent. This sacred text also validates the role of Joseph Smith in the Restoration. Would you agree that it’s a miracle for a young farm boy with limited education to produce such a volume?

In our lives, the Book of Mormon acts like a spiritual compass. It doesn’t just teach doctrine; it transforms hearts. When I read it with prayer, I feel my faith in Christ deepen. How has the Book of Mormon shaped your understanding of Jesus Christ?

Restoration of Priesthood Authority

One of the defining moments of the Restoration was the return of priesthood authority. Without it, the Church could not administer sacred ordinances or operate under divine direction. Imagine trying to build a bridge without the tools or authority to do so—that’s what the Christian world faced during centuries of apostasy.

In 1829, Joseph Smith and Oliver Cowdery were visited by John the Baptist, who conferred upon them the Aaronic Priesthood. Soon after, Peter, James, and John—three of Christ’s original apostles—restored the Melchizedek Priesthood. These events ensured that God’s authority was once again present on earth, allowing for the proper administration of baptism, confirmation, and other ordinances critical to salvation.

The priesthood isn’t just for leaders—it blesses every one of us. Through it, we receive healing blessings, guidance, and temple ordinances that unite families for eternity. Have you ever felt the power of the priesthood in your life? Share your experiences below and reflect on why this restoration matters so deeply.

Continued Revelation

The Restoration also reopened the heavens, confirming that God continues to speak to His children. This belief in continuing revelation sets the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints apart. Through living prophets, we receive divine guidance for modern challenges, aligning us with God’s eternal plan.

Consider this: Life is like navigating uncharted waters. The winds of honesty, integrity, and love can guide us, but we often need a lighthouse. For Latter-day Saints, prophets are that lighthouse, providing clarity and direction amid confusion. From Joseph Smith to President Russell M. Nelson, these men are God’s chosen instruments to guide His Church.

But it doesn’t stop at prophets. Individuals can also receive personal revelation, tailored to their unique questions and struggles. This assurance—that God hears and answers us—is one of the most beautiful aspects of the Restoration. How does knowing the heavens are open affect your faith and decisions? Reflect on moments when you’ve felt God speak to you personally.

What stands out most to you about these pillars of the Restoration? Let’s keep the conversation going! Share your thoughts in the comments, like this post, and subscribe to explore more about the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Together, we can strengthen faith and inspire hope.

Quotes for Reflection

The Restoration of the Gospel of Jesus Christ is a profound, ongoing work that invites each of us to reflect and realign with God. The words of inspired leaders serve as guiding lights, helping us to understand the significance of this sacred process. Below, we consider two powerful quotes—one from Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, offering insights on the growth and mission of the Church, and another from President Russell M. Nelson, addressing the continuous nature of the Restoration.

Quote from Elder Jeffrey R. Holland

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland once highlighted the impressive growth of the Church worldwide, emphasizing its divine mission to bring the gospel to all corners of the earth. Speaking to this exponential progression, he noted, "We’re seeing new stakes being created weekly, even in places we could once have only dreamed of reaching." His words remind us that the Church’s reach isn't limited by geography or human constraints. God’s hand is evident as this work continues to expand globally.

What does this growth signify for us personally? It shows that the Restoration isn’t just a historical moment but a living, breathing mission. Like a tree planted by a river, rooted in revelation, the Church continues to flourish, offering spiritual nourishment to millions. With every stake, ward, and member that joins, it becomes clear that this movement is part of something much larger than ourselves. Are we doing our part in this mission? Elder Holland’s challenge compels us to pause and consider how we contribute—not just through missionary work, but in the ways, we live, forgive, and serve each day.

Quote from President Russell M. Nelson

President Russell M. Nelson often speaks about the Restoration as a dynamic, ongoing process. In his own words, he explained, "If you think the Church has been fully restored, you are just seeing the beginning. There is so much more to come." This bold statement reminds us that the Restoration is not a single event bound to history but an unfolding narrative. It encompasses everything God has revealed, is revealing now, and will reveal in the future.

Why does this matter for us today? Imagine building a home—you wouldn’t stop after laying the foundation, would you? President Nelson’s insight calls us to keep building, spiritually and collectively. The Restoration invites us to look forward with hope, knowing that God continues to pour out blessings, insights, and light. It’s a journey, not a destination. How do we embrace this? By seeking revelation, participating in temple work, and staying open to spiritual growth.

How have these quotes inspired you? Do they shift your perspective on the Restoration and your role in it? Let’s discuss in the comments! Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to keep exploring faith and inspiration.

Spiritual Application: Living the Restoration

Living the Restoration of the Gospel of Jesus Christ isn't a passive endeavor—it's an active, personal commitment to God's eternal work. This divine restoration isn’t simply a historic event; it’s an ongoing process that invites us to participate daily. Through personal faith, sharing the gospel, and seeking personal revelation, the Restoration reaches beyond doctrine and transforms how we engage with God and others. Let’s explore how we can live the Restoration more fully.

Strengthening Personal Faith

Faith is the foundation of living the principles of the Restoration. Strengthening it often begins with reflection on your own spiritual journey. Has there been a time when you clearly felt God's presence, His guidance, or His answers to your prayers? Those moments, no matter how simple they seem, are sacred. They serve as reminders of God’s love and His desire to direct us in meaningful ways.

To nurture that faith:

• Set time aside each day to pray openly and honestly. Imagine prayer as a conversation, not just a checklist.

• Keep a journal. Write down spiritual impressions, promptings, or even questions waiting for answers. Over time, you'll see patterns of God's involvement in your life.

• Talk openly about faith with trusted friends or family. Sharing strengthens understanding and helps you see God working through others.

Faith isn’t about perfection; it’s about progression. Just like building muscles, faith grows stronger with consistent effort and trust in God's process.

Sharing the Gospel

Sharing the gospel is more than speaking about Christ's teachings—it’s living them. When we live by the principles of love, service, and humility, others can’t help but notice. Have you ever had someone ask why you seem so peaceful or optimistic? That’s an opportunity to share the joy of the Restoration.

Here are some simple ways to share your faith:

• Acts of kindness: Small gestures—like helping a neighbor, showing gratitude, or simply being present—demonstrate Christlike love.

• Social media: Post a favorite scripture or a thought about how faith impacts your life. Authenticity matters, so let it reflect your personal journey.

• Invitations: Invite someone to a Church activity, a Sunday service, or even to just read the Book of Mormon with you. You never know when someone is searching for hope.

Think of sharing the gospel as planting seeds. Some may grow quickly, while others take time, but every effort helps fulfill the Savior’s call to love and teach His children.

Seeking Personal Revelation

The Restoration is a powerful reminder that the heavens are open. God speaks to us individually—through prayer and scripture, He provides personal guidance tailored to our unique circumstances. Are you taking time to listen?

A few ways to deepen your ability to receive revelation:

• Prayer: Approach God with specific questions and listen for impressions. Answers often come in quiet, subtle ways.

• Scripture study: Open the Book of Mormon or other sacred texts with a question in mind. You may find that verses you’ve read before suddenly take on new meaning.

• Quiet moments: Turn off the noise—social media, work, distractions—and simply sit with your thoughts. Inspiration often comes in stillness.

Just as Joseph Smith sought answers in a grove of trees, we can seek and receive answers in our own sacred spaces. God wants to guide us, but it’s up to us to create opportunities to hear Him.

Which of these principles speaks to you the most? Have you had personal experiences that remind you of the ongoing Restoration? Share in the comments, like, or subscribe to keep this conversation vibrant. Let’s grow together in this incredible work!

Reflective Questions on the Restoration of the Fullness of the Everlasting Gospel of Jesus Christ

The Restoration of the Fullness of the Everlasting Gospel of Jesus Christ is more than a historical milestone—it’s a personal journey and a call to action for each of us. It invites not only faith but reflection. Have you thought about how deeply this event shapes your beliefs, your actions, and your sense of purpose? Below, I’ll guide you through a series of reflective questions. These prompts are meant to deepen your understanding and spark meaningful introspection.

Understanding God’s Love

The Restoration begins and ends with love—God’s love for every one of His children. How has the Restoration reinforced this in your life? Think of the doctrines and ordinances that have been revealed. They exist because God genuinely cares for us and wants us to return to Him. The Restoration wasn’t just about restoring a church; it was about restoring hope, purpose, and connection.

Here are a few questions to ponder:

• How has understanding the Restoration helped you feel God’s love in your life?

• Do the teachings of the Restoration strengthen your faith in God’s care for all nations and people?

• What specific blessings remind you of God’s hand in your life today because of the Restoration?

Take a moment to think about Joseph Smith’s First Vision. His experience was a direct result of a question about God’s love and truth. Have you ever asked similar questions? Remember, the Restoration teaches us that God responds to our sincere inquiries.

Participation in the Restoration

Sometimes it’s easy to think of the Restoration as something that happened long ago. But did you realize it’s still ongoing? The Restoration isn’t a moment frozen in time—it relies on each of us to keep it alive. How do you see yourself contributing to this sacred process? Each prayer, act of service, or testimony shared furthers the Restoration's mission.

Consider these reflective prompts:

• How do you play a role in the continued Restoration of the Gospel?

• Are there simple ways you can help others connect with the blessings of the Restoration?

• Could sharing your testimony or inviting someone to church be a step toward fulfilling your role in this work?

Imagine the Restoration as a symphony, and every member of the Church is an instrument. Without your part, the melody wouldn’t be complete. What’s your unique contribution? Whether it’s family history work, sharing gospel truths, or serving in your community, you’re a vital part of God’s plan.

Personal Revelations Received

One of the most beautiful aspects of the Restoration is the reminder that the heavens are open. We are never without access to God’s wisdom. Have you experienced moments of clarity or inspiration that you attribute to personal revelation? These sacred experiences tie you directly to the ongoing work of the Restoration.

Try reflecting on these questions:

• Can you recall a time you felt God speak directly to you? What did it teach you?

• How does knowing the heavens are open give you strength to face challenges?

• What role does personal revelation play in your daily life as you seek to follow Christ?

Take Joseph Smith’s story. He prayed with purpose, and his answer ignited a movement that changed the world. Your personal revelations might not be as world-altering, but they hold the power to change your world. Think about how those moments have shaped your testimony and brought you closer to God.

What stands out most to you about these reflective questions? I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences. Feel free to share in the comments below, like this post, or subscribe to explore more insights on the Restoration. Don’t forget—your perspective adds value to this ongoing conversation, so let’s talk!

A Call to Action: Living and Sharing the Restoration

The Restoration of the Fullness of the Gospel of Jesus Christ isn’t just a monumental event in history. It’s a dynamic and ongoing movement that invites us to act, engage, and grow in our faith. When I think about the Restoration, I see it as a call for each of us to live purposefully—to actively take part in God’s work here on earth. What does it mean to you personally? Let’s discuss how this call-to-action manifests in meaningful ways.

Understand Your Purpose in the Restoration

The Restoration isn’t just about returning lost truths; it’s about embracing our divine role in God’s plan. You and I aren’t spectators in this movement—we’re participants. Think of it as a relay race. The early Saints carried the baton of faith despite incredible challenges. Now, it’s our turn to run with it.

To live the Restoration, ask yourself:

• What am I doing to grow spiritually? Am I deepening my relationship with Christ through prayer, scripture study, and service?

• How am I using my talents to bless others? God has equipped each of us with gifts to uplift and inspire. Are we sharing those gifts in ways that build His kingdom?

This call isn’t about perfection—it’s about progression. Start where you are, and trust that small, consistent actions will propel you forward.

Invite Others to Experience the Restoration

Sharing the gospel is one of the most vital aspects of the Restoration. Much like the Savior invited others to "come and see" (John 1:39), we are encouraged to extend that same invitation. What better way to show gratitude for the Restoration than to help others connect with its blessings?

Here are practical ways you can share:

• Start simple: Post a favorite scripture or inspiring thought on social media. You never know who might need those words.

• Be intentional: Invite a friend to attend a worship service or share a copy of the Book of Mormon. Sometimes, all it takes is a friendly invitation.

• Use your lived experience: Share a personal story about how the gospel has brought peace, joy, or direction to your life.

When we focus on genuine connection rather than persuasion, we create opportunities for others to feel the Spirit. Think of your efforts as planting seeds. Even if you don’t see immediate results, those seeds may flourish over time.

Strengthen the Global Effort

The Restoration is global, touching lives in every nation, kindred, and tongue. It’s amazing to think that this work continues to grow so widely and powerfully. But the mission isn’t complete! Each of us has a part to play, whether small or large.

Consider how you can contribute in practical ways:

• Support missionary work: Volunteer to help missionaries in your area or even share online messages of hope.

• Engage in temple work: Participating in ordinances for the deceased connects us to generations past and fulfills the promises of the Restoration.

• Donate time or resources: Whether it’s donating to humanitarian efforts or serving in your community, your contributions make a difference.

Every prayer, every effort, and every moment shared in the Lord’s work adds to the restoration of His children. How powerful is that?

How are you responding to the call of the Restoration? Reflect on your role in this sacred work and share your thoughts in the comments below. Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe for more inspiring insights. Together, we can strengthen our faith and be part of something divinely eternal.

Conclusion

The Restoration of the Gospel of Jesus Christ is both a historical foundation and a living testament of God’s unwavering love. It teaches us that the heavens remain open and that divine guidance is always within reach. Through restored truths, priesthood authority, and continuing revelation, we are called to deepen our understanding and build personal connections with our Savior, Jesus Christ.

Each of us plays a vital role in this ongoing work, whether in sharing our testimony, serving others, or seeking God through prayer and scripture. Let’s embrace this sacred responsibility and allow the Restoration to shape our lives daily.

How are you participating in the Restoration today? Share your insights in the comments below, and don’t forget to like, subscribe, or share this message to inspire others. Together, we strengthen faith and spread hope.

Healing is a Mindful and Spiritual Journey Toward Transformation and Restoration of Godly Masculinity and Manhood

 

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A silent son is a man who grew up in a dysfunctional family, denies he was negatively affected by the experience, and continues to have problems in his life today. He might come from a family that coped with violence, alcoholism, compulsive gambling, child abuse, verbal abuse, workaholism, divorce, extreme rigidity, or a variety of other problems. The problems that he has in his life today could include an inability to maintain relationships, an inability to control anger, a tendency toward workaholism or addiction, fear of intimacy, violent behavior, or low self-esteem, to name just a few.
~ Robert J. Ackerman - Silent Sons: A Book for and About Men - Chapter One: Are you a Silent Son? ~

The greatest desire is for us to attain a high level of masculinity that is influential, impacting, and inspiring. One that reflects the very nature and heart of Christ.

In my personal, and past professional, experience there are many men suffering in silence because of their upbringing. Within the Christian life - a man may lead a healing life on many levels. Some may have turned to healing professionals for help. Something that contributes to one's strength and empowerment that prove quite beneficial to many problems. Others turn toward a more mindful and spiritual journey of healing and living through the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Such that, when combined with wise spiritual discipleship and counsel, proves even more significant and empowering to overcome many problems.

Relationships heal when each of us come to fully understand Godly Character where we develop traits that are loving, affirming, reliable, committed, and loyal. Such healing may come from mindful observation of our Heavenly Father's creation - for nature heals. It also comes from the beauty of art where uplifting music, a poem, an inspiring novel, or a picture moves one to a different plane in order to teach us about life.

Christian meditation and thoughtful and mindful prayer brings peaceful solitude, relaxation, and a sense of a holy conscience where we experience inner peace. Laughter is said to also provide healing, as it is always said that laughter is the best medicine for the soul. Physical activity brings healing as we are mindful of what we ingest, exercise to maintain good health and provides us with necessary energy. Giving ourselves over to service also provides a means by which one experiences healing.

Yet, at the most basic level, accepting ourselves as loveable men, just as we are, is the foundation for all manner of healing. And it is this spiritual truth, I believe, missing in many Christian communities. A spiritual truth connecting broken men to the reality of their true identity in Jesus Christ. A spiritual truth and reality in helping them find meaningful healing through the grace of God and Christ's infinite atonement.

Robert L. Millet posits three important questions each one of us may want to meditate and thoughtfully answer:

1. What kind of a man am I?
2. What kind of a man do I want to be?
3. What kind of a man does my Heavenly Father and my Savior need me to be?

And a more important question comes from the Book of Mormon - found in 3 Nephi 27:27 - where the Savior asks: What manner of men ought ye to be? The answer - even as I am. Here is what President Howard W. Hunter taught at the 164th Annual General Conference of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (1994):

One of the most important questions ever asked to mortal men was asked by the Son of God himself, the Savior of the world. To a group of disciples in the New World, a group anxious to be taught by him and even more anxious because he would soon be leaving them, he asked, “What manner of men ought ye to be?” Then in the same breath he gave this answer: “Even as I am” (3 Ne. 27:27).

What manner of men ought ye to be?

The type of masculinity and defined manhood is shaped by our devotion and willingness to exemplify the Savior in all aspects of our lives. In 2 Peter 3:11-12 we find a similar question - as it pertains to the Parousia of Christ (or the second coming). In the Complete Jewish Study Bible we find it rendered as: Since everything is going to be destroyed like this, what kind of people should you be? You should lead holy and godly lives ...

Yet, how does one heal from the brokenness they've experienced while growing up in a dysfunctional environment? How does a man live a healing life through the grace and mercy of our Heavenly Father when they are suffering as a silent son? What is the ministry efforts of a Christian community toward those struggling with homelessness, substance use, mental health, and other adversities in life?

I, personally, believe the answers lie in how the Christian community avails themselves in answering the questions Millet proposes. And I'd like to expound upon those for a moment.

What kind of a man am I?

The first aspect of healing comes when one develops awareness of who they are in their present mindset. Awareness of how they have come to define themselves as a man. The amount of dysfunction and awareness of significant loss of personal identity, autonomy, and impact they've experienced because of toxicity. A primary way to develop awareness is what Dr. Ackerman shares in his book Silent Sons. He lists the following characteristic traits of toxic masculinity that interfere with healing and restoration:

• He keeps things that bother him to himself
• He denies that unpleasant events occur
• He fears letting people know him
• He has difficulty interacting with his parents, spouse, children
• He has a strong fear of criticism
• He is prone to anger and tempers
• He is not able to express his feelings in a healthy way
• He disproportionately fears failure
• He is obsessively driven to succeed
• He desperately wants his life to be better yet does not know how to change

Dr. Ackerman continues:

A silent son is a man in pain, but he doesn't want to admit it or allow anyone to see it. The pain is always present. He tries to ignore it. He tries to forget it. He becomes so involved in his career that he becomes convinced that the pain doesn't matter anymore. He surrounds himself with people whom he won't let get close to him, and he pretends that he belongs. But when he is alone or alone with his thoughts he realizes the pain is still there.

Furthermore, Dr. Ackerman asks some important questions:

What do you do when you are reminded of the pain of your childhood? Do you vow to forget it by doing whatever you can to distract yourself? Do you deny it or condemn it? A silent son may try to drink it away, work it away, romance it away, or tell himself that it doesn't get in his way.

And one of the most harmful aspects of ministering to those men who may be silent sons is seeing them appear as though they may have it all together. This may be due to the fact, as Dr. Ackerman lists, that many have some positive characteristic traits:

• He is good under pressure
• He is adventurous
• he is independent
• He is a survivor
• He is empathic
• He is a hard worker
• He is a loyal friend
• He is willing to help others
• He is a problem solver
• He has a good sense of humor

Dr. Ackerman further shares this insight where men functioning in their own pain. He also observed is the high functionality some silent sons possess - including social skills despite the pain of depression and low self-esteem. Dr. Ackerman views this as an intriguing paradox. And it is probably the most significant and problematic reason such men are overlooked within the Christian community. Despite the fact that they are hurting, they are capable of doing the right things socially.

The other paradox Dr. Ackerman observed is the involvement of self-defeating behaviors that prevents a man from living up to their potential or results in self-inflicted pain. He lists the following traits associated with this common paradox:

• Procrastination
• Anger
• Fear
• Denial of feelings
• Inability to express needs in a healthy manner
• Passive and inability to be assertive - or "stand up for oneself"

Such traits are definitive and developed as a means of survival due to growing up in family dysfunctions, abuse, and where addiction may have been prevalent.

Developing an awareness to honestly answer the question - what type of a man am I? - rests upon the acknowledgement of a long held illusion. A belief that one is just like everyone else. This may be the illusion that one's family and childhood was not one of dysfunction and is therefore minimized or normalized. Or, hold to the idea that there was some family dysfunction - however they managed to not experience any significant impact from it.

So, how does one become aware and thoughtfully answer the first question? Dr. Ackerman lists some indicators of silence in his book:

1. Limited Expression: A man expresses a wide range of emotions in rare instances. This includes sharing positive emotions while negative and distressing emotions are dealt with in solitude
2. The Strong Silent Type: At some point in a conversation - most times regarding romantic relationships - the term he is the strong silent type comes up. It is seen as a form of admiration. The danger is negative silence where pain is not expressed because of the fear that one may not be seen as strong and appear to be weak when it comes to emotions. This type of silent type is locked - imprisoned - and such feel empty, hollow, or alone.
3. The Silent Treatment: When a man becomes upset - those around him pay the price and that price is through his silence. He is upset, angry, and rather than voice his own concerns, communicate how he feels, he engages the mode of silence. This prevents our needs from being met. It is the reason relationships become distant, failing, and empty.
4. Target Practice: Opposite of the silent treatment is the anger and emotional vomitry that is projected and taken out on others.
5. The Imposter Syndrome: There are some men who truly, and secretively, feel they are imposters. Despite doing well they see themselves as failures. Fear that if others truly see us for who we see ourselves may not like us. We do not see who we are and therefore see ourselves as being empty, hallow, and superficial. While others say we need to be ourselves - our own thoughts appear to betray us and say be anything other than yourself.
6. One-dimensional Man: There are times one may feel out of place when there is no productive work being accomplished. One of the challenges is that men identify themselves with their occupation. When a job is lost there is a sense of emptiness and detachment that occurs. Our identity is tied into our occupation that sometimes we are not able to see past it. When we are not engaged in our chosen occupation - we feel displaced.
7. Hidden Feelings: Many times thoughts come to mind and the dialogue goes: I will just keep it to myself. It is a way to protect ourselves from potential exposure. It is also a means by which one minimizes problems within our relationships, work, and even when we are out in the community. It seems to make sense to keep our thoughts and emotions inside. And for most men there is an unspoken expectations of keeping silent.
8. Short Fuse: Silent sons are prone to anger, outbursts, and temper. Typically this is because of small things that may cause one to fly off the handle. Anger is a powerful emotion. When there are unresolved hurt, guilt, shame, and resentments that have built up - such anger becomes even more powerful. Sometimes it manifests in violent behaviors. It is also due to inability to manage stress.

The challenge is for each one of us to come to terms with understanding who we are because of our upbringing in family dysfunction. Understand (and not minimize) the impact it has had on our own lives, relationships, ability to sustain gainful employment, and the impact it has on our overall health and well-being. It requires a deep and soul-searching investigation. It also requires us to come to a place of admitting our need for help. Our need to talk openly with others about this.

To answer this question - What kind of a man am I? - means we awaken out of a deep sleep of our own self-defeating illusions and false beliefs. To answer this question we look to Alma 5:6-8:

And now behold, I say unto you, my brethren, you that belong to this church, have you sufficiently retained in remembrance the captivity of your fathers? Yea, and have you sufficiently retained in remembrance his mercy and long-suffering towards them? And moreover, have ye sufficiently retained in remembrance that he has delivered their souls from hell? Behold, he changed their hearts; yea, he awakened them out of a deep sleep, and they awoke unto God. Behold, they were in the midst of darkness; nevertheless, their souls were illuminated by the light of the everlasting word; yea, they were encircled about by the bands of death, and the chains of hell, and an everlasting destruction did await them. And now I ask of you, my brethren, were they destroyed? Behold, I say unto you, Nay, they were not.

Here are some truths I'd want to point out in this passage of scripture.

• The call to remembrance the captivity of our own fathers
• The call to remembrance of God's mercy, grace, and longsuffering toward us and our fathers
• The call to recognize the power of God's deliverance to those who call upon the name of Christ
• The spiritual transformation of a man's heart by awakening man from a deep sleep unto God
• The heart and soul of man that laid in darkness is now illuminated by the light of God's truth
• Spiritual transformation and a mindful and spiritual journey of true faith brings us out of destruction, breaks the bands of death, and frees us from the chains of suffering

In what manner is the Christian community able to come together and properly disciple men who are broken? Men who are suffering in silence and not awaken to their own peril and destruction? Robert L. Millet shares this thought (Men of Valor: The Powerful Impact of a Righteous Man) as it relates to the example of Peter:

Through the cultivation of the gift of the Holy Ghost, Peter was born again, converted, turned wholly to Christ and to His righteousness. Peter could now strengthen his brothers and sisters. “You cannot lift another soul,” President Lee added, “until you are standing on higher ground than he is. You must be sure, if you would rescue the man, that you yourself are setting the example of what you would have him be. You cannot light a fire in another soul unless it is burning in your own soul” (Conference Report, April 1973, 178. Truly, “one is converted when he sees with his eyes what he ought to see; when he hears with his ears what he ought to hear; and when he understands with his heart what he ought to understand. And what he ought to see, hear, and understand is truth—eternal truth—and then practice it. That is conversion. . . . “When we understand more than we know with our minds, when we understand with our hearts, then we know that the Spirit of the Lord is working upon us” (Lee, Stand Ye in Holy Places, 92).

First, a man (who desires to minister to other men struggling with pain, failure, impact of family dysfunction, substance use, and mental health related issues) will be appropriate to minister when they themselves have experienced a mighty change of heart and have experienced a significant spiritual transformation in their own lives (see. One who is seasoned through perseverance, facing adversity with faithfulness to Christ, and have established themselves on a higher ground of recovery and transformation. Second, such a man is willing to set themselves up as an example of what it means to live in healing and restoration of Godly masculinity and manhood. One who has committed themselves over to the example of the Savior's life and ministry. Third, a man who is converted to where they see, hear, and understands through spiritual eyes, ears, and heart. One who understands truth and how to minister in a way that shows grace, empathy, compassion, love, acceptance, and kindness. Additionally, one who knows what it means to be long-suffering toward those still caught in their own misery and dysfunction. Finally, one who is open and receptive to how the Spirit of the L:ord is working in our own hearts and minds as we continue to grow in our own faith and testimony of Christ's infinite atonement.

What kind of a man do I want to be?

Once we have come to understand what type of a man we are the next step is to answer the question of what kind of man does one desire to become. The short answer is to be the type of man that reflects the love of the Savior, growing in the image and likeness of Christ - who bears the image and likeness of the Father. 1 John 2:6 gives us this insight: A person who claims to be continuing in union with him ought to conduct his life the way he did. Healing and spiritually transforming our lives means we are willing to commit ourselves over to living a life that mirrors the Saviors. And this is a process of growth, challenges, faith, and facing our own struggles and adversities.

According to Robert L. Millet - there is a call for each of us to rise up and understand what kind of a man we ought to be:

I believe the message in the hymn “Rise Up, O Men of God” (Hymns, no. 324) is a plea, a call, a divine invitation for us to rise above the telestial tinsel of our time; to deny ourselves of ungodliness and clothe ourselves in the mantle of holiness; to reach and stretch and grasp for that spiritual direction and sacred empowerment promised to the Lord’s agents, to those charged to act in the name of our Principal, Jesus Christ; and to point the way to salvation and deliverance and peace in a world that finds itself enshrouded in darkness, a world that yearns for spiritual leadership.

Millet, Robert L.. Men of Valor: The Powerful Impact of a Righteous Man . Deseret Book Company. Kindle Edition.

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Rise up O men of God Hymn #324 - LDS General Conference

Millet prescribes some observations from the hymn:

• Become a man who rises above ungodliness
• Become a man clothed in Godliness
• Become a man that reaches, stretches, and grasp hold of Spiritual Wisdom and sacred empowerment promised
• Become a man that acts in authority of Jesus Christ in ministering in a manner that brings salvation and deliverance to others
• Become a man who emulates peace within his own life and home despite the shroud of darkness hanging o'er us
• Become a man who steps into spiritual leadership roles within his home, workplace, and community

All of this begins when we take those lesser steps of healing and restoration. It occurs when we are willing and committed to put to death our own former lives and embrace a new life. The Apostle Paul reminded Christians in the first century of this spiritual truth. A spiritual truth that the Savior taught. The Apostle Paul summed it up when he wrote to the Church at Ephesus: then, so far as your former way of life is concerned, you must strip off your old nature, because your old nature is thoroughly rotted by its deceptive desires; (see Ephesians 4:22).

By becoming aware of our own pain, acknowledging it, understanding and taking accountability and responsibility we are able to begin the process of healing and become the man who has a sense of meaning and purpose through Jesus Christ. And to become a man that mirrors the image and likeness of Christ - we need to be and do as the Savior. These are not two separate ideas. To become the type of man we want to be we must do the things that cultivate the type of godly manhood and masculinity our Savior possesses. In essence we willingly commit our own lives over to become as Christ is by doing the things He did (see 3 Nephi 27:21).

What are some of the things Christ did that we must also do?

1. Christ was a man of faithful prayer and fasting
2. Christ willingly submitted himself to the Father's authority and will
3. Christ understood His personal identity, mission, and purpose
4. Christ ministered with empathy, compassion, and kindness
5. Christ spoke with authority and truth
6. Christ experienced his own anguish, pain, and suffering willingly and brought it to His father's attention
7. Christ understood the scriptures and the spiritual truths contained within them
8. Christ was steadfast and assured in his Faith and Authority
9. Christ gave himself over to serve others through humility and meekness
10. Christ gave himself over to solitude, reflection, and contemplation
11. Christ gave himself over to stewardship of his own personal life and ministry to do the Will of the Father
12. Christ endured and overcame adversity and temptation

These particular attributes, as Elder Lynn G. Robbins explains, result in our successful efforts to develop Christlike attributes so that His image may be engraven in your countenance and His attributes manifest in your behavior.

What kind of a man does my Heavenly Father and my Savior need me to be?

The process, and our spiritual journey and growth, begins with awareness of what kind of a man we are. It then moves us to answer the question of what kind of a man we desire to become. It is when we come to answer the third and final question that brings about significant truth and transformation. Since we understand that the type of man we desire to become is one that emulates Christ's image, likeness, and attributes - it delves into the deeper truths that such a man is what our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ needs us to be.

Robert L. Millet authored three books where he explores three concepts of Godly and Righteous men:

• Becoming a man of valor
• Becoming a man of integrity
• Becoming a man of Oath, Covenants, and Transcendent Promises

Men of Valor is a reminder that every man who leads his family in righteousness can have a powerful leavening effect on a society whose moral values are rapidly eroding and can make a difference in a struggling world that needs the bright torch of priesthood power.

All men will appreciate this call to purify their lives, to set themselves apart from things of worldliness, and to become a royal priesthood and a holy nation -- to become mighty men of valor! Available through Amazon Associates. Your purchase helps supports this website and mission.

In this sequel to his bestselling book Men of Valor, Robert L. Millet describes how men can become men of influence, thereby blessing their families and neighborhoods even the world. How are we enabled to receive the Lord s power? Brother Millet explains that maturing spiritually isn't accomplished merely by being active in the Church and holding a current temple recommend, although those are necessary. Men of Influence encourages men to achieve that connection between heaven and earth which eventually makes a good man into a holy man, transforming a noble man into a man who can lift the world. If you feel you're living beneath your potential as a priesthood bearer (or if someone you love is), this book provides inspiration and practical advice to enable you to become one of the Lord's valiant servants. Available through Amazon Associates. Your purchase helps supports this website and mission.  

We are a covenant-making people, but do we fully appreciate the power of the promises contained in just twelve short verses of the oath and covenant of the priesthood? Following Men of Valor and Men of Influence, Robert Millet explores the power, scope, and responsibilities of the priesthood in Men of Covenant. As we consider the promises Melchizedek Priesthood holders make to God and God's irrevocable promise to faithful priesthood holders, we discover the incomparable blessings that are available to those who magnify their calling and live by every word of God. Every chapter of Men of Covenant explores a particular facet of D&C 84:33-44. While the book is written primarily to men, the lessons it teaches and the principles of covenant-keeping it elucidates are just as relevant to the women of the Church, because exaltations is a family affair, and it is achieved as a husband and a wife, working together, enjoy the sweet fruits of the priesthood her and thereby qualify for the fullness of priesthood blessings hereafter. Available through Amazon Associates. Your purchase helps supports this website and mission.

What does it mean to become a man of valor?

In Judges 6:12 we come across Gideon. The Angel of the Lord appears and says to Gideon: The Lord is with thee, thou mighty man of valor. The Hebrew word Chayil refers to one who:

• Provides protection, security, and sanctuary (Chet)
• Engaged in mighty deeds and works (Yood)
• Operates and speaks with the authority and ability to be a strong steward (Lamed)

Our Heavenly Father, and Jesus Christ - our Savior, desires us to become men who provides protection, security, and sanctuary through mighty works where we operate and speak with authority and able to be stewards over our lives. And this is accomplished through our willing commitment to make an oath and covenant with our Heavenly Father through Jesus Christ. This requires us to become:

• Faithful men in receiving the power and authority of Christ
• Become Sons and Heirs of God in His Kingdom
• Become Heirs and Joint-Heirs with Christ in the Father's Kingdom
• Commit to a willingness to live by God's reveal word and truth
• Be committed to learning and growing in all spiritual truth and matters

This promised blessing won't happen when we are asleep and walk with blindness to our own personal sufferings and pain. We may, as Robert L. Millet shares in his book, place a ladder against the wall and climb it and yet find ourselves having done so against the wrong wall.

Healing and spiritually transforming our lives comes when we first submit ourselves over to God's divine care and will for our own lives. Our desire to become like Christ, and therefore to become like our Heavenly Father, grows and strengthens within our faith as we face and overcome our many challenges. For, it is through the refiners fire where we are shaped and transformed into a Godly image and likeness (see 1 Peter 1:7). Obtaining the desire to become like our Savior and our Heavenly Father - we are able to further transform ourselves into a man of valor.

Our personal identity as men flow from understanding who Christ is and thereby understanding who our Heavenly Father is. By this, we grow and transform our hearts, minds, and souls into a Godly man because we understand our sense of meaning and purpose. We, in essence, come to identify who we truly are and our divine heritage.

How this comes about is constant dialogue with our Heavenly Father. Prayer, meditation, and fasting are the key principle spiritual disciplines that open us to receive personal and divine revelation. It is also where we receive strength, wisdom, and encouragement. It is the place where we come to lay ourselves out on the alter and bring to God our troubles, fears, distressing emotions and submit to His authority alone. This includes faithfully and trusting in God to answer our requests to show unto each of us a sign so that we may not be mislead or deceived (see the story of Gideon in Judges 6:1-49).

Being a man of valor also means that we move toward being radical and brazen through God's will and authority. Gideon tore down the altar to Ba'al. In its place, Gideon built an altar unto Yeshua Hamashiac. Today, there is a serious attack on manhood by denying it's power and authority. Denying the power and authority within the home, within the workplace, and within the community.

Courage is standing in God's will despite our fear of what others may think. For men - it is standing in the face of fear of what we have led ourselves to believe who we are. An illusion of what society expects us to be. Manhood redefined by social norms. Feminization of true masculinity. Yet scripture calls us to be of courage because our Heavenly Father is with us and no one may stand against us (see Joshua 1:5). This occurs when we walk in obedience to the God's will and commandments (see Joshua 1:7). It is to stand and face our accusers with faithful loyalty to God's truthfulness.

True and Godly masculinity comes from the strength of Jesus Christ (see Ephesians 6:10). Through the power of the Priesthood we are faithful in not only representing Christ and our Heavenly Father - we are equipped to act in authority. When I think about Paul's admonishment at the end of his letter to the Christians in Ephesus - the priesthood, the oath and covenant of the priesthood, and the transcendent promises contained within the Holy Priesthood of God - I am amazed at the power such authority has over our lives. The Melchizedek Priesthood and the Aaronic Priesthood is the very armor of God that not only protects us, it strengthens us, it gives us the authority to do might works. It is our protection, sanctuary, and peace. This armor of God that we are to put upon ourselves is Christ himself (see Romans 13:12-14):

The night is far spent, the day is at hand: let us therefore cast off the works of darkness, and let us put on the armour of light. Let us walk honestly, as in the day; not in rioting and drunkenness, not in chambering and wantonness, not in strife and envying. But put ye on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make not provision for the flesh, to fulfil the lusts thereof.

 

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It also means we give ourselves over to prayer, fasting, and meditating upon God's word. Christ, himself, expressed the spiritual truth - man shall not live by bread alone but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God (see Matthew 4:4). Living in healing means we are willing and committed to seeking personal revelation and hearing the voice of God. Furthermore, it is a commitment and willingness not only to hear - but to hearken unto our Heavenly Father. Specifically in these darkening times and days (See Doctrine and Covenants Section 1).

The priesthood authority of Christ is our armor that we put on to withstand the darkness and increasing evil of our own day and time:

• Christ is the Truth we gird ourselves with
• Christ is the Breastplate of Righteousness
• Our Faith in Christ and our Heavenly Father is our shield
• Christ is the helmet of our salvation and deliverance
• Christ prepares our feet with the message of the Gospel truths
• Scripture and personal revelation is our sword of truth we wield by the power of the Spirit

By putting upon ourselves the full armor of God we are equipped and battle ready. This is the type of Godly masculinity and man our Heavenly Father desires. One who is prepared to engage and properly use the priesthood authority.

Finally, how do we become men of valor? By aligning ourselves with true spiritual warriors and mentors. I know that such an idea is not fully discussed within the Latter-day Saint Christian community. However, growing up within the faith there is a true spiritual comradery among fellow men who are seasoned priesthood holders. Not only is it our priesthood duty to make our calling and election sure with faithful diligence, prayerful and mindful meditative supplication; we are to also become examples of true Christians in emulating Christ.

The Apostle Paul understood this when he wrote to the Christians at Corinth and admonished them to follow him as he follows Christ. As priesthood holders, we are to emulate the savior so that others may follow us as we follow the Savior.

What does it mean to become a man of influence?

Our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ wants us to become men of influence. Ever asked yourself how the men went from being disciples of Christ to being called apostles? This is something I had not known before. The Greek for disciple is μαθητής, οῦ, ὁ (mathétés - pronounced math-ay-tes'). It is the same word that we use for discipline. In the Gospels of the New Testament, we are introduced to these men. Christ called them into service. Yet, they had to first learn from him. They were His pupils. It is not until after Christ's ascension that these men went from being Christ's pupils to being His apostles. The Greek for Apostle is one who is sent out (ἀπόστολος, ου, ὁ - apostolos = pronounced ap-os'-tol-os). The latter is has the same root for apostasy - one who is sent out because of sin, transgression or rebellion.

To become a man of influence we are to willingly commit ourselves over to being first disciples. Learning spiritual disciplines. Growing in our faith. Having seasoned men of valor and influence in our lives to promote spiritual growth, healing, and steadfast faith in the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

Robert L. Millet shares this thought in the book Becoming Men of Influence:

We have been called to labor. There is no more noble task in this world than extending ourselves in service and striving to motivate, inspire, uplift, and influence others toward greater righteousness. God and Christ are in the business of saving souls, and holders of the priesthood are employed in the same business. Jesus was not a CEO in his kingdom, and the living prophet is not a CEO in the Church. Jesus was not a personnel manager, and the local bishop is not called to manage people; he is called to lead them. If there is joy in heaven over one sinner who repents (Luke 15:7), let me be the one who repents with all the energy of my soul and thereby brings joy and rejoicing to angels and to my Father and God. And let me be the instrument of peace—the one who honors his priesthood, ensures that there is no iniquity in the Church (D&C 20:54), and tenderly helps others to see the error of their ways and turn to our Lord and Savior for relief and renewal.

Millet, Robert L.. Men of Influence: The Potential of the Priesthood to Lift the World (Kindle Locations 194-198). Deseret Book Company. Kindle Edition.

Millet also observes this truth:

We have been called to labor, to take up our cross daily—indeed, to be “soldiers of the Cross”—and to deny ourselves of all ungodliness and worldly lusts (Smith, Gospel Doctrine, 91; see JST Matthew 16:26; Luke 9:23; Moroni 10:32). Our labor, our work, like that of Hyrum Smith’s, is to keep the commandments of God with all our might, mind, and strength (D&C 11:20).

Millet, Robert L.. Men of Influence: The Potential of the Priesthood to Lift the World (Kindle Locations 198-201). Deseret Book Company. Kindle Edition.

Not only are we to understand that we are called to labor we are called to take up our cross daily and to be soldiers of the Cross. This comes by way of our dutiful obedience to the commandments of God. Those outside of the Latter-day Saint Christian faith view the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ as one of works and legalism. They fail to comprehend the simple spiritual truths of Christ's teaching. To deny ourselves and take up our cross is the very thing many Christians do not understand in it's full spiritual truth. Not only to deny ourselves but to defend ourselves because of Christ's faithfulness and truth. We are to defend the right and privilege of being called into the vineyard and labor for the sake of Salvation. To call all humanity unto repentance. Teaching them to develop faith in Jesus Christ. To submit themselves to the sacred ordinance and covenant of baptism by immersion, and seal upon them the gift and privilege of the power and authority of the Holy Spirit over their lives. Through this process we are able to make disciples unto God (See Matthew 28:16-20).

It is through Christ's authority and power - all power is given unto me in Heaven and in Earth - which is the Priesthood of Melchizedek:

As we look to Christ as our example, seasoned priesthood holders who are self-reliant, faithful in their duties and service, and emulate the life and ministry of the Savior; we are able to discover some key aspects of what it takes to become a man of influence.

First, it requires a journey of awareness (as previously discussed). Second, it requires a personal journey of discipline - specifically cultivating spiritual disciplines that we are faithfully persistent and consistent in doing. Next, we come to a place of understanding. And finally we become a man of influence where we show compassion, kindness, and empathy through meekness. Such behaviors and attributes takes time and patience in developing.

Our first duty is to labor within our own lives to cultivate a pattern that is consistent with Christ's teachings and ministry. Without establishing how Christ influences our own personal lives -we are not able to empower and influence others. Our second duty is to stretch out and begin to serve others. First, in small capacity and means. Next, taking on responsibilities that further challenge us and our resilience so we grow from faith to faith and learn line upon line and precept upon precept (see David A. Bednar's message).

Let us go back to the beginning of this post concerning men who are broken, suffering in pain and silence, where they lack awareness and operate under a false sense of reality and illusion. Awareness is the very first step. This requires humility and honesty. Second, it requires our commitment and willingness to submit our lives and our will over to our Heavenly Father's care and will. Trusting in Him and in his Word. It is also learning to tune in and here the voice of God and not rely upon our own means of understanding.

The greatest desire is for us to attain a high level of masculinity that is influential, impacting, and inspiring. By becoming a man of influence we are cultivating a true attribute of Christ-like integrity. This significant attribute provides a means by which we are able to influence our family, workplace, and community at large. Christ-like integrity means:

• We develop and mature through consistent spiritual disciplines in our own personal lives
• Leads to healthy respect, admiration, and success in our personal lives
• Integrity focuses on ability to manage our lives wisely - meaning one is a faithful steward over all aspects of his life
• Stabilizes and promotes healthy relationships
• Develops a sense of fulfillment, worth, belonging, liberty, and leisure where one is at peace with who he is

Because of our integrity, we are in a position of making a significant influence in the lives of others. And we are not adverse to growing and maturing further in abundant of our Heavenly Father's mercy, grace, and faith.

This is not something taken lightly either. By becoming a man of influence and integrity means we make an oath and covenant with our Heavenly Father to faithfully walk in obedience, fulfilling and making our calling and election sure. Secure our salvation in Christ through fear and trembling (see Philippians 2:12).

What does it mean to become a man of Oath, Covenants, and Transcendent Promises?

Of all the holy agreements pertaining to the gospel of Jesus Christ, few, if any, would transcend in importance the oath and covenant of the priesthood. It is certainly one of the most sacred agreements, for it involves the sharing of heavenly powers and man’s upward reaching toward eternal goals. None of us can afford to be ignorant of the terms of this contract. To do so might cause us to miss the mark in our performance of duty and result in the forfeiture of promised blessings.
The Oath and Covenant of the Priesthood - Carlos E. Asay

Our Heavenly Father takes seriously the nature of oaths and covenants. These are quite sacred to Him. They are sacred to our Savior - Jesus Christ. Along with the blessings God gives us in honoring those oaths and covenants - the transcendent promises of holiness, salvation, deliverance, protection, and exaltation - He also lays out specific warnings in our failure to honor those oaths and covenants made. We find this in the Doctrine and Covenants Section 84:33-48.

Granted, the Apostle Paul does not refer to man's duties as an oath and covenant to priesthood fulfillment and obligation, but he does provide some interesting truths on the powerful influence man has in the home and community. Paul points out the following (see Ephesians 5:25-32):

1. Husbands are to love their wives as Christ loves the Church
2. Sanctify the home and cleanse it by the power and authority of the Spirit
3. Present ourselves with holiness and glory
4. Nourish and Cherish ourselves, our spouse, children, and neighbors
5. We represent Christ and His truth and Church in all things.

And for those who are not married - or are divorced - the same applies in our duty and obligations in fulfilling priesthood duties and callings. This includes cultivating and sustaining a life of devotion, worship, loyalty, and spiritual disciplines as a means to becoming a man of influence, integrity, and impact.

The inherent warning and consequences compose of two things: breaking the oath and covenant and altogether turneth from it (See D&C 84:41). I personally believe that this is the unpardonable sin (see Mark 3:28-29) Christ warned about.

President Henry B. Eyring admonishes the following in his Conference address: Go forward in faith in keeping your covenants with God and so claim the promise He has made to you with an oath.

Understanding how one answers the question - What kind of a man does my Heavenly Father and my Savior need me to be? - wisdom and knowledge is the gainful spiritual truth that moves us toward a healthy spiritual transformation where we are adorn with Godly masculinity and manhood.

The Parable of the Good Samaritan

What, then, does this mean when it comes to ministering to men who are suffering in silence. Men who are locked in a false sense of security. Men who appear to have it together and yet function in their own pain and distress?

Elder Garritt Wong gave one of the most significant and inspiring messages at the April 2021 General Conference. His message - entitled Room at the Inn - reflects the spiritual message hidden within the parable of the Good Samaritan. Elder Wong shares this insight:

On our dusty roads to Jericho, we are beset upon, wounded, and left in pain.

Though we should help each other, too often we pass to the other side of the road, for whatever reason.

However, with compassion, the Good Samaritan stops and binds our wounds with wine and oil. Symbols of the sacrament and other ordinances, the wine and oil point us to the spiritual healing in Jesus Christ. The Good Samaritan puts us on His own donkey or, in some stained-glass accounts, carries us on His shoulders. He brings us to the inn, which can represent His Church. At the Inn, the Good Samaritan says, “Take care of him; … when I come again, I will repay thee.” The Good Samaritan, a symbol of our Savior, promises to return, this time in majesty and glory.

I believe that there are men within the LDS Christian (and general Christian) community where they feel passed by for whatever reasons. There is a sense of neglect, spiritual abandonment, and detachment from well-too-do faithful members of the Church that may have caused significant harm to further entrench many silent suffering men.

Elder Wong's thoughts on the parable of the Good Samaritan shows us the following truths:

1. All of us have come to the Inn as we presently are.
2. Our duty and obligation is to create an environment where there is a genuine sense of Grace that is welcoming for all to come
3. Through discipleship, a person is able to heal, learn to live in healing, grow, mature, and face their struggles and adversities with genuine bold and resilient faith
4. Every one is part of a community where Christ is the anchor - the chief cornerstone
5. The Church is a place of sacred worship - rejoicing, not only in victory, rejoicing in spirit and truth despite our own personal struggles and challenges

True healing begins when one recognizes a man suffering in their own silence and pain. Coming along side them, journeying.

Notice that when we meditate and ponder the significance of this parable Christ spoke of the compassion the Samaritan had toward the injured individual. Because of this compassion, the Samaritan bound up the man's wounds and used olive oil and wine to procure healing. We also notice that the individual placed the wounded person onto their own beast - carrying them toward the Inn. Once there, the Samaritan stayed with the individual, continually nursing them to good health. Finally, a promise to return and reward the Inn Keeper.

The parables of Jesus are not simple means of interpretation. There are complexities and truths drawn from each moment of meditation. The parable has some hidden and forgotten symbols that pertain to the plan of salvation (see, The Good Samaritan: Forgotten Symbols by John W. Welch).

Like Christ, we are called to labor in God's vineyard and Kingdom to heal those in need of healing. To restore them unto faithful service through repentance. Disciple and mentor them so they are spiritually disciplined in fulfilling their own oath and covenants of priesthood authority. Minister as the Savior has ministered to each one of us unto Salvation and Exaltation.

By nurturing and nourishing one another to heal through awareness of who they are, the potential of who they desire to become, and the nature and purpose of what our Heavenly Father and Christ expect of us - we come to grow and mature in healing, spiritual transformation, and overcome our past trauma's and dysfunction. One becomes a man of Godly purpose, significance, influence, and a true spiritual warrior -standing firm on the truth of Jesus Christ.